Do guys use strap on's, on a girl?

Contributor: April Lewis April Lewis
Do any of you guys do this? & why? since u have a cock? haha
10/13/2012
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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I haven't - but I'm sure there are many who do. There are some pretty good male harnesses on EF - and I assume they sell enough to justify carrying them.
10/13/2012
Contributor: Jo&an Jo&an
I have once so far and i thought it was great. I love to play with my wife with our toys and was hoping this would feel alittle more Intement for her. Plus i was just curious what it would look like. I have looked here for more people that also do this but no luck. It must not be very popular.
10/31/2012
Contributor: RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
Some do
10/31/2012
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
I'm going to try this with my boyfriend soon. He's going to strap on a small dildo (my Tantus Acute) to fuck me in the ass. We're doing it because we've never engaged in anal play together before and I wanted to start with something smaller than his cock.
11/03/2012
Contributor: ihavenipples ihavenipples
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Originally posted by Girly Juice
I'm going to try this with my boyfriend soon. He's going to strap on a small dildo (my Tantus Acute) to fuck me in the ass. We're doing it because we've never engaged in anal play together before and I wanted to start with something ... more
That is an AWESOME idea. I'm going to remember that one. You are a smart couple.
11/03/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
You can use a harness to keep the play going if you've orgasmed but she still wants to go, or you can use it to have double penetration.
11/03/2012
Contributor: GONE! GONE!
Transgender men, or men with erectile dysfunction might do this as well.
11/04/2012
Contributor: Andrew1992 Andrew1992
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Originally posted by April Lewis
Do any of you guys do this? & why? since u have a cock? haha
I've heard of doing it in order to achieve double penetration with a single partner, or also to be kind of a tease to the guy.
11/05/2012
Contributor: Gyrator Gyrator
This has been a really amazing discovery for us because I suffer from intermittent ED which is stress related. We experimented with the strapon several times and both found the experience very gratifying - far more than either of us had expected. Having a strapon I know I can use to satisfy my wife should my erection fail has greatly reduced the performance anxiety I used to feel and I believe as a direct consequence I have had no recurrence of ED since we acquired the strapon.

I would encourage anyone affected by ED to give this idea serious consideration.
12/08/2013
Contributor: Slutty Girl Problems Slutty Girl Problems
Awesome idea!! I would love to give this a try.
12/08/2013
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
As I've gotten older after I cum, I have great difficulty maintaining my erection for as long as I used to. If my GF hasn't cum yet herself, I have a Stand-In, the SpareParts Deuce male harness and a selection of rather nice dildoes. So we don't have to wait until I can regain my erection.
12/08/2013
Contributor: Husband and Wife Husband and Wife
I will from time to time use one on my wife. If she is super horney and wants to be filled with a much larger cock then I will use her special friend.. Great way to keep the love making go all night!!
01/07/2014
Contributor: BareNaked BareNaked
I've only thought about it for anal. Wasn't sure if there were specific harnesses meant for guys or if you just "push it to the side".
01/08/2014
Contributor: SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
Besides being used by men who suffer ED, some men who may have a smaller than average size might use on or even if they are of average or above average size to satisfy a partners desire for something bigger.
Another use of a strap-on by a male is if the female has a DP fantasy but both partners don't want to add a third person to their bedroom activities.
01/20/2014
Contributor: Gyrator Gyrator
On several levels this is certainly an experience not to be missed. The complete absence of performance pressure means you can concentrate completely on your partner's pleasure and enjoy 'administering' orgasms to them without anything to distract you. You may also find it fascinating how very aroused you remain throughout despite not receiving much physical stimulation - an interesting insight into the psychological nature of sex.

Being able to go as long and hard as you like certainly helps you find how she can be made to reach multiple orgasms or continuous orgasm. In nearly 40 years together we only recently achieved this reliably - something we ascribe to what we learned using the strapon.

