I knew that I was kinky around the age of 16, but I know of people who knew long before that, or much later is life. Color me curious, and tell me about your story into kink.
When did you know you were kink inclined?
10/22/2010
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I knew I was not interested in romance novel sex when I was a very young child. I loved porn and watching people have sex (could be why I love my current situation so very much...never really thought about it). I can remember masturbating when I was around 5 or 6. I was never molested just was a very sexual person at an incredibly young age.
Originally posted by
Tart
I knew that I was kinky around the age of 16, but I know of people who knew long before that, or much later is life. Color me curious, and tell me about your story into kink.
10/23/2010
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I can relate to that. I was very sexual at a young age as well, though did not equate pain or suffering with pleasure until I was older. It was very interesting to me to have these emotions, feeling ready for mature sexual activities at a young age, though I didn't lose my virginity until I was 19! Go figure.
Originally posted by
Airen Wolf
I knew I was not interested in romance novel sex when I was a very young child. I loved porn and watching people have sex (could be why I love my current situation so very much...never really thought about it). I can remember masturbating when I was
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I knew I was not interested in romance novel sex when I was a very young child. I loved porn and watching people have sex (could be why I love my current situation so very much...never really thought about it). I can remember masturbating when I was around 5 or 6. I was never molested just was a very sexual person at an incredibly young age.
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10/23/2010
I knew I was bisexual since I was a very young child but until I started having sexual feelings I didn't really think about what I liked. As soon as it started though, I knew EXACTLY what was up :]
10/23/2010
I always knew I was a dyke, kinky, well I didn't call it that, but I knew I REALLY liked being a slave girl, and I knew that the idea of more popular girls mistreating me... made me feel funny and excited, and I liked being walked around on a leash.
In retrospect it couldn't have been more obvious
In retrospect it couldn't have been more obvious
10/23/2010
From childhood, I've known. I obviously was not as knowledged or experienced as I am now, but I did know.
10/23/2010
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A few years ago I got into it. I'm 23 now, so that's 20's category.
Originally posted by
Tart
I knew that I was kinky around the age of 16, but I know of people who knew long before that, or much later is life. Color me curious, and tell me about your story into kink.
10/23/2010
I knew I was kind of kinky when I was 17 and didn't think there was anything wrong with a Fleshlight and had no clue why people condescending it. Then later on as I started studying sex more I still didn't see anything wrong with a great many other things that apparently most people do.
10/23/2010
I put both teenage years and in my 20s, because I was pretty into it when I was a teenager, but since then hubby has shown me a whole new world! lol
10/23/2010
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I knew that I was kinky in my teenage years. I first experimented with kink with my second to last partner, who introduced me to spanking. From there, I've branched out into a variety of kink, including: wax play, nipple torture, spanking and bondage.
Originally posted by
Tart
I knew that I was kinky around the age of 16, but I know of people who knew long before that, or much later is life. Color me curious, and tell me about your story into kink.
10/24/2010
When I was very young, I started to realize I wasn't "vanilla" (though I hadn't learned that lovely term yet). An older boy who thought I was his friend decided to share with me a dream he had about sex that included a woman being restrained to a wall and eventually blindfolded. I didn't get it then that he was describing bondage. All I thought was "Is this how all boys think of sex? Wait, is this how ALL people HAVE sex?" I was highly confused. But... turned on. Which I also didn't understand. But I had a very similar dream that night. I was somewhere between the ages of 7 to 9.
10/24/2010
I had no idea for awhile.. I kept kind of following the crowd... and reading books to see kind of what excited me. Normal romance novels did get me wet at times, but I read an exciting more risque book called Scruples... and the blunt harshness was impossible to put down.
10/24/2010
I'm not sure how to answer, lol. I haven't experienced any kink but I think I might be into a variety of things. Then again, what the mind wants and what the body likes are not necessarily the same. I think I had kinky desires from probably a tween age. Or maybe that's just because villains in media are always sexier to me than the heroes. Who knows, I'm still all sexually confused. Twenty-two is still young enough to be confused, right?
10/24/2010
Probably around the time I was 14/15, mostly brought out by the person who would eventually become my SO.
10/24/2010
born with kink
10/25/2010
I have been a little bit kinky from my earliest sexual encounters. But we have really kicked it up a few notches in the last year.
10/25/2010
I was interested in it from my teenage years on.
I have been open about it and active in my local BDSM community since I met Daddy.
I have been open about it and active in my local BDSM community since I met Daddy.
10/28/2010
Interested since I was a teen, really got into it after I was 21 and found someone I could trust enough for it.
10/29/2010
I realized around 15/16 that my limits for sex were very few. Not based on my own experience, but when listening to friends and their objections or complaints of doing certain things, I remembered thinking, "what's the big deal?". It took some time for me to figure out that they weren't prudes necessarily, but simply that I was into dancing on the line when it came to sex.
