How long did it take for you to get the hang of the rhythm of fucking?

Contributor: Miss Madeline Miss Madeline
That seems like an odd question, but did you find yourself jerky and uncomfortable at first or did it come quite naturally?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
It felt natural right away.
51
It took me less than a month to get rhythm.
10
It took me more than a month to get rhythm.
2
It took 3-6 months.
1
It took 6 moths to a year.
1
I'm still a little spastic when I'm pegging someone.
10
Total votes: 75 (68 voters)
Poll is closed
02/07/2011
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02/07/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Even when it's permanently attached it takes a while to master the moves. Solo practice helps, but count on feeling clumsy for a while.
02/07/2011
Contributor: Miss Madeline Miss Madeline
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
Even when it's permanently attached it takes a while to master the moves. Solo practice helps, but count on feeling clumsy for a while.
Ok... Damn. I was really hoping that I'd experience a bit of a learning curve but eventually have something that even resembled rhythm.
02/07/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by Miss Madeline
Ok... Damn. I was really hoping that I'd experience a bit of a learning curve but eventually have something that even resembled rhythm.
You will, but it takes practice, so you'll just have to harness up and tell your partner that it's all for the greater good, right .

I'd say probably less than a month to get the basic thrust rhythm down, but every position variation has its own quirks that you'll have to work out. Darn it, more practice.
02/08/2011
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
It was natural in terms of physical rhythms and body movements.

It did take a few months before sex was comfrtable for me...I had a very painful cherry poping experience and sex was painful for a long while before it became pleasurable, but I didn't give up!
02/08/2011
Contributor: Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
Less then a month, but probably about a week since she was my first partner. :3
02/08/2011
Contributor: markeagleone markeagleone
Quote:
Originally posted by Miss Madeline
That seems like an odd question, but did you find yourself jerky and uncomfortable at first or did it come quite naturally?
I think it is natural to knnow how.
02/10/2011
Contributor: PussyGalore PussyGalore
According to my man, there was no learning curve for me. "You're a natural", was repeated with much enthusiasm. Watch porn and a lot of it. Pay attention to the way the guy is standing and how he holds his hips and where he places his hands when he's thrusting.
02/14/2011
Contributor: Collodion Collodion
Quote:
Originally posted by PussyGalore
According to my man, there was no learning curve for me. "You're a natural", was repeated with much enthusiasm. Watch porn and a lot of it. Pay attention to the way the guy is standing and how he holds his hips and where he places his ... more
Your advice is wonderful. Thanks.
03/09/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
I got the hang of it immediately... of course we all get better with practice.
03/09/2011
Contributor: Collodion Collodion
I'm actually still a bit spastic when it comes to my pegging rhythm, but I feel as though I'm getting better.

Practice makes perfect, eh?
03/16/2011
Contributor: soyandapplecrisp soyandapplecrisp
Came pretty naturally, but it makes sense, I think. Same kind of thrusting motions as when on top and the like. That's all it is, thrusting, only with a little friend at the end.
03/18/2011
Contributor: Miss Madeline Miss Madeline
Thanks all! I'm looking forward to more practice hehehe!
03/18/2011
Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
I've been doing it for over a year and I'm still a little twitchy on an off day. I'm sure he hardly notices, given how out-of-it he gets when I peg him, but for me it's frustrating because I feel like I'm not learning the things I should be learning by now.
03/25/2011
Contributor: sarki sarki
Like a duck to water
07/11/2011
Contributor: RainbowOokami RainbowOokami
Quote:
Originally posted by Miss Madeline
That seems like an odd question, but did you find yourself jerky and uncomfortable at first or did it come quite naturally?
It became more natural when listening to music it helped set a rhythm
07/12/2011
Contributor: LostBoy988 LostBoy988
Just went with the flow
07/12/2011
Contributor: Snozzberries Snozzberries
I like the advice of trying it with music. I am so going to give that a shot. I am ... quite the novice.
12/13/2011
Contributor: RemusHalifax RemusHalifax
We haven't had a chance to actually do it yet, but when we've practiced (gotten into position and started thrusting just for funsies), he's said that I'm going to be a natural. So, I have to assume I'll be good at doing it for reals, too. :3
12/20/2011
Contributor: damnbul12 damnbul12
Quote:
Originally posted by Miss Madeline
That seems like an odd question, but did you find yourself jerky and uncomfortable at first or did it come quite naturally?
It felt natural right away.
12/16/2012
Contributor: butts butts
As a transguy it feels pretty damn natural to me
12/16/2012
Contributor: spiced spiced
My wife had it (and me) nailed from day one. A couple of years before we tried pegging, we saw some random porn scene with an interview before the fucking started. The actress said the key to great fucking was to use only the muscles in your ASS for thrusting. We both took the lesson to heart!
01/03/2013
Contributor: tunacan75 tunacan75
Always room for improvement it seems haha
01/03/2013
Contributor: vanillaSpice vanillaSpice
I still have a few bumps here and there but for the most part it just comes naturally.
01/06/2013
Contributor: Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
My partner and I have only tried pegging twice, so, we're still working on the fucking rhythm business!
01/18/2013
Contributor: Fawkes Fawkes
If it happens on a regular basis I'm okay,but a little time away? I'm derping all over
03/13/2013
Contributor: twelve13 twelve13
Wielding a strapon always felt natural for me. But never at the receiving end.
03/14/2013