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The Nexus line is very good for g-spot stimulation of the wearer and p-spot stimulation for you. The Feeldoe does with with a harness, but the Commando is a bit harder to fit with those because there isn't much to it.

Here are some that are fairly good sized on both ends:

Nexus Jr.
New "Sysil Edge"
Feeldoe Slim

Since I need to get to sleep, I will suggest these at the moment, as they are in a mid to low price range and should give you a short, quick use.

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In addition to these links, I wanted to ask you, why are you trying out a double-ended dildo, as all of them are high price range, if you do not know if it will be pleasurable? Those are extremely expensive, and I actually recommend just using a dildo inside of your partner and allowing her to hold it in with the strap of the harness.

There are a couple of different options. While I haven't tried out a Feeldoe yet, I've heard that they can sometimes be a bit uncomfortable because they're a bit stiff. I do have a Nexus, and while it's a bigger model I can say that the silicone used in the Nexi is very comfortable and soft, and the Nexus Junior is long enough to be usable for pegging (I think that's what you're planning, but remind me if it's a different activity).

Another possibility, which sadly isn't sold by Eden, is the Aslan Leather "Double Up Cuff", which allows you to choose two single-ended dildos and attach them together. It isn't quite as good as a double, but it does allow each of you to choose your ideal dildo and use it as a double.

The one thing to keep in mind is to ensure that your harness has a removable back pad or a hole that goes all the way through. Most mid=priced and better harnesses do, and a number of the less-expensive ones as well (Bare As You Dare does, but personally I prefer the additional control and security of a jock-style harness (as does my partner)).

thanks! yeah we are probably going to start with a commando and a tantus acute dildo. I was just thinking maybe if she wants more stimulation after we grow into pegging, a double would be fun. just wondering which onesmight fit best with it

All of the Outlaw Leather harnesses like Syd, Annie O, Pretty Boi, Missy G, Clyde, etc have the capacity to wear one or two dildos, each of your own choice. You may want something like Acute or curve on one end, and silk or Tiger or Vamp or something else on the other side. A good harness makes all the difference in the world. The Seatle Outlaw Leather line can also hold a Feeldoe or double edge like that too.

I just bought a feeldoe for the wifey. We plan on using it with the Commando

I've been trying to convince the wife to try a double ender, any tips?