Guys with ED -- Commando vs Spareparts Deuce?

Contributor: lilswizzlestick lilswizzlestick
Has anyone had experience comparing the leather Commando harness vs the fabric Spareparts Deuce harness?

My partner and I are having beginning conversations about using harnesses and strap-ons as part of our sex life. Any information or experiences that guys with ED might be comfortable sharing, would be very welcome! Thanks so much for your thoughts! I think it would make sense to try out using a dildo before using the harness and dildo together for instance, as a way to get comfortable.
07/16/2016
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Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Quote:
Originally posted by lilswizzlestick
Has anyone had experience comparing the leather Commando harness vs the fabric Spareparts Deuce harness?

My partner and I are having beginning conversations about using harnesses and strap-ons as part of our sex life. Any information or ... more
We (my wife and I) have used the SpareParts Deuce male harness often enough that we can recommend it. The Commando I have no experience with so cannot say anything about that one.
07/16/2016
Contributor: Gyrator Gyrator
Quote:
Originally posted by lilswizzlestick
Has anyone had experience comparing the leather Commando harness vs the fabric Spareparts Deuce harness?

My partner and I are having beginning conversations about using harnesses and strap-ons as part of our sex life. Any information or ... more
The Deuce is good (if rather expensive). My only minor issue is that the spare doubled back parts of the waist-band need to be tucked under the belt neatly after the harness is pulled on (I have been meaning to add some belt loops to do this but have not got around to it which means its not that much of an issue). It's well made and should last a very long time.

The only other harness I have is the Double Trouble by Stormy Leather which is also very good but not quite as comfortable as the Deuce.
08/20/2016
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I use dildos for my wife ALL the time. She is multi-orgasmic - so there's no way I can deliver 3-6 orgasms per session without toys. However neither of us have considered me using a harness to deliver the goods - it's all done manually - albeit in a variety of positions.

We don't see anything wrong with a man using a harness - we've just gotten into a different habit. If she asked me to - I would go with leather - it's just my style.

Best of luck and enjoy the experiences - trying out some of these things takes a helping of laughter - keep smiling
08/23/2016