The New Intimacy

Featured by EdenFantasys

Strap-on sex toys
Strap on dildos
Buying a Dildo for Strap-On Play
Buying a Dildo
for Strap-On Play
Explore Now
Cloud 9
Strap on dildos

First experience?

Skip to last post
Set alerts
Updates
Forum search
Contributor: Rraine Rraine
Was your first experience nerve wrecking?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I was very nervous my first time
32  (52%)
I was not nervous my first time
19  (31%)
Other: please explain
11  (18%)
Total votes: 62
Poll is closed
12/12/2012
  • Upgrade Your Hands-Free Play!
  • Long-distance pleasure set for couples
  • Save Extra 20% On Love Cushion And Toy Set!
  • Complete strap-on set for extra 15% off
  • Save 50% On Shower Nozzle With Enema Set
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
All promotions
Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Insightful topic debates on Strap on dildo:

What is the right strap on for a lesbian?
i am having a hard time finding the right one

Guys and strap-ons
Hey. I am a guy and sadly enough I often times don't last long enough for the lady in my life. Of course I make sure she isn't left hanging, but the...

Strap on Porn
So, I normally dont watch women wearing strap ons having sex with men, but I stumbled upon one the other day on Pornhub. I found it odd that the...

Strap-on clitoral vibrators
Hi,

I'm buying a strap-on clitoral vibrator and I see that they either run on watch batteries or have a remote control attached to a wire. I don't.

The Flame Harness Kit Harness compared to this one. Are they basically the same
I have the flame's harness and I'm getting this one as well so I was wondering about that.
12/12/2012
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
I wasn't nervous.
12/12/2012
Contributor: moonhexed moonhexed
Quote:
Originally posted by Rraine
Was your first experience nerve wrecking?
I'm nervous - I haven't done it yet.
12/12/2012
Contributor: Loriandhubby Loriandhubby
once you get over the crazy thoughts and let go, things are really fun.
12/12/2012
Contributor: Graniteal Graniteal
I was incredibly nervous, but once I relaxed it was all fine.
12/12/2012
Contributor: Yaoi Pervette (deleted) Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
I wasn't nervous; I was horny!
12/12/2012
Contributor: MsDrProfKitty MsDrProfKitty
I wasn't nervous, it hasn't happened yet
12/13/2012
Contributor: Upyourreviews Upyourreviews
Quote:
Originally posted by Rraine
Was your first experience nerve wrecking?
I was actually the one that made the move my first time. I wish I didn't though because it seems like I'm always the dominant one with whoever I'm with! ;-)
12/13/2012
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
Was more nervous of the situation than the actual sex. However, the night turned out to be a blast.
12/13/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
I was nervous to say the least.
12/13/2012
Contributor: tunacan75 tunacan75
I've had anxiety problems, and I was practically shaking when I asked to try it for the first time!
12/13/2012
Contributor: stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
Nervous, excited, and a lot of other emotions running rampent.
12/25/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
I haven't brought it up yet!! And yes, it is nerve wracking!!
12/25/2012
Contributor: TrenchcoatHunters TrenchcoatHunters
Quote:
Originally posted by Rraine
Was your first experience nerve wrecking?
I was a little
12/25/2012
Contributor: HarlequinBunnie HarlequinBunnie
Quote:
Originally posted by Rraine
Was your first experience nerve wrecking?
I vote other and I really don't want to explain. Sorry
12/25/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
Super nervous
12/25/2012
Contributor: bog bog
Quote:
Originally posted by Rraine
Was your first experience nerve wrecking?
I didn't know what I was doing. Now I know to go slow and be patient! (That poor fellow!)
12/25/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
This is a good reason to do plenty of solo and partner handheld play before strapping it on. If you know how the dildo feels, how your partner works, and how your body works it's much more comfortable.

I can't imagine going from nothing to anal with no prep.
12/27/2012
Contributor: gwenevieve gwenevieve
Quote:
Originally posted by Rraine
Was your first experience nerve wrecking?
not nervous, just ecstatic ;P
01/23/2013
Contributor: butts butts
Kinda nervous, mostly excited.
01/23/2013
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Rraine
Was your first experience nerve wrecking?
Thankfully, it was mellow and cool. Set the tone for those to follow.
01/31/2013
Contributor: Passion plum Passion plum
I wasn't nervous and I wasn't even drunk at the time.
01/31/2013
Contributor: misterazor misterazor
Quote:
Originally posted by Rraine
Was your first experience nerve wrecking?
i'm looking forward to it. she has no idea what's coming! i'm walking her slowly into it. baby steps.
02/02/2013
Contributor: bratcat bratcat
im always a little nervous when i have a sexual encounter with a new partner. as for my frist time i had intercourse i was both nervous and sacred as my partner at the time was more experienced than myself and also i was very young.
02/02/2013
Contributor: EmeraldDawn EmeraldDawn
I haven't yet
02/11/2013
Contributor: Yellow Dog Yellow Dog
Quote:
Originally posted by Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
I wasn't nervous; I was horny!
This.
02/11/2013
Contributor: Brenden Brenden
Yes, my husband and I are going to try this very soon. I'm very nervous, to say the least.
02/13/2013
Contributor: Funtastic Funtastic
Very nervous.
02/15/2013
Contributor: Lovesickalien Lovesickalien
Definitely nervous.
02/15/2013