And then there is the very different experience of penetrating a woman who has been brought to one or more penetrative orgasms before you enter her - a sensation quite unlike anything else - enhanced, perhaps, by the somewhat extended period of foreplay you have been through. And of course with no need to 'hold off' for your partner - you can let yourself go with the sensation and cum whenever suits you.
02/03/2014
Contributor: Informant Informant
Transgendered guys, and guys with ED can use them. Intersexual guys may too. When a man goes flaccid and he still wants to pleasure his partner you can use strap-ons that fit over your cock so that you can continue until you are either ready to continue with your own, or your partner is satisfied. You can also use trap on harnesses on your knees, thighs, arms, or chin if you are interested in kinkier stuff.
02/03/2014
Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
My boy wants to try this while locked up in chastity. It seems like it could be fun. :3
04/07/2014
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Actually I have a selection of hollow strap-ons I like to use.

Ridiculous 12-13 inch ones for those deserving individuals that need punishment or enjoy big thick cock.

I even have a Pipedream 10inch vibrating hollow that fits me snugly.

I can feel the vibe and so can anyone I'm with. Rather unforgiving rigid material but it works wonders for when your spent or sore and just cannot keep it up any longer.

There are a few others of various shapes/sizes and I have a double penis novelty that's fun too.
09/24/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
I don't, but, I don't see why it be a problem. Shouldn't we keep the party going to everyone has had their fill?
09/28/2015
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
I don't, but, I don't see why it be a problem. Shouldn't we keep the party going to everyone has had their fill?
Amen.

09/29/2015
Contributor: Oopsiedaisey Oopsiedaisey
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Originally posted by RomanticGoth
My boy wants to try this while locked up in chastity. It seems like it could be fun. :3
I love the idea of a hollow strap-on for this purpose with my sub-leaning bf.
10/26/2015
Contributor: Herzer Herzer
My wife and I do this every now and then. I purchased the Ménage à trois harness that allows use of an additional dildo in a spot above my cock for DP play.
06/07/2016
Contributor: lilswizzlestick lilswizzlestick
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Originally posted by Gyrator
On several levels this is certainly an experience not to be missed. The complete absence of performance pressure means you can concentrate completely on your partner's pleasure and enjoy 'administering' orgasms to them without anything to ... more
I'm interested in trying this with partner who has ED -- could you tell me what kind of harness you use that works well for you? I'm not looking for purpose of DP. Thanks!
07/16/2016
Contributor: lilswizzlestick lilswizzlestick
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Originally posted by Husband and Wife
I will from time to time use one on my wife. If she is super horney and wants to be filled with a much larger cock then I will use her special friend.. Great way to keep the love making go all night!!
I am very interested in trying this out with my boyfriend who has ED. Could you tell me what kind of harness you've tried that works well for you? I'm not interested for purposes of DP. Thanks so much! I'm very curious about this option. We have a very satisfying sex life, but this has been a longstanding fantasy of mine.
07/16/2016
Contributor: lilswizzlestick lilswizzlestick
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Originally posted by Gyrator
This has been a really amazing discovery for us because I suffer from intermittent ED which is stress related. We experimented with the strapon several times and both found the experience very gratifying - far more than either of us had expected. ... more
I am very interested in trying this out with my boyfriend who has ED. Could you tell me what kind of harness you've tried that works well for you? I'm not interested for purposes of DP. Thanks so much! I'm very curious about this option. We have a very satisfying sex life, but this has been a longstanding fantasy of mine.
07/16/2016
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by RonLee
As I've gotten older after I cum, I have great difficulty maintaining my erection for as long as I used to. If my GF hasn't cum yet herself, I have a Stand-In, the SpareParts Deuce male harness and a selection of rather nice dildoes. So we ... more
Like I wrote back in 2013 we still occasionally use a "Stand-In".
07/16/2016
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
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Originally posted by Herzer
My wife and I do this every now and then. I purchased the Ménage à trois harness that allows use of an additional dildo in a spot above my cock for DP play.
I like those.
08/03/2016
Contributor: Gyrator Gyrator
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Originally posted by lilswizzlestick
I am very interested in trying this out with my boyfriend who has ED. Could you tell me what kind of harness you've tried that works well for you? I'm not interested for purposes of DP. Thanks so much! I'm very curious about this option. ... more
I have two harnesses that I use, the first one is a 'Double Trouble' from Stormy Leather which I am not sure is still available. The second one is a SpareParts Deuce harness. Both work fine but I keep a Tantus Cush o2 dildo for the Deuce and a Fun Factory Tiger dildo for the Double Trouble as the bases of these two seem best suited to those harnesses.

(Sorry for the delay in replying - I only log in occasionally!)
08/20/2016