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Honestly (Guys) - who was the first to be curious?

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Contributor: KinkyKatiya KinkyKatiya
Who was the first one to be curious about anal play. you or your woman?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
you
68  (81%)
woman
16  (19%)
Total votes: 84
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05/27/2012
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05/27/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife has been a reluctant participant since day 1. Even though I've been able to use anal play to enhance her orgasms - she still resists.
05/27/2012
Contributor: Badass Badass
When I tried it, my man encouraged it, not me.
05/27/2012
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
I was curious before I even met the wife, I hinted about it for years before she finally came around to doing it to me. Still working on pegging though, she has no desire to wear a strap on.
05/27/2012
Contributor: LoveYouLikeThat LoveYouLikeThat
My husband wants it. I dont.
05/27/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
I was.
05/27/2012
Contributor: bend over hottie bend over hottie
My boyfriend was the first to bring it up and I was to reluctant.

I seem to like it as much, if not more then he does now! I find it a huge turn on!
05/27/2012
Contributor: bend over hottie bend over hottie
My boyfriend was the first to bring it up and I was to reluctant.

I seem to like it as much, if not more then he does now! I find it a huge turn on!
05/27/2012
Contributor: squire squire
I brought it up and am a big fan of it. My partner seems to be a bit reluctant, though has indulged me from time to time. My partner does enjoy anal play, though, so I can't complain too much.
05/28/2012
Contributor: digit88 digit88
Quote:
Originally posted by KinkyKatiya
Who was the first one to be curious about anal play. you or your woman?
my gf was very hesitant but now can't get enough.
05/28/2012
Contributor: robertk2380 robertk2380
My wife was very hesitant, but was willing to try it. I originally raised the idea. Now she's the one who suggests it from time to time.
05/30/2012
Contributor: Sauceboss Sauceboss
I think i was
05/30/2012
Contributor: G&L G&L
I was but we did stumble upon it at the same time.
06/01/2012
Contributor: 31 Flavors 31 Flavors
Me.
06/08/2012
Contributor: J5ive J5ive
I believe it was me
06/08/2012
Contributor: pootpootpoot pootpootpoot
Wait, by anal play do you mean playing with the woman or the man?
06/08/2012
Contributor: lisasharrer lisasharrer
Quote:
Originally posted by KinkyKatiya
Who was the first one to be curious about anal play. you or your woman?
men was
06/08/2012
Contributor: amazon amazon
But now it's great both everyone! ;-)
06/08/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by KinkyKatiya
Who was the first one to be curious about anal play. you or your woman?
I brought it up and my partner wasn't into it at all
06/09/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Me, being the wife, was. Though I think it was in his mind, he'll probably never admit it.
06/09/2012
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I like to buy new things to keep it interesting so I bought it first.
06/09/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Guy first here.
06/10/2012
Contributor: PassionCpl PassionCpl
Me (woman). I'd always wanted to try it and never found the right person. I guess I'm one of those seemingly rare girls who likes it almost as much as guys do. If it's done right and nice and slow it can be mind-blowing
06/12/2012
Contributor: digit88 digit88
Quote:
Originally posted by KinkyKatiya
Who was the first one to be curious about anal play. you or your woman?
me (guy)
06/12/2012
Contributor: Mwar Mwar
We both hinted a bit back and forth, he was more reluctant. Now he seems to like it a bit more every time we do it.
06/19/2012
Contributor: playsalot playsalot
It was me in our case I had to get her into the idea. It would be better if she was a little more inthusiastic about it.
06/20/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by KinkyKatiya
Who was the first one to be curious about anal play. you or your woman?
Hard one to answer for us. Mr. Bignuf here, since you ask for GUYS. Fact is, we BOTH were experienced with anal play coming into our relationship. In our relationship, the first time we made love we had spent the day together, and ended up spending the night. We were already "best friends" so we BOTH knew what the other was "into" having discussed it for YEARS (never thinking WE would be in bed TOGETHER). Anyway, our "first time", best as we can remember, started with HER going down on me, me going down on her, then a bit of 69, and since it was unplanned...and we had no condoms, and she was not on the pill yet (she ended up on the Pill in DAYS after that), she took my penis in her hand and directed it right to her anus...first time out. We had some KY Jelly (the original tube stuff), for some reason (had lube but no condoms, and neither of us remembers why...it was over 40 years ago)...but I guess, therefore, SHE was the one who "started" anal play in our relationship.

I can tell you for certain, however, that in EARLIER relationships, I was the one who was educated in the ways of anal play by some older, VERY experienced ladies and in Mrs. Bignufs dating days, SHE suggested it to an earlier boyfriend after reading about it...she thinks, in Penthouse Forum's little mini magazine they used to have. No photos, just "sex letters". She loved that little magazine for YEARS.
06/20/2012
Contributor: Life's Little Secrets Life's Little Secrets
My gf was reluctant at first, I eventually talked her into it but we have only done it a few times, it isn't our favorite.
06/21/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
We were both equally curious I think but I brought it up first.
06/21/2012