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Contributor: Kat Shanahan Kat Shanahan
I've never owned a harness before, but I do own a packing dildo (Mr. Right.) I've never actually been able to wear the dildo because it's really too heavy to wear without something to hold it in place.

My problem with picking out a harness is that I am currently in the process of losing weight. I've lost 30 pounds so far and I'm hoping to lose another 50 before I'm done. And I'm worried that any harness I buy *now* will not fit once I'm done losing weight. I need one, I guess, that is comfortable, that will hold a dildo with balls, and that is adjustable (this is the most important aspect.) I'd also like one that could be worn underneath clothing (or even a pair of briefs) without being too obvious.

I'm great when it comes to picking out toys, but I really suck at this business of picking out harnesses. I'd like to have a really good one, and I don't want to buy one if it will be no good to me in six months' time.

Does anyone have any recommendations/sugges tions?
06/14/2011
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Contributor: Kindred Kindred
We have the SpareParts Joque harness link and I think it would work well for you. It is made of spandex and nylon and can accommodate up to a 50" waist. It is very comfortable and wears like a bathing suit and is waterproof. It's a double strap harness design and very adjustable. The O ring is rubber and so can accommodate a variety of dildo sizes. There is also a large version link that can fit 35" to 65" waists.
06/14/2011
Contributor: Kat Shanahan Kat Shanahan
Quote:
Originally posted by Kindred
We have the SpareParts Joque harness link and I think it would work well for you. It is made of spandex and nylon and can accommodate up to a 50" waist. It is very comfortable and wears like a bathing suit and is waterproof. It's a double ... more
Thank you! This is just the type I'm looking for.
06/14/2011
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
Glad I could help. I think you will like the Joque very much.
06/14/2011
Contributor: stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
The Joque as a harness is great, it will hold the dildo, but the balls will not be on the outside. It is a very comfortable harness and can be worn under clothing
06/15/2011
Contributor: Kat Shanahan Kat Shanahan
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Originally posted by stlouisxxx
The Joque as a harness is great, it will hold the dildo, but the balls will not be on the outside. It is a very comfortable harness and can be worn under clothing
Yeah, I know that the balls won't be on the outside. Kind of disappointing, but then, you can't have everything, I suppose.
06/16/2011
Contributor: DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
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Originally posted by Kat Shanahan
Yeah, I know that the balls won't be on the outside. Kind of disappointing, but then, you can't have everything, I suppose.
The Goodfella allows for the testicles to be on the outside!
06/16/2011
Contributor: Peg Peg
Quote:
Originally posted by Kindred
We have the SpareParts Joque harness link and I think it would work well for you. It is made of spandex and nylon and can accommodate up to a 50" waist. It is very comfortable and wears like a bathing suit and is waterproof. It's a double ... more
In your opinion will the Spare Parts work with a double ended dildo; we have The Share and are considering a harness for the extra support during those extra vigorous thrusting occasions
06/26/2011
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
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Originally posted by Peg
In your opinion will the Spare Parts work with a double ended dildo; we have The Share and are considering a harness for the extra support during those extra vigorous thrusting occasions
We use the Nexus Sr. with the Joque and it works great.
06/26/2011
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
Quote:
Originally posted by DeliciousSurprise
The Goodfella allows for the testicles to be on the outside!
I think they were referring to Mr. Right, the packing dildo. But yes, the Goodfella also works well with the Joque.
06/26/2011
Contributor: DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
Quote:
Originally posted by Kindred
I think they were referring to Mr. Right, the packing dildo. But yes, the Goodfella also works well with the Joque.
Oops.

Sorry.
06/26/2011
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
I should have also mentioned that if you're only looking for a harness for Mr. Right, there is a specific packing harness for it: Mr. Right packing strap. However, it is designed only for packing dildos.
06/26/2011
Contributor: Peg Peg
Quote:
Originally posted by Kindred
We use the Nexus Sr. with the Joque and it works great.
Thanks for the input, the Nexus Sr seems to have a well defined head.
06/26/2011
Contributor: Peg Peg
Quote:
Originally posted by Kindred
We use the Nexus Sr. with the Joque and it works great.
Thanks for the input, the Nexus Sr seems to have a well defined head.
06/26/2011