Looks like i'm a bit late to the table on this discussion, sorry about that. i am a lesbian in a 24/7 D/s relationship with my Mistress. Wwe have a D/s dynamic that exists at all times and Wwe also have engage in BDSM play. It's important to note that all of the BDSM activities in which Wwe partake are done so with absolute informed, risk-aware consent. Wwe have also taken painstaking efforts to educate Oourselves and ensure that Wwe are performing said activities safely. Wwe never play drunk or impaired in any way! Various activities Wwe enjoy that fall under the BDSM umbrella include bondage, spanking, flogging, whipping, paddling, caning, ropes, hot wax, as well as my attitude of submission and Hers of Dominance which might include Her giving me specific instructions which i carry out, Her withholding or denying me something i want, etc. She is also quite adept at the art of the "mindfuck" which is a bit hard to explain but may involve Her psyching me out to expect something that never comes, holding me in anticipation, telling me She is going to do something She knows i'm nervous or afraid of, using a tool or letting me believe She's using a tool or intends to use a tool She knows i dislike or am nervous about, etc. Wwe also regularly use strap-ons and Wwe enjoy fisting but i don't really consider that BDSM since many lesbian couples who are not involved in BDSM do so, though some people do qualify these activities thusly. In any case, they're hot and Wwe enjoy them. Wwe also go to BDSM community events and, occasionally, play parties. Once a year Wwe attend a large weekend retreat for kinky women which is amazing. my Ma'am is in the process of learning needle play, the art of placing needles through the skin of one's partner for various purposes including sensation and visual aesthetics. i am, however, terrified of needles so She does this with other folks, a friend of Oours is particularly fond of receiving needles so she is a willing pincushion, though it may be integrated into Oour play eventually to get me over my phobia. Wwe hope to add to Oour knowledge and experience with fire, heat, cell popping, branding, knives, cutting, and a few other kinky things. Hopefully this gives you a sampling. Essentially, lesbians can engage in nearly every aspect of kink that straight people can, except you would need a man for cock and ball torture, obviously . If you'd like some more ideas, look into books like "The New Topping Book", "The New Bottoming Book", and "Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns", all available here on EF. You are also welcome to PM me if i can answer any further questions. Please be educated, safe, sane, consensual and risk-aware. Good luck in your exploration! less