For the guys - Do you prefer a realistic dildo or non realistic dildo while getting pegged?

Contributor: null null
I voted for my partner, he used to be really against realistic toys, but he's since gotten less embarrassed about enjoying pegging so now he has no preference. Whatever feels good, feels good!
08/12/2011
Contributor: extrafun extrafun
I have never been pegged but would like to try it, and I think I want the feel the more realistic thing.
08/12/2011
Contributor: Bottom Boy Bottom Boy
Speaking on my girlfriend's behalf (and with her permission, of course), I have to say that the sight of what looks like a real-live erect cock emerging from her crotch send shivers up and down her spine -- so she tells me. The clitoral stimulation that she receives from contact with the strap-on as well as from the weight of the dildo, and the labia-rubbing gyrations involved in the physical act of pegging are enough to give her the kind of extreme sexual rush that leaves her totally drained and exhausted.
08/12/2011
Contributor: The Honeymooners The Honeymooners
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Originally posted by extrafun
I have never been pegged but would like to try it, and I think I want the feel the more realistic thing.
It is quite a fun experience.
08/13/2011
Contributor: toysforall toysforall
DEFINITELY non realistic. I want the feeling of it, not the thought of a penis in there.
08/17/2011
Contributor: PuddlePuppy PuddlePuppy
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Originally posted by stlouisxxx
In the private voting, I am wondering if the guys who are getting pegged would rather have their woman wear a realistic dildo, or have a non penis looking dildo in their harness, or if they don't care.
I enjoy there being realism. The balls being there is just nice, visual aid to the gender role reversal. Plus veins and mild elasticity near the surface is an added bonus with sensation.
08/18/2011
Contributor: oldkinky oldkinky
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Originally posted by Mr. & Mrs. Peg
Love a realistic cock...adds to the visual. Prefer the good fella most of all.
We both kove realistic. I love seeing her wearing a realistic dildo and she gets turned on by "her dick".
08/18/2011
Contributor: Bottom Boy Bottom Boy
Nice to see there are several guys and couples out there who are open to trying something more adventurous. Glad my lady and I are in such good company.
08/22/2011
Contributor: MR Chickhabit MR Chickhabit
i couldn't care less about what a toy looks like. for ME the toy becomes great when it FEELS great.

Vixskin is the best material ever conceived and all vixskin toys are super realistic.
10/15/2011
Contributor: Errant Venture Errant Venture
I prefer non-realistic. I just don't find penises all that attractive.
10/15/2011
Contributor: RockinWithKropotkin RockinWithKropotkin
i personally dont care what it is, as long as it feels good. i also hope no one prefers one because of what it looks like. who cares if it resembles a dick or not, im a straight male, but still do anal. its what feels comfortable.
10/15/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by stlouisxxx
In the private voting, I am wondering if the guys who are getting pegged would rather have their woman wear a realistic dildo, or have a non penis looking dildo in their harness, or if they don't care.
Fantasy look AND color. It is a TOY for prostate pleasure. Since I am hetero, I do NOT want a "cock" back there. My wife is also NOT into "having a penis"....she is into having a TOY she can use with her hips and still have hands free to play!!!! All good.
11/04/2011
Contributor: Katastophy Katastophy
Wow, I never expected these results. Interesting to see.
11/04/2011
Contributor: squire squire
I tend to enjoy realistic due to the materials being softer and with more flex. I enjoy the power exchange, and there is just something that feels powerful about the experience when it's more realistic, but I'll take shape and comfort over anything else
11/06/2011
Contributor: PassionCpl PassionCpl
No preference here, despite being bi.
11/09/2011
Contributor: DiscretionAdvised DiscretionAdvised
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Originally posted by stlouisxxx
In the private voting, I am wondering if the guys who are getting pegged would rather have their woman wear a realistic dildo, or have a non penis looking dildo in their harness, or if they don't care.
I never have indulged in the ancient art of pegging, but if I were to, it would be with as non-realistic dildo as possible.

In fact, I'm not a fan of disembodied penis's of any sort (or for that matter, "realistic" vaginas). It just seems creepy.
11/09/2011
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
Initially my bf would only consider a not realistic dil but now he prefers realistic. but not with balls. If but he picks it, it is usually the Leo.
11/09/2011
Contributor: The Honeymooners The Honeymooners
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Originally posted by toysforall
DEFINITELY non realistic. I want the feeling of it, not the thought of a penis in there.
I agree, it is the role reversal that I am into. Just the thought of my girl dominating me once in a while gives a nice flip to what normally happens.
11/13/2011
Contributor: stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
We have just ordered the Feeldoe More. The other day after getting pegged my girlfriend stated she wanted a Feeldoe. It isn't a realistic looking dildo, but it will be our 1st with a pronounced head on it.
11/29/2011
Contributor: allinonekid allinonekid
well considering I like the real thing anyway, I'd have to say a realistic one
11/29/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by stlouisxxx
We have just ordered the Feeldoe More. The other day after getting pegged my girlfriend stated she wanted a Feeldoe. It isn't a realistic looking dildo, but it will be our 1st with a pronounced head on it.
Heads can be very fun, but do experiment with positioning. I find that with the Feeldoe's stiffness some positions are uncomfortable while others feel great.
11/29/2011
Contributor: stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
We have experimented with many positions with the Feeldoe More. My girlfriend took 1 look at it after it arrived and told me which end will Not enter her. It is bigger than I thought, but after warm up it feels really good. It is more flexible than I thought it would be.
12/07/2011
Contributor: Husband and Wife Husband and Wife
At first I did not want a realistic one because I didnt want something that looks like a real cock in me, but now i love it when my wife swings he face cock at me
12/09/2011
Contributor: NightKat NightKat
I have to go with non-realistic just because I'm not a fan of flesh tones. I like color in my toy box! That and I see my own piece all the time, variety is always nice.
12/11/2011
Contributor: McTavishes McTavishes
Having the strap-on look real is a big part of the humiliation aspect for me. So yeah...realistic all the way.
12/12/2011
Contributor: Masokisti Masokisti
Well, it really depends what im in the mood for during that specific night. Because right now, the realistic one we have is much bigger then the non-realistic ones. But it really doesn't matter as long as I enjoy it
12/12/2011
Contributor: Yojimbo42 Yojimbo42
When I first started playing with toys I feigned more interest in the unrealistic looking dildos/toys.. Embarrassingly, I think this was because I was worried I would be slowly admitting I was gay for liking the penisy looking ones..

After growing up a bit I realized that I can want to simulate sex with a man without being gay, that penises are fun, and a well crafted penis is a sight to behold. Especially the big'uns.

Seriously. Bam makes for great shelf ornamentation.
12/15/2011
Contributor: hersubtoy hersubtoy
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Originally posted by stlouisxxx
In the private voting, I am wondering if the guys who are getting pegged would rather have their woman wear a realistic dildo, or have a non penis looking dildo in their harness, or if they don't care.
Realistic, the bigger the better. Since we don't get out to play and I don't get the real thing she abuses me and reminds me what I'm missing.
01/08/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
I like something that looks cute on her.
01/17/2012
Contributor: oldkinky oldkinky
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Originally posted by Stinkytofu10
I like something that looks cute on her.
I agree. So erotic to see her wearing the strap on. She rubs lube on the dildo and talks dirty about her dick. We like a harness with a vibrator to stimulate her clitoris while she does me. There are several that have vibrators. We use Buzz Me Tender harness.
01/17/2012