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Contributor: ghalik ghalik
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Originally posted by Ciao.
Cacao...
05/16/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
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Originally posted by FruityCloud
Sometimes bondage and dominating someone can get a little rough, out of curiosity, what type safe words do most of you use?
Since the poll only has categories, comment below with your word if you'd like, or ideas of words you think would be ... more
I haven't thought of one yet, but I would choose a random object that wouldn't ever be used during sex normally.
05/21/2012
Contributor: WildDreamer WildDreamer
My pet and I use "Poptarts", which is definitely something neither one of us would be likely to use in a scene. Occasionally I'll bring it up as a reminder, or in talking to other people: "No, he's fine, he remembers his pastries." XD
05/22/2012
Contributor: FruityCloud FruityCloud
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Originally posted by WildDreamer
My pet and I use "Poptarts", which is definitely something neither one of us would be likely to use in a scene. Occasionally I'll bring it up as a reminder, or in talking to other people: "No, he's fine, he remembers his pastries." XD
*laughs* That's awesome!
05/22/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
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Originally posted by GoneBabyGone
I said a type of object but that isn't exactly accurate. We use the common color code system. Like a stoplight: if we say yellow it means we really need them to ease up, but we don't want to stop yet. If we say red it means we can't take ... more
This exactly
05/22/2012
Contributor: ghent529 ghent529
we don't use one.
05/22/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
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Originally posted by GoneBabyGone
I said a type of object but that isn't exactly accurate. We use the common color code system. Like a stoplight: if we say yellow it means we really need them to ease up, but we don't want to stop yet. If we say red it means we can't take ... more
That's a great way to do it. Thanks for sharing I may have to borrow that system myself.
05/22/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I just say stop, don't do that, etc.
05/22/2012
Contributor: Collogue Collogue
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Originally posted by FruityCloud
Sometimes bondage and dominating someone can get a little rough, out of curiosity, what type safe words do most of you use?
Since the poll only has categories, comment below with your word if you'd like, or ideas of words you think would be ... more
Apple!
05/25/2012
Contributor: All His All His
Ours currently is watermelon cuz the thought of randomly shouting watermelon during sex had us both laughing which would end what we were doing
05/28/2012
Contributor: MaeGal MaeGal
My boyfriend has established our safe word as "dust busters". Hahaa. Not sure how I feel about that.
05/31/2012
Contributor: FruityCloud FruityCloud
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Originally posted by All His
Ours currently is watermelon cuz the thought of randomly shouting watermelon during sex had us both laughing which would end what we were doing
Oh geez. That was my camp name when I worked as a camp counselor. Definitely wouldn't have worked for me. XD
06/11/2012
Contributor: FruityCloud FruityCloud
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Originally posted by MaeGal
My boyfriend has established our safe word as "dust busters". Hahaa. Not sure how I feel about that.
Sounds like it might be a mood killer. But I guess safe words are designed to make the person stop.
06/11/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by FruityCloud
Sometimes bondage and dominating someone can get a little rough, out of curiosity, what type safe words do most of you use?
Since the poll only has categories, comment below with your word if you'd like, or ideas of words you think would be ... more
Um...you don't have an OTHER column. My safe word is STOP. In ENGLISH. With us, STOP means.....STOP. Period, end of discussion. NO questions about the meaning or context. Never failed us yet.
06/11/2012
Contributor: Mitzuki Mitzuki
Mine is always 'banana', because I still always laugh at the 'whitest kids u know' skit that involves safe words.
06/12/2012
Contributor: Izzaba Izzaba
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Originally posted by FruityCloud
Sometimes bondage and dominating someone can get a little rough, out of curiosity, what type safe words do most of you use?
Since the poll only has categories, comment below with your word if you'd like, or ideas of words you think would be ... more
Mine is RED .
Was ask what I thought of when wanted to stop, pain or if things got to rough. All I could see it red.
But the Dom has to lesson for it to work.
06/22/2012
Contributor: thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
Mine wasn't an option in the survey - I use the "red, yellow, green" system, with red for stop, yellow for slow down/go gentler, and green for yes, keep going please.
06/23/2012
Contributor: cricket cricket
depends on what's happening. If you're gagged and restrained you sometimes have to get creative
06/23/2012
Contributor: Bex1331 Bex1331
lawsuit =)
06/24/2012
Contributor: FruityCloud FruityCloud
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Originally posted by cricket
depends on what's happening. If you're gagged and restrained you sometimes have to get creative
True story. ;]
06/24/2012
Contributor: AshMegYo AshMegYo
no safeword yet
06/24/2012
Contributor: Steveyb Steveyb
We actually haven't made one yet. Sad...
06/28/2012
Contributor: HusbandandWife HusbandandWife
Quote:
Originally posted by FruityCloud
Sometimes bondage and dominating someone can get a little rough, out of curiosity, what type safe words do most of you use?
Since the poll only has categories, comment below with your word if you'd like, or ideas of words you think would be ... more
We dont have one yet. When it comes time to use one I will have to suggest "banana". If you are a fan of Family Guy you will know why!
06/28/2012
Contributor: quantumspork quantumspork
I like the red/green/yellow system, it's easy to remember and I like that there's one word to indicate that you're at the edge of your limits but don't want play to stop altogether.
06/30/2012
Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
Banana. Simple, to the point, and something humorous.
06/30/2012
Contributor: Ashley B Ashley B
Mine's the word "apple".
07/01/2012
Contributor: Modern^Spank^Anthem Modern^Spank^Anthem
no category for places?
07/01/2012
Contributor: Boyqueen Boyqueen
Stoplight system.
"Green" is good to go.
"Yellow" means something isn't right, stop ASAP.
"Red" STOP EVERYTHING RIGHT NOW.
07/05/2012
Contributor: Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by FruityCloud
Sometimes bondage and dominating someone can get a little rough, out of curiosity, what type safe words do most of you use?
Since the poll only has categories, comment below with your word if you'd like, or ideas of words you think would be ... more
We don't have one, or need one.
07/05/2012
Contributor: g- g-
Bananas!
07/05/2012