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What do you like better, flogger or a hand?

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Contributor: Enchantedkitty Enchantedkitty
I was wondering hat people like better floggers or the good ol' hand. I can't pick one I like both.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Flogger
VanillaCupcake , DeliciousSurprise , PiratePrincess , zracer , Madeira , Elliotstar , miss-miss , sydney106 , Redboxbaby , Alan & Michele , JennyGbaby , kawigrl , mariedoll , null , Vanessa Weiss , Sir , SmutGeek , Nerdydyke , Princess-Kayla ♥ , Jake'n'bake , hiroshiro , aluminummm , britanny0620 , Katelyn , Zandrock , SavingMyself , satinlady550 , CaliGirl , Nyx (Under the Covers) , gsfanatic , phoenixfire , Raymaker
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Hand
UnknownGirl , MaryExy , Woman China , Lolla Munz , Fullbeauty , Sammi , married with children , Lio , Lady Marmelade , SamsDelight , Drifter86 , Serenesub , slynch , sixfootsex , rick45013 , padmeamidala , Ajax , LavenderSkies , Shellz31 , JennyGbaby , Sohotdinosaur , chidoll , sexyk515 , mariedoll , k3 , AussieSarah , Joie de Cherresse , potstickers , Errant Venture , null , EdenG , PassionQT , Vanessa Weiss , TheHardOne , Sir , SmutGeek , fredacarl , Mwar , sasweetheart89 , Princess-Kayla ♥ , Phantom2291 , raven pixie , CadmiumKitty , heather-mooney , novanilla , satinlady550 , Nyx (Under the Covers) , Lioncub , sugar&spikes , gsfanatic , Strider , Incendiaire , Raymaker , tunacan75
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Other
DeliciousSurprise , Sammi , Redboxbaby , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , Sex'и'Violence , Dolomite , Rossie , Red Vinyl Kitty , Miss Morphine , Vanessa Weiss , Sir , dks210 , charletnarouh , britanny0620 , Missmarc
15
Total votes: 101 (84 voters)
Poll is closed
04/05/2011
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Contributor: DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
Floggers never start to sting, but when I hit hard, my hand hurts after a while, too.
04/05/2011
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
I like the hand just fine, but we're getting a flogger in our next order.
04/05/2011
Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
My guy prefers just using his hand. I might try to get him one of the impressions paddles sometime, though.
04/05/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
My guy never learned how to spank effectively. Despite many times trying to teach him. So I prefer the floggers.
04/05/2011
Contributor: zracer zracer
I just love the look of floggers even if I don't have one yet.
04/05/2011
Contributor: Woman China Woman China
I love the look of a flogger, the whole anticipation and intimidation thing about them. But when it comes to actual contact? Nothing, in my opinion, can replace a hand. Flesh to flesh.

I will be buying a flogger from here one of these days simply for aesthetics. But it is not all that high on my list to be honest!
04/05/2011
Contributor: Fullbeauty Fullbeauty
I have to vote hand, simply because I haven't had the experience of a flogger yet! My opinion may change after that. My current partner will be more than happy to help me make that decision!
04/05/2011
Contributor: Madeira Madeira
I love both, but I get flogged for longer as my partner's hands get sore.
04/05/2011
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
I like a hand better, and also a crop.
04/05/2011
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
Sometimes I like a flogger or crop, but mostly I prefer him to just use a hand.
04/05/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
If I have to chose between a hand and a flogger, it'd be a flogger. However, I would much prefer a crop over either of those any day of the week!
04/05/2011
Contributor: A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
A paddle
04/05/2011
Contributor: SamsDelight SamsDelight
My husband has the best hands. I love the way he spanks me and just at the right time. So hot.
04/06/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
Big fan of the riding crop personally. But I have seen some really nice metal tip floggers that I've been wanting to try. I'm just really not a fan of the rubber floggers that I see all the time.
04/09/2011
Contributor: rick45013 rick45013
Natural feels better
04/09/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Enchantedkitty
I was wondering hat people like better floggers or the good ol' hand. I can't pick one I like both.
I prefer hand over a flogger because it's more personal to me. But floggers are nice too!
04/09/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Enchantedkitty
I was wondering hat people like better floggers or the good ol' hand. I can't pick one I like both.
I prefer the hand
04/13/2011
Contributor: kawigrl kawigrl
i like both
04/16/2011
Contributor: sexyk515 sexyk515
both
04/16/2011
Contributor: mariedoll mariedoll
Definitely both, but there's just something about a hand...
04/27/2011
Contributor: Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
Quote:
Originally posted by padmeamidala
I prefer hand over a flogger because it's more personal to me. But floggers are nice too!
I feel similar to padmeamidala. I love the hand, because it feels more intimate, somehow.

Yet, I adore being flogged. My husband prefers to use stiffer implements like paddles, or crops to a flogger, so I only get flogged really if I play with someone else.
04/27/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
I love feeling his hand slap my ass...
04/28/2011
Contributor: AussieSarah AussieSarah
I personally havent ever had the pleasure of being flogged but i absolutely LOVE being spanked by my mans hand.
As some other have said it feels quite personal and i also love being able to see the imprint of his hand on my ass when he really starts hitting hard
04/28/2011
Contributor: Errant Venture Errant Venture
I prefer my hand - though I don't mind a paddle.
07/18/2011
Contributor: Miss Morphine Miss Morphine
I like hands if I want a more intimate feel, but floggers and other hitty toys have a variety of fun effects that I like to play with as well. I can't pick just one.
07/18/2011
Contributor: null null
I like floggers on my back and hands for spanking.
07/18/2011
Contributor: Vanessa Weiss Vanessa Weiss
Quote:
Originally posted by Madeira
I love both, but I get flogged for longer as my partner's hands get sore.
Exactly.

Although my partner is a little bit of a mutant and can spank me for an almost unnatural amount of time
07/19/2011
Contributor: Sir Sir
I enjoy floggers, my hand, and many other types of implements. I would say that my hand is definitely the best implement of mine, though.
02/14/2012
Contributor: SmutGeek SmutGeek
I can't choose >.<
I think it depends entirely on my head space at the given time.
As far as sub space, flogger. Little space, hand. Dom space, flogger. So yea...depends.

SirPhryxus says I would have to go with Hand because the hands control the floggers ^_^
02/15/2012