Informative topic breakdown of Pegging:

Advanced (!!!) pegging
Has anyone done or been ever done by something like this? It doesn't look like fun to me....

Are you picky about the color of your anal toys?
We love anal toys that look....well, toy-like. Especially for pegging. I don't want anything that looks too real, and nor does he. We like candy...

Vibrating Leo
Has anyone else tried Vibrating Leo for pegging? We have just purchased one , but I am having trouble taking it all even when it is well lubricated...

I need some advice about pegging!
My boyfriend and I interested in trying pegging. What dildos and p-spot massagers do you suggest using as we work our way up?

How different is pegging from anal sex?
i've been interested in pegging for a long time, and ive only been masturbating anally for a few weeks. how different is pegging from solo play?

Well, first, go slow!

If you partner is new to anal, don't start off with pegging. Get yourself some gloves (either latex or nitrile), first. Gloves spare him your nails, and you his germs. Also is makes lube last longer, and clean up easier. I suggest these. Remember to get the right size! Get yourself some lube, too! My personal favorite is the Good Vibes house brand, because it's nice and thick, and is super body-safe. If you want to stick with EF, may I suggest Sliquid Organics Gel? It's apparently a bit runnier, but it's still a very good lube.

Start by just pressing your lubed up finger against his ass. When he's relaxed, slowly, slowly start inserting it. Use way more lube than you think you need to. Slowly build up the number of fingers he can take, and how far he can take them. This make take several sessions. When he's ready for pegging, pick a smallish strap on dildo (and a good harness), and prepare him with extra diligence and lube. When you enter him, don't thrust at first, let him get used to you. When he's ready, start thrusting slowly, speeding up when he asks you too.

I would suggest you pick a silicone dildo, because it's a non-porous, very body-safe material, but it isn't hard, like glass or metal. Here are some nice options: Toy Five small, Spur, and my favorite (though unfortunately currently out of stock) Boy 1.

Finding a harness to fit can be a pain, but we've had great luck with the bare as you dare harness. If you want something a bit more sturdy, and with pockets for bullet vibes, you can spring for a Joque harness (regular] or large.

Good luck!


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Sounds like your question may be one of technique. If so, I can see why. Hip thrusting isn't something women do often - and positioning of the guy can also be a challenge.

I have an anal positions book from Tristan Taormino link- but if you're in a hurry, just Google some pegging porn and watch some of the free clips out there - you can see a wide range of possibilities and choose the one that looks right to you.

Be aware - start with something much smaller than you see in porn. Whether they are amateurs or pros - the porn genre leans towards toy too large for beginners.

Good luck and enjoy the journey!

Once you get inserted and everyone's warmed up it can be fun to roll over to a spooning/side-to-side position so you can masturbate him.

For insertion you don't want to have anyone touching his penis - many people tend to tense up their anus with genital stimulation.

Do some practice jack-off sessions to learn how to thrust with your hips.

Note - it will probably feel better for him if you use long strokes and set up your equipment so the dildo presses against his prostate with each thrust.

wow this is going to help me so much thankyou. is the fun factory share- the small one any good? i mean the dildo is only like 3 inches long