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Contributor: Lilith Bealove Lilith Bealove
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Is there one for men? We recently started experimenting with BDSM and we both truly enjoy it. But we need a little guidance. Is there an instructional like this for men? And is there a guide book for female subs? If not, can you give your advice and tips?

Thanks a bunch,

Missy
03/31/2012
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Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
Not sure if you've heard about The New Topping Book and The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy. They are gender neutral but I found them pretty educational.

There's a social networking site for kinksters called Fetlife that you might also find useful. It contains discussion forums in which you can ask questions. People there are generally quite helpful.
05/15/2012
Contributor: subbieforHer subbieforHer
Yep yep, there's a book titled "The Master Manual" by Jack Rinella. He is very well known within the gay leather community and is a very knowledgeable man whose advice is applicable to any general D/s relationship.
12/11/2012