Harnesses for dummies!

Contributor: Mitzuki Mitzuki
I'm a total newbie when it comes to harnesses. I'm looking into getting one that's comfortable and good for a beginner like me, as to not scare me away from them. Does anyone have any suggestions on some nice ones?
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Perceptive forum discussions on Dildo harness:

Stormy Days Ahead?(Stormy's metallic g-string harness)
I'm really really thinking of buying this harness with the strap-on, if only because my wife and I need one to replace our Girls Shorts harness and...

Which is the best strap on vibrator - vibrations, quiet and body safe wise?
I've never owned one of these strap on butterfly type vibes but thinking of expanding my toy range. I'm after suggestions from others who have tried..

best harness
what is the bst harness you have used?

Best strap-on (with or without a dildo) for under $50?
I was looking at the Inked restraints tattoo harness and was wondering what the best dildo would be to use for this. Then I was reading the reviews,.

stuck with vac u lock, would prefer o-ring i think
Is there anyway, with an adapter or something, to use a vac u lock harness with o-ring compatible toys?
02/24/2013
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
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Originally posted by Mitzuki
I'm a total newbie when it comes to harnesses. I'm looking into getting one that's comfortable and good for a beginner like me, as to not scare me away from them. Does anyone have any suggestions on some nice ones?
I would suggest the RodeOh harnesses: link. They are easy to use and comfortable to wear. The main negative for me is that there is no access to the wearer.
02/24/2013
Contributor: Loriandhubby Loriandhubby
the rodeoh is a great harness. however, i prefer the simply vegan harness by aslan leather. it is nylon and comfortable to wear, easy to adjust, and has access to your lady bits.
02/24/2013
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Anything by Aslan or SpareParts (except the packers) or SportSheets' better harnesses is what I'd go for. Double strap or one of the pants models.
02/25/2013
Contributor: oldkinky oldkinky
Quote:
Originally posted by Mitzuki
I'm a total newbie when it comes to harnesses. I'm looking into getting one that's comfortable and good for a beginner like me, as to not scare me away from them. Does anyone have any suggestions on some nice ones?
My wife and I use Buzz Me Tender harness. It is great and has pouches for two small vibrators for clit stimulation. She always cums a couple o times when she pegs me. Another that is also goo is Bend Over Beginner. Also has a harness vibrator. Our favorite dildos ar Vibrating Mistress and Vibrating Leisure.
02/25/2013
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
The RodeoH and Spareparts are my vote! They're both hella comfortable and require no effort to get on/get your dildo into them.
02/27/2013
Contributor: misterazor misterazor
Quote:
Originally posted by Mitzuki
I'm a total newbie when it comes to harnesses. I'm looking into getting one that's comfortable and good for a beginner like me, as to not scare me away from them. Does anyone have any suggestions on some nice ones?
i'll be watching this one as well. looking for similar info.
02/27/2013
Contributor: Mitzuki Mitzuki
Thanks everyone! I'm definitely looking into all of the suggestions! I'll be looking for more too, because this isn't something I'm investing in right away. :3
02/27/2013
Contributor: spiced spiced
When you're ready to invest in a high-quality harness, you can't go wrong with a SpareParts Joque. It's comfortable, secure, compatible with a wide range of dildo diameters - and fits a wide range of body sizes, too. It's my wife's favorite harness. Unfortunately, it's sold out at the moment, but it's usually restocked pretty quickly.

We can also recommend the ASLAN Jaguar from personal experience, and, as of this moment, it's in stock (in black). It's not as easy to adjust as the Joque, but it's very comfortable and secure (and it looks SO sexy!).
02/27/2013