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Large diameter toy - can this be used in a harness?

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Contributor: Jenna@Tantus Jenna@Tantus
(Tantus)
Hi all, thanks in advance for any insight you might be able to offer.

Had someone ask if we knew of a harness that could be used with a Mr. Universe. I have asked all over the Internet, and came up with nothing. I thought I'd see if the experts that make up the EF community might know.

Some specs: this toy is close to 2 lbs in weight, and roughly 3.5" in diameter at the base. The only harness I've seen that even comes close maxes out at a 3" diameter toy. I also have doubts as to whether it's even possible, with a toy of this weight, to use it in a harness?

Let me know what you think.
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Engaging topic analysis of Strap on dildo:

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Like it says... how did you bring it up to your girlfriend that you wanted her to wear a strap-on?

Um, what does this toy do?
There needs to be a review for this, what is the control pack for and why is there a hole? Does it ejaculate? Does it vibrate? I'm confused.

Use of knee strap on
Has any one used a knee strap on? How does it compare to a traditional? Ackward?

New to strap-ons
My boyfriend and I are just trying out a strap-on and I'm a little nervous. I've never done it before, but I've always been interested in the thought

To the "pegger", what kind of enjoyment do you get?
I'm referring specifically to the person that wears the strap-on.
03/22/2013
Contributor: GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
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Originally posted by Jenna@Tantus
Hi all, thanks in advance for any insight you might be able to offer.

Had someone ask if we knew of a harness that could be used with a Mr. Universe. I have asked all over the Internet, and came up with nothing. I thought I'd see if the ... more
I know a woman that stretched the ring on her SpareParts joque harness to fit a very large dildo and she was able to use it with the harness. This was permanent though and after she damaged the ring she was no longer able to use the more common size dildos that the harness is designed to accommodate.

I don't know the exact diameter or weight of the dildo she has so it could be possible that hers is still smaller than the one you're referring to.
03/22/2013
Contributor: PassionCpl PassionCpl
Owning maybe half a dozen harnesses, I'd say something like the Low-rise leather harness might be a good place to start since that will hold a larger dildo closer to the body than the others we own (Joque, RodeoH, Sasha, Bend Over Kit, etc), then find a replacement ring to fit. I just tried several places (they're not easy to come across are they?) but found a seller on eBay selling Nickel-plated 3.5" diameter o-rings (I won't share the link but a search using that description should bring back some results).


03/22/2013
Contributor: MrWill MrWill
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Originally posted by PassionCpl
Owning maybe half a dozen harnesses, I'd say something like the Low-rise leather harness might be a good place to start since that will hold a larger dildo closer to the body than the others we own (Joque, RodeoH, Sasha, Bend Over Kit, etc), then ... more
I think this would probably be the best way to go here.
03/22/2013
Contributor: PassionCpl PassionCpl
You know, we just jumped in and didn't even pay attention to the fact that it was you Jenna, sorry! It doesn't surprise us that you're going the extra mile for your customers
03/22/2013
Contributor: ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
PassionCpl is totally right! Buy a nice sturdy harness that sits very close to the body. You can even go to some hardware stores to find replacement o rings that will be big enough. Or obviously, an ebay or google search will bring you to some.
03/22/2013
Contributor: eri86 eri86
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Originally posted by MrWill
I think this would probably be the best way to go here.
Ditto.
03/23/2013
Contributor: stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
You won't be able to get it into any of the SpareParts harness' as the ORing is fixed and not removable, unless you alter it, but I doubt you would be able to get it back into working order with ease.
03/23/2013
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Latigo Leather should work, as would the Aslan Commando and other ones where the O-ring is directly connected to the straps rather than having the connection go to a pad (like the Aslan Jaguar). For a dildo that big I'd look for steel rings to give a little more sturdiness.

Whoever's on the other end of that combo is experienced and brave. Hope it feels great for both of you.
03/23/2013
Contributor: Jenna@Tantus Jenna@Tantus
(Tantus)
You all are awesome! I knew that you'd have great suggestions. And Scott, you are totally right, this is such an advanced-level kinda question even I was a bit out of my element.
03/25/2013
Contributor: Jenna@Tantus Jenna@Tantus
(Tantus)
Quote:
Originally posted by PassionCpl
You know, we just jumped in and didn't even pay attention to the fact that it was you Jenna, sorry! It doesn't surprise us that you're going the extra mile for your customers
Thanks for the compliment, too. I hate (like capital H HATE) not being able to help a customer with a valid question. And my google-fu skills are only so strong...thanks for the suggestion.
03/25/2013