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Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
As some may know, my husband and I recently started pegging. It's been a wonderful experience for both of us. I enjoy doing it and it's a huge turn on for me. Unfortunately, I can't orgasm from it. Sometimes the base of the dildo can be positioned on my clit in a way that feels good, but it's not enough for me. Last night I tried my Jag as a double use harness with a dildo going inward to me. That worked okay and I got a mild orgasm, but for each long thrust I did, I would feel only a very tiny thrust on the dildo in me. I think what I really need is to combine that internal stimulation with an external vibrator.

So how exactly do I go about that? It seems like if I just shove my Mimi up against me in the harness that it would be uncomfortable and go all over the place. I tried some vibrating panties (no luck) and the Honi (too weak). I need something that will stay in place and give me very direct stimulation. It also has to be pretty powerful. Preferably softer (and body safe) material as plastics sometimes vibrate against my clit ring uncomfortably.
01/04/2012
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01/04/2012
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
The Panty Play by Tantus! I just did a DR review of it (so it's not published yet) and that was one of the things I mentioned---it's great for pegging. Check it out: link

Oh wait, never mind. You might not have a harness for that. I have the RodeoH and it works perfectly!
01/04/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
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Originally posted by Ansley
The Panty Play by Tantus! I just did a DR review of it (so it's not published yet) and that was one of the things I mentioned---it's great for pegging. Check it out: link

Oh wait, never mind. You might not have a harness for that. I ... more
I saw that listed on the new products! How strong is it?

I don't have that harness. Does that one have one of the little pockets for vibrators? Or does it just stay put on its own?
01/04/2012
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by - Kira -
I saw that listed on the new products! How strong is it?

I don't have that harness. Does that one have one of the little pockets for vibrators? Or does it just stay put on its own?
The harness doesn't have pockets for vibrators, but the Panty Play is designed to stay where you put it and the vibrator sits on the underside of it. It's very similar to a silver bullet and orgasming isn't difficult at all.
01/04/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
Do you still possess your We-Vibe 2? This might be a reasonable place for it to shine, if so.
01/04/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
Stormy - Okay, adding that to my list then! Thanks!

Antipova - I still have the II, but have lost the charger for it. I actually dug the II up thinking it would be great for this purpose but of course it was dead from going so long without use. I've looked all over for the charger and I can't find it! I actually entertained the notion of getting a III to try out even though I hated the II. The II was awful for PIV sex for us, but maybe the stronger III would be a win for pegging?
01/04/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by - Kira -
Stormy - Okay, adding that to my list then! Thanks!

Antipova - I still have the II, but have lost the charger for it. I actually dug the II up thinking it would be great for this purpose but of course it was dead from going so long without ... more
I don't know... I honestly assume that the II would be compatible with most normal chargers... can you try Gigi's charger with it?

Since you didn't like the 2, I would say hold off on buying the 3 until you've gotten your 2 to work.
01/04/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
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Originally posted by Antipova
I don't know... I honestly assume that the II would be compatible with most normal chargers... can you try Gigi's charger with it?

Since you didn't like the 2, I would say hold off on buying the 3 until you've gotten your 2 to work.
I'm always scared it will mess up the charger if you stick something in something it's not supposed to charge. Does that not happen? Am I just being paranoid?
01/04/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by - Kira -
I'm always scared it will mess up the charger if you stick something in something it's not supposed to charge. Does that not happen? Am I just being paranoid?
Check with your husband to be sure... but my gut instinct is that it will not hurt the charger in any event. I know friends with MacBooks don't want to use the chargers for MacBook Pro's because they would have too much power for the lesser MacBooks, but the MacBook Pro friends can use any charger.

So if WeVibe draws more current than Gigi, then neither the charger nor the WeVibe will be hurt
and if Gigi draws more current than WeVibe, then the WeVibe might be zapped (but I don't really know how that works, never seen it happen?) but the charger would still be fine.

So, possibilities are either that everything goes better than expected, or that your only loss is the WeVibe. So if you can't find the charger anyway, it might be worth the last-ditch effort.

(but ask your husband, I had to take EE 3001 twice.)
01/04/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
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Originally posted by Antipova
Check with your husband to be sure... but my gut instinct is that it will not hurt the charger in any event. I know friends with MacBooks don't want to use the chargers for MacBook Pro's because they would have too much power for the lesser ... more
He says should be okay, but I don't know if he knows what he is talking about! LOL He said pretty much what you said - that the worst that should be lost is the We Vibe, not the charger. So I guess if two people said it, it has to be correct, right? I'm gonna try it...I think.
01/04/2012
Contributor: oldkinky oldkinky
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Originally posted by - Kira -
As some may know, my husband and I recently started pegging. It's been a wonderful experience for both of us. I enjoy doing it and it's a huge turn on for me. Unfortunately, I can't orgasm from it. Sometimes the base of the dildo can be ... more
We use Buzz Me Tender harness. It has two pouches for vibrators to stimulate your clitoris. My wife cums at least once every time she pegs me. Also we use only vibrating dildos. Our favorote dildos are Vibrating Mistress(Vixen Creations), Vibrating Leisure(Tantus), Pro Touch(Tantus) and Vibrating Leo(Vixen). We peg about once a week. Hope this helps.
01/05/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
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Originally posted by oldkinky
We use Buzz Me Tender harness. It has two pouches for vibrators to stimulate your clitoris. My wife cums at least once every time she pegs me. Also we use only vibrating dildos. Our favorote dildos are Vibrating Mistress(Vixen Creations), Vibrating ... more
Is the Buzz Me sold on Eden? I can't seem to find it. Am I missing something or did they stop carrying it?

Out of those vibrating ones, which one would you say is strongest to the wearer?

Thanks so much for your help!
01/05/2012
Contributor: DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
The Spareparts harnesses have internal mini vibe pockets; one above and one below the O-ring. Having two bullet vibrators going might do it for you.
01/05/2012
Contributor: oldkinky oldkinky
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Originally posted by - Kira -
Is the Buzz Me sold on Eden? I can't seem to find it. Am I missing something or did they stop carrying it?

Out of those vibrating ones, which one would you say is strongest to the wearer?

Thanks so much for your help!
Babeland has it as well as shevibe. Stormyleather dot com also. Try it you will love it. Happy orgasms.
01/05/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
Thank you both! Going to look into those now!
01/05/2012
Contributor: oldkinky oldkinky
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Originally posted by - Kira -
Thank you both! Going to look into those now!
Let us know how you make out and how you enjoy it.
01/05/2012
Contributor: hersubtoy hersubtoy
Quote:
Originally posted by - Kira -
As some may know, my husband and I recently started pegging. It's been a wonderful experience for both of us. I enjoy doing it and it's a huge turn on for me. Unfortunately, I can't orgasm from it. Sometimes the base of the dildo can be ... more
The Nexus G-play! Not a clit vibe, but it works great on the g spot.
My wife used it a few days ago for the first time when she was pegging me. She had two of the most intense orgasms ever. It was great for me too, as she got close to cumming she'd drive harder and faster.
01/08/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
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Originally posted by hersubtoy
The Nexus G-play! Not a clit vibe, but it works great on the g spot.
My wife used it a few days ago for the first time when she was pegging me. She had two of the most intense orgasms ever. It was great for me too, as she got close to cumming ... more
I'll look into it! Thanks!
01/08/2012