It wasn't till I watched Eyes Wide Shut (I was 17 maybe?) that I became curious. Which somehow led to a sparked interest into BDSM. I did a lot of reading, changed my tune on porn material, but I didn't delve into actually doing anything until I began dating my current SO (my second relationship). Like someone else mentioned, I just really needed someone I could trust to get into it. And how I have had fun since!
It wasn't till I watched Eyes Wide Shut (I was 17 maybe?) that I became curious. Which somehow led to a sparked interest into BDSM. I did a lot of reading, changed my tune on porn material, but I didn't delve into actually doing anything until I began dating my current SO (my second relationship). Like someone else mentioned, I just really needed someone I could trust to get into it. And how I have had fun since!
11/02/2010
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I was very young and there were a number of different things that make sense now but I had no idea what it all meant. I knew that I liked darker things that I wasn't supposed to like at a young age, being bossed around by other kids, following rules and orders, and yet I also I had an oddly Dominant desire, and I enjoyed being one of the guys. I don't think I really put it all together until I read some of my art teacher's psychology books when I was 15.
Originally posted by
Tart
I knew that I was kinky around the age of 16, but I know of people who knew long before that, or much later is life. Color me curious, and tell me about your story into kink.
11/02/2010
I'd have to say in my 20's after meeting someone who brought my kinkiness to the surface.
11/03/2010
Yea I remember getting pleasure out of taking all the clothes off of my Barbie dolls, and then 'trapping' them inside this special case that I had. Then I would imagine them squirming around in there, being frightened and trying to break free, and feel, well.. sadistic. Then sometimes I would fantasize about being the one all tied up and helpless. I guess I was between 6-8 years old during that time..?
But it's funny, that's something that I hadn't thought about for a while until recently. I've been starting to explore some certain corners of my sexuality more, and in doing that, those recollections came back to me.
But it's funny, that's something that I hadn't thought about for a while until recently. I've been starting to explore some certain corners of my sexuality more, and in doing that, those recollections came back to me.
11/09/2010
I was 16/17ish....
11/16/2010
Mid-twenties
11/18/2010
I remember getting in trouble around the age of three or four because I "discovered" myself. My parents were never a fan of masturbation in my house and were not happy to see their only daughter masturbating at such a young age. I got grounded from so many toys when I was little because of this... Maybe this is why it took me until the age of 20 to buy my first sex toy. Weird.
11/20/2010
always... never was there a time when I was not
11/20/2010
I remember during my teenage years being obsessed with finding porn. I was still a virgin at this point, and I somehow got involved in hentai. I remember watching it and being enthralled at the sexual freedom and feeling ashamed because of my strict Christian upbringing. It didn't seem morally right, but it looked so incredibly erotic and I fantasized about it quite a bit.
I didn't actually try out my sexual fantasies until the last guy I was with. He was a year younger and a catholic virgin. I enjoyed corrupting him, training him to please me, and overall introducing him and myself into the world of kink. Military men looooove to be abused.
I didn't actually try out my sexual fantasies until the last guy I was with. He was a year younger and a catholic virgin. I enjoyed corrupting him, training him to please me, and overall introducing him and myself into the world of kink. Military men looooove to be abused.
11/24/2010
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I can so relate to that. I remember in high school that my friends were so picky and grossed out by just about everything. It wasn't until I got to college that I found friends that had the same kink level if not a higher kink level than myself. I myself have never wanted to engage in knife play, but a friend has many scars on her back from just that.
Originally posted by
Glasgow Smile
I realized around 15/16 that my limits for sex were very few. Not based on my own experience, but when listening to friends and their objections or complaints of doing certain things, I remembered thinking, "what's the big deal?". It
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I realized around 15/16 that my limits for sex were very few. Not based on my own experience, but when listening to friends and their objections or complaints of doing certain things, I remembered thinking, "what's the big deal?". It took some time for me to figure out that they weren't prudes necessarily, but simply that I was into dancing on the line when it came to sex.
It wasn't till I watched Eyes Wide Shut (I was 17 maybe?) that I became curious. Which somehow led to a sparked interest into BDSM. I did a lot of reading, changed my tune on porn material, but I didn't delve into actually doing anything until I began dating my current SO (my second relationship). Like someone else mentioned, I just really needed someone I could trust to get into it. And how I have had fun since! less
It wasn't till I watched Eyes Wide Shut (I was 17 maybe?) that I became curious. Which somehow led to a sparked interest into BDSM. I did a lot of reading, changed my tune on porn material, but I didn't delve into actually doing anything until I began dating my current SO (my second relationship). Like someone else mentioned, I just really needed someone I could trust to get into it. And how I have had fun since! less
11/24/2010
I figured it out when I was a teenager and started having fantasies.
12/13/2010
I figured myself "normal" and kink-less up until I was 18, this school year actually. A good friend introduced me to the existence (I led a very innocent life) of kinks. I was immediately interested by it. She, in particular, is interested in BDSM. I'm just starting my own exploration of the craft.
03/08/2011