Everyone has their limits, I'd like to understand where everyone here falls into the spectrum of saying it's to much. I would like to use this for my Psychology/Sociology class in college I wouldn't be using names or anything just trying to use a general poll to support my thesis on a general view.
When is it to much?
04/11/2014
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I think anything that brings hurtful pain is too much. I've been spanked once and it didn't hurt at all. I even enjoyed it. that's what I think is ok.
04/12/2014
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I think it really depends on the situation and the emotions involved. The same actions delivered by a different person, under different circumstances, or with a different attitude could change everything. For me the biggest part of anything sexual is emotional, so what is said and how it is said is as important if not more so than what is actually done.
Originally posted by
TwatMockery
Everyone has their limits, I'd like to understand where everyone here falls into the spectrum of saying it's to much. I would like to use this for my Psychology/Sociology class in college I wouldn't be using names or anything just trying
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Everyone has their limits, I'd like to understand where everyone here falls into the spectrum of saying it's to much. I would like to use this for my Psychology/Sociology class in college I wouldn't be using names or anything just trying to use a general poll to support my thesis on a general view.
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04/13/2014
Anything painful or that causes physical harm that leaves lasting marks on the body is not okay with me.
04/13/2014
There is no specific level of play/pain that is necessarily "too much". It all depends on how much I trust the person I am playing with and the mood of the scene.
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If I am being spanked during play, I will most likely consider the play too much for me before I even get red marks. I personally cannot take much pain on the bottom and do not enjoy it all that much, however I do enjoy a good knife-play scene. I can have my upper back cut many times with quite a bit of bleeding and I will love every minute of it.
I am a masochist. The pain is a rush and I really enjoy it. Some types of play I enjoy more than others and where on the body it is done makes a big difference.
For example:
If I am being spanked during play, I will most likely consider the play too much for me before I even get red marks. I personally cannot take much pain on the bottom and do not enjoy it all that much, however I do enjoy a good knife-play scene. I can have my upper back cut many times with quite a bit of bleeding and I will love every minute of it.
I am a masochist. The pain is a rush and I really enjoy it. Some types of play I enjoy more than others and where on the body it is done makes a big difference.
05/03/2014
hitting, mainly...
05/04/2014
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To me it really depends on how much I trust the person I'm playing with and what has been pre-negotiated. Scat play and pet play would definitely be hard limits for me though.
Originally posted by
TwatMockery
Everyone has their limits, I'd like to understand where everyone here falls into the spectrum of saying it's to much. I would like to use this for my Psychology/Sociology class in college I wouldn't be using names or anything just trying
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Everyone has their limits, I'd like to understand where everyone here falls into the spectrum of saying it's to much. I would like to use this for my Psychology/Sociology class in college I wouldn't be using names or anything just trying to use a general poll to support my thesis on a general view.
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05/13/2014
None of the listed things are too much for me as long as both partners have consented to the act. I personally enjoy pain. I bleed at the drop of a hat, and it doesn't particularly bother me. Lasting marks really turn me on, though I'd prefer for them to be in places I can hide them with clothing. I would not want to be cut so badly that I need stitches, or otherwise injured to the point that I should be seeing a doctor. Short of that, whatever my partner and I negotiate is perfectly sane and nobody's business but ours.
05/15/2014
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We are not into pain at all, so each of these activities would be "too much" in our book.
Originally posted by
TwatMockery
Everyone has their limits, I'd like to understand where everyone here falls into the spectrum of saying it's to much. I would like to use this for my Psychology/Sociology class in college I wouldn't be using names or anything just trying
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Everyone has their limits, I'd like to understand where everyone here falls into the spectrum of saying it's to much. I would like to use this for my Psychology/Sociology class in college I wouldn't be using names or anything just trying to use a general poll to support my thesis on a general view.
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05/16/2014
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I said bleeding, but that sort of goes with scarring too...
Originally posted by
TwatMockery
Everyone has their limits, I'd like to understand where everyone here falls into the spectrum of saying it's to much. I would like to use this for my Psychology/Sociology class in college I wouldn't be using names or anything just trying
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Everyone has their limits, I'd like to understand where everyone here falls into the spectrum of saying it's to much. I would like to use this for my Psychology/Sociology class in college I wouldn't be using names or anything just trying to use a general poll to support my thesis on a general view.
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06/04/2014
None of those are "too much," but I do have a few things I have no interest in partaking in.
06/07/2014
I have some limits, but only one is listed here; scarring. I don't mind pain or blood in a sexual context, but if it permanently leaves a mark, i'm out.
06/11/2014
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No scaring hitting or bleeding, Red marks are okay depening on placement and how they are achieved
Originally posted by
TwatMockery
Everyone has their limits, I'd like to understand where everyone here falls into the spectrum of saying it's to much. I would like to use this for my Psychology/Sociology class in college I wouldn't be using names or anything just trying
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Everyone has their limits, I'd like to understand where everyone here falls into the spectrum of saying it's to much. I would like to use this for my Psychology/Sociology class in college I wouldn't be using names or anything just trying to use a general poll to support my thesis on a general view.
