I've recently discovered that I love when my man slaps me across the face while we're having sex. Just enough to make it sting a little bit, but not enough to hurt super bad.
Slapping: Yay or Nay?
08/18/2011
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I hate face slapping. I have a violent reaction to the point where I've tried to bite and claw my way free from Master when he did it to me. It's something that Master likes though, so he's trying to get me over reacting so strongly to it. Doubt I'm ever going to enjoy that particular thing, though.
08/18/2011
my dad used to hit me in the face as a kid, so it brings back some violent mechanism in me and i really cant hardly stand it. a friend once did it to me playfully, but hit me kind of hard. guess he thought i was like one of the guys. took me a while to get over that.
08/18/2011
Maybe I'm just a bit weird. I think if anyone slapped me that wasn't him, I'd probably lose it. But when he does it...Mmmm.
08/18/2011
I like it, but not too hard. It definitely feels very spicy and sexy at the right moment
08/18/2011
Depends on the mood.
08/18/2011
I think it is disrespectful, so I would never slap her
08/19/2011
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I like being beaten up but id never even consider slapping my wife.
Originally posted by
Princess-Kayla ♥
I've recently discovered that I love when my man slaps me across the face while we're having sex. Just enough to make it sting a little bit, but not enough to hurt super bad.
08/19/2011
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I recently discovered the same.. It was weird though. It made me cry, but I really liked it. I wasn't crying because I was hurt.. I'm not sure why it made me cry at all... it wasn't very hard, like you said... anyway, I say yay
Originally posted by
Princess-Kayla ♥
I've recently discovered that I love when my man slaps me across the face while we're having sex. Just enough to make it sting a little bit, but not enough to hurt super bad.
08/19/2011
We tried slapping (and choking) for the first time the other day. I don't like it-too painful. I prefer light choking.
08/19/2011
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I could see why you would think that. And honestly in any setting other than the bedroom, I'd probably be pissed. But in the bedroom, it's like Mmm.
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I think it is disrespectful, so I would never slap her
@JessCee, I love choking too. More than slapping. But I still love slapping.
08/19/2011
As long as it's not too hard, I do.
08/20/2011
As long as it's on my ass and good and hard it's fine. Face no way!
08/20/2011
I like spanking but I also don't like my face touched. I'll pace on the face slapping.
08/20/2011
No. Face slapping crosses a line, for me.
08/20/2011
*snorts* I'm telling you now, if anyone slaps me across the face, kink play or not, I'm knocking the hell out of someone.
08/20/2011
Never - to me that's a huge insult and I would never do it to anyone else either!
08/20/2011
I've never tried it. I don't know if I'd like it, I think it would have to happen in order for me to know. I only DON'T have a problem with it because if it happends between me and him, I know it's not comming from a rude or hateful place. I don't know how I could make it happen. I don't know if I could just be like "SLAP ME IN THE FACE" during sex. I think doing that would make things VERY weird.
08/20/2011
I don't really have an opinion on it either way. It probably wouldn't turn me on, but it doesn't freak me out either.
08/20/2011
I really don't know on this one. I've learned that over the years that my guy and I have been together there are all sorts of things I enjoy that I didn't think I would a year or two or three earlier. I would be open to it as long as we talked about it first and boundaries were set, how hard or soft etc. And then there are times we try something and it's like ....no, I don't like that at all-never again, but hey at least now we know! Most of the time though, I find I'm unexpectedly really in to our new ventures.
08/20/2011
I want to try it, but I don't know, one day... lol
08/20/2011
My interest in it has recently been rekindled. It can be very nummy.
08/20/2011
In the right kind of scene, it's simply *lovely*. Mind, I do have to be in the right head space.
08/20/2011
It highly depends on the circumstances for me. I've had someone do this and it was fun and hot, but I think under the wrong set of variables it could be horrible and feel like abuse.
08/21/2011
Only if the giver wants a broken nose and black eyes
08/21/2011
I really like it. We get into some fairly intense scenes and it really adds to those.
I cry, too, but not because he's hurt me or because I'm upset. It's just... the amount of intense emotion that gets built up and released in the kind of scene in which we would be doing this needs an outlet and that's it.
My partner, of course, is amazing - he is very observant of the differences between that sort of crying and "I'm hurt/I'm too upset/That's not good" crying and is always ready with a warm blanket and cuddles if he crosses a line. And, bless his heart, he learned to make tea specifically so he could bring me tea when I'm coming down from that stuff.
I cry, too, but not because he's hurt me or because I'm upset. It's just... the amount of intense emotion that gets built up and released in the kind of scene in which we would be doing this needs an outlet and that's it.
My partner, of course, is amazing - he is very observant of the differences between that sort of crying and "I'm hurt/I'm too upset/That's not good" crying and is always ready with a warm blanket and cuddles if he crosses a line. And, bless his heart, he learned to make tea specifically so he could bring me tea when I'm coming down from that stuff.
08/21/2011
Maybe not all the time. My husbands not a very violent person. I beg him to do things like that all the time. When he gets in the mood for it and I'm all for it he will. Those are some of the best nights.
08/23/2011
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slapping and hair pulling I love it all
Originally posted by
Princess-Kayla ♥
I've recently discovered that I love when my man slaps me across the face while we're having sex. Just enough to make it sting a little bit, but not enough to hurt super bad.
08/23/2011
My guy is very big on never hitting a woman ever, so I don't think he'd be into trying this. I think it would just make him feel bad.
A thorough spanking is good enough for me!
A thorough spanking is good enough for me!
08/31/2011
No, I am not interested in that at all. In fact, if it were to happen, that would be the end of that.
09/04/2011