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Contributor: lolisadist lolisadist
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Sophia's red rider
Me and my girlfriend have been sorting of venturing off into some new things and she mentioned using a strap-on on me (i'm male)

Being completely new to this what would be a good choice? This wouldn't be the first time we have done anal penetration so I guess i'm looking for something that's mid-range but more importantly something that is easy to use and comfortable for her.

Any help would be appreciated
03/06/2013
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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Contributor: married with children married with children
a high quality leather one is your best bet.
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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
We actually like the RodeoH line of briefs and panties. My wife isn't a fan of the leather harness - so this is the next best thing. They are really comfortable and easy yo put on and take off.
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Contributor: charletnarouh charletnarouh
i second the RodeoH's. Very comfortable and easy.
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Contributor: ScottA ScottA
If you haven't done anything anal then start there before throwing the harness into the mix. Start with fingers or a small toy, then choose the dildo you want to use in the harness. Get one with a curve (for better prostate stimulation) and at least 1.5" in diameter and 5.5" long.

Once you have that, play with it handheld first. If you like that and want to go for pegging then get your harness. Go ahead and get a good one, since a cheap harness is frustrating for all concerned. Sportsheets, Aslan, SpareParts all make good harnesses. Get a "Jock" style (2-strap).
03/28/2013
Contributor: SaddleUp SaddleUp
Quote:
Originally posted by lolisadist
Me and my girlfriend have been sorting of venturing off into some new things and she mentioned using a strap-on on me (i'm male)

Being completely new to this what would be a good choice? This wouldn't be the first time we have done ... more
My girlfriend and I own a Spareparts Joque Harness. Although it is a bit pricey its worth every penny and can transition well between first timers and seasoned vets in the strap-on world. I'd highly recommend it as it is comfortable, easy to clean and care for, very well crafted, and sturdy.
03/29/2013
Contributor: Cincinnati Cincinnati
Quote:
Originally posted by lolisadist
Me and my girlfriend have been sorting of venturing off into some new things and she mentioned using a strap-on on me (i'm male)

Being completely new to this what would be a good choice? This wouldn't be the first time we have done ... more
Like stated before, try something more manual first. That way you can get the hang of what you like. Otherwise, it is a waste of time.

IMHO, Unless you have done your research, anal is messy and unless you clean yourself out completely, it will not be as fun the first time and she will probably not want to 'do you' again.
03/29/2013
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by Cincinnati
Like stated before, try something more manual first. That way you can get the hang of what you like. Otherwise, it is a waste of time.

IMHO, Unless you have done your research, anal is messy and unless you clean yourself out completely, it ... more
Depends on your body, but I would recommend taking a few minutes in the bathroom to check and see if you're clean using a finger or toy before bending over for her. If things don't seem clean you need to decide if you want to put it off or use an enema to clean out (if you do use an enema then use only warm water (no soap or chemicals) and use as little as possible. A couple of 6-10 oz squirts usually works fine. Wait about an hour before playing around so any leftover water gets absorbed by your body.
03/30/2013
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by lolisadist
Me and my girlfriend have been sorting of venturing off into some new things and she mentioned using a strap-on on me (i'm male)

Being completely new to this what would be a good choice? This wouldn't be the first time we have done ... more
I actually love my red rider, and it was affordable for testing the waters!
04/05/2013
Contributor: oldkinky oldkinky
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Originally posted by ScottA
Depends on your body, but I would recommend taking a few minutes in the bathroom to check and see if you're clean using a finger or toy before bending over for her. If things don't seem clean you need to decide if you want to put it off or ... more
I always use a Fleet Enema with plain water before pegging. 3-4 squirts usually clean me out. Then shower. Without doing this a mess is almost guaranteed. It is amazing the amount of precum I produce when I use the enema.
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