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06/11/2014
I don't mind scaring but I'm not into scarring. (I wasn't aware that some free online dictionaries misuse the former.)
I'm not fond of specifically playing with menstrual blood.
I'm not fond of specifically playing with menstrual blood.
06/13/2014
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Ditto with us. Well written.
Originally posted by
indiechick
No scaring hitting or bleeding, Red marks are okay depening on placement and how they are achieved
06/13/2014
I also meant to click "other". None of the items that are listed are too much, my hard limits are : vomit,urine,scat,anima ls,underage and some forms of age play.
06/13/2014
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No hitting. Is scaring meant to be scaring or scarring? I vote yes to the former and no to the latter
Originally posted by
TwatMockery
Everyone has their limits, I'd like to understand where everyone here falls into the spectrum of saying it's to much. I would like to use this for my Psychology/Sociology class in college I wouldn't be using names or anything just trying
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Everyone has their limits, I'd like to understand where everyone here falls into the spectrum of saying it's to much. I would like to use this for my Psychology/Sociology class in college I wouldn't be using names or anything just trying to use a general poll to support my thesis on a general view.
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06/29/2014
My pain tolerance isn't very high, but I LOVE marks, provided I can hide them at work or around family. If I have bruises, welts, or scratches, I'm ecstatic. Scars are even better!
07/01/2014
I just feel like if you're hurting someone it's too much. If they don't complain, anything goes!
07/04/2014
If you leave marks, then it's too much.
08/17/2014
Nothing unless it's illegal (for example, anything involving animals, children or the deceased.) Luckily, neither of us are into anything like that!
Everything else, though, is wonderful; especially biting, blood play and marking - especially from spanking (and ~especially~ with a crop.)
Everything else, though, is wonderful; especially biting, blood play and marking - especially from spanking (and ~especially~ with a crop.)
09/18/2014
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I draw the line when it comes to leaving scars or drawing blood. I don't have to worry too much as my boyfriend is not interested in taking things that far, but we have talked about one day getting a tattoo in order to sort of show ownership (this would be after we got married and it would probably be in a discreet place).
Originally posted by
TwatMockery
Everyone has their limits, I'd like to understand where everyone here falls into the spectrum of saying it's to much. I would like to use this for my Psychology/Sociology class in college I wouldn't be using names or anything just trying
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Everyone has their limits, I'd like to understand where everyone here falls into the spectrum of saying it's to much. I would like to use this for my Psychology/Sociology class in college I wouldn't be using names or anything just trying to use a general poll to support my thesis on a general view.
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09/27/2014
Blood can be bad.
09/30/2014
I've always been against the concept of scaring and blood play but given the nature of my relationship to my Mistress, I'd suppose anything is negotiable (in theory, anyway). Thankfully, She does not care for that type of play either so I guess it works out well, lol.
10/16/2014
Anal is when it's too much, though I noticed it wasn't an option. Idk, I don't like not being able to see someone/ having someone behind me. Blood and scarring is okay if done well
10/24/2014
tripping out for fun sounds shitty.. and being someone else you say you are... Thats even more fucked than being slapped in the middle of intercourse, I'd say.
02/17/2015
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See I don't think anything is too much as long as it its in a place that's covered by clothing and doesn't require an explanation to the general public looking at it. Like if you cant go to work with your sex wounds maybe its time to scale it back.
Originally posted by
TwatMockery
Everyone has their limits, I'd like to understand where everyone here falls into the spectrum of saying it's to much. I would like to use this for my Psychology/Sociology class in college I wouldn't be using names or anything just trying
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more
Everyone has their limits, I'd like to understand where everyone here falls into the spectrum of saying it's to much. I would like to use this for my Psychology/Sociology class in college I wouldn't be using names or anything just trying to use a general poll to support my thesis on a general view.
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The really fd up thing is I was thinking... I might really enjoy being scarred in the right place... I know... That's twisted isn't it.
02/18/2015
It's got to be fun pain, anything that isn't is too much. But when it is fun pain, I think the line comes when you are going to bleed or leave permanent scars. For me, at least
03/20/2015
I think my hard limit (scarring) will probably always be my hard limit. But even your own spectrum changes over the course of your life... and not always to make you more adventurous. Sexual preference is a complicated thing.
03/22/2015
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Very well spoken and wise. Now I wonder what line of work you are in. So ......
Originally posted by
Livia Drew
I think my hard limit (scarring) will probably always be my hard limit. But even your own spectrum changes over the course of your life... and not always to make you more adventurous. Sexual preference is a complicated thing.
yes, invisible ink.
03/22/2015
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