Hi all
I'm thinking about buying the Joque harness. I've read good reviews about it, but just wanted to ask, for those that have used it, does it really hold a dildo in place well? I want to be able to do hard, fast thrusting and in at least a few different positions.
I have a Vac U Lock system before and hated it. It was a nylon strap one and it didn't work one bit. It wasn't even strong enough to hold up the dildo is was supplied with. No matter how tight you tightened it, it'd loosen with the weight of the dildo before you even did anything, and the dildo would hang limp, leaving a large gap between it and your pelvis at the top, and digging the base plate in at the bottom.
Another thing I hated about it - the base plate. If I held the dildo on my in place while on my back, and my girlfriend straddled me, it hurt badly. Just cut into my pelvic bone.
So basically, I don't want a repeat of that
Sorry for the long post, and thanks for reading!
~Jules
I'm thinking about buying the Joque harness. I've read good reviews about it, but just wanted to ask, for those that have used it, does it really hold a dildo in place well? I want to be able to do hard, fast thrusting and in at least a few different positions.
I have a Vac U Lock system before and hated it. It was a nylon strap one and it didn't work one bit. It wasn't even strong enough to hold up the dildo is was supplied with. No matter how tight you tightened it, it'd loosen with the weight of the dildo before you even did anything, and the dildo would hang limp, leaving a large gap between it and your pelvis at the top, and digging the base plate in at the bottom.
Another thing I hated about it - the base plate. If I held the dildo on my in place while on my back, and my girlfriend straddled me, it hurt badly. Just cut into my pelvic bone.
So basically, I don't want a repeat of that
Sorry for the long post, and thanks for reading!
~Jules