Harness and dildo suggestions for my wife

Contributor: Bill220 Bill220
I think we are finally going to cross the threshold into pegging (YAY!!) and we need harness suggestions. I don't want to spend a lot of money on this one in case she decides she doesn't like pegging. I already know that I'll like it, lol.

My wife is 5'8" and is a big woman. Her jeans size is 18. I prefer large anal toys, both in circumference and length. I can easily take the Tantus Cisco to the next to last ring but I'm not real fond of the rings on this thing so I'm looking for suggestions for dildo's, too.
12/04/2012
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Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Dildos: if you don't mind realistic, O2 Max and Vixen Outlaw are both great, bigger dildos. Tantus General (and the sadly discontinuted Captain/Squirt) are a bit smaller but also very nice larger anal dildos. Beyond that you'll probably have to go to a specialty store catering to those who like larger dildos.

Harness: get something decent. Sportsheets Latigo Leather or Aslan Commando are both nice and mid-priced.

Shop together - you both need to be comfortable with the selections.
12/04/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
If you are looking for an affordable harness...this one is a good one. That will accommodate your wives size. So would this one.

I think ScottA gave great suggestions on dildos. The General is my lust for size. The Fleshlight Freaks dildos are girthy too.
12/05/2012
Contributor: Bill220 Bill220
Thanks Scott.

I'm not looking for anything huge but definitely on the larger size. I think I can find something on here.

I like the idea of shopping together.
12/05/2012
Contributor: Bill220 Bill220
Quote:
Originally posted by Beck
If you are looking for an affordable harness...this one is a good one. That will accommodate your wives size. So would this one.

I think ScottA gave great suggestions on dildos. The General is my lust for size. The Fleshlight Freaks dildos ... more
Thanks Beck!
12/06/2012
Contributor: Bill220 Bill220
Well, things didn't work out the way I'd hoped so I won't be needing a harness.
12/11/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
Dang, sorry to hear that
12/11/2012