i had it done to me once, but i won't do it again. spit has more icky stuff than pee; i'd much rather be a recipient of a sterile golden shower than spat on again
Sitting/being spat on
07/11/2011
It's sometimes amusing as a humiliation technique, but it's not something either of us (we switch) employs on a regular basis.
07/18/2011
No. For me, a D/s relationship isn't one of demeaning my sub, but of making her better. Besides, it's icky!
07/19/2011
It's not that I think it's disgusting, but I do think it's degrading and I would definitely be turned off if my guy spit on me.
07/19/2011
As long as both people involved in the scene are consenting, I don't see a problem with it.
I personally don't like the Sasha Gray style "spit in someone's mouth" thing. But, again, if people like it and are into it, it doesn't effect me in any way. (Damn, that woman is INTO spit, isn't she? )
Saliva certainly works as a good lubricant, either during oral sex, (the saliva produced by DT is really a good lubricant!) or for PIV (although I prefer a commercial lubricant for anal, saliva simply isn't thick or long lasting enough.) I can't imagine having sex without saliva involved in some way, even if it isn't the focus of any of the acts. Spit happens.
"Degradation" ; ; is in the eyes of the beholder. Although I'm not into spitting, I don't think it's any more "degrading" than any other sexual act. (It wasn't that long ago that many people considered any kind of oral sex "degrading.") Also, some people are into degradation and humiliation in some scenes. As long as it's consensual, who is to say it's wrong?
A little consensual humiliation can keep things interesting. And keep a sub humble.
I personally don't like the Sasha Gray style "spit in someone's mouth" thing. But, again, if people like it and are into it, it doesn't effect me in any way. (Damn, that woman is INTO spit, isn't she? )
Saliva certainly works as a good lubricant, either during oral sex, (the saliva produced by DT is really a good lubricant!) or for PIV (although I prefer a commercial lubricant for anal, saliva simply isn't thick or long lasting enough.) I can't imagine having sex without saliva involved in some way, even if it isn't the focus of any of the acts. Spit happens.
"Degradation" ; ; is in the eyes of the beholder. Although I'm not into spitting, I don't think it's any more "degrading" than any other sexual act. (It wasn't that long ago that many people considered any kind of oral sex "degrading.") Also, some people are into degradation and humiliation in some scenes. As long as it's consensual, who is to say it's wrong?
A little consensual humiliation can keep things interesting. And keep a sub humble.
07/19/2011
Not my thing... I might consider it if it was important to my spouse, but otherwise...no thank you.
07/19/2011
No thanks, and I really can't stand to see it porn either!
07/19/2011
One of my few hard limits. I don't mind spit/drool/saliva but spitting on me? No thanks, for some reason it's just icky. I can't really watch people spit ever and not feel queasy.
And I'm totally into "degradation" as a kink, so I get why some people like it and I'm okay with that - but personally I'd much rather participate in watersports, when it comes to degrading bodily fluid exchanges
And I'm totally into "degradation" as a kink, so I get why some people like it and I'm okay with that - but personally I'd much rather participate in watersports, when it comes to degrading bodily fluid exchanges
07/19/2011
No. We've discussed it and we both think it's a nasty act. We both agree it's too degrading and just, vulgar like. I would not like it.
07/20/2011
Sometimes my girl likes it when I do just depends on what we're doing
08/02/2011
I'll admit I like being spat on. Humiliation is a kink of mine so yeah.
08/02/2011
I don't like it
08/03/2011
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Same here, not our thing and a complete turnoff.
Originally posted by
~LaUr3n~
My partner and I are completely turned off by this even in porn. No thanks.
08/03/2011
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I'm right there with you. I just find it positively disgusting.
Originally posted by
Vanessa Weiss
One of my few hard limits. I don't mind spit/drool/saliva but spitting on me? No thanks, for some reason it's just icky. I can't really watch people spit ever and not feel queasy.
And I'm totally into ... more
And I'm totally into ... more
One of my few hard limits. I don't mind spit/drool/saliva but spitting on me? No thanks, for some reason it's just icky. I can't really watch people spit ever and not feel queasy.
And I'm totally into "degradation" as a kink, so I get why some people like it and I'm okay with that - but personally I'd much rather participate in watersports, when it comes to degrading bodily fluid exchanges less
And I'm totally into "degradation" as a kink, so I get why some people like it and I'm okay with that - but personally I'd much rather participate in watersports, when it comes to degrading bodily fluid exchanges less
08/03/2011
I like it in my porn, but I'm not sure how I would react in RL...
08/03/2011
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Totally don't get it. Seen it in DVD's too, but we are not into anything degrading and other then degrading, exactly what thrill would be involved with doing this? If it works for you...great, but we don't get it at all...and it is a turn off more then a turn on.
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
Yay or nay?
I once was with a guy who asked me if I'd like it..I was a bit taken back at first but it really wasn't foul for me when it happened.
Edit; OOPS, the title is meant to read "Spitting/being spat on" Sorry!!
I once was with a guy who asked me if I'd like it..I was a bit taken back at first but it really wasn't foul for me when it happened.
Edit; OOPS, the title is meant to read "Spitting/being spat on" Sorry!!
08/03/2011
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That is how we feel. If that comes up in a DVD, that video is likely to end up OUT of the machine and maybe in the trash...so we don't "fall upon it" again.
Originally posted by
~LaUr3n~
My partner and I are completely turned off by this even in porn. No thanks.
08/03/2011
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big time agree
Originally posted by
tickle me pink
No thanks. I'd rather get messy with other body fluids.
08/03/2011
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Leaving spit behind when licking kissing is something different. Even using spit as a "lube" is different then what I think is being asked here.
Originally posted by
LicentiouslyYours
It's a highly emotional topic for people. I mean really, we leave spit behind when we lick or suck on any body part—swap spit when we kiss—so strictly speaking it shouldn't be THAT big a deal.
But for many it's the ultimate act ... more
But for many it's the ultimate act ... more
It's a highly emotional topic for people. I mean really, we leave spit behind when we lick or suck on any body part—swap spit when we kiss—so strictly speaking it shouldn't be THAT big a deal.
But for many it's the ultimate act of degradation, which is a serious turn on for a lot of people, and understandably NOT a turn on for many others. less
But for many it's the ultimate act of degradation, which is a serious turn on for a lot of people, and understandably NOT a turn on for many others. less
08/03/2011
No, spitting is not for me, but that feeling is heavily influenced by past experiences. However, I can see where so much spit is being swapped during sex that it might not seem that gross. If it was phlegmy though....ewwwwwww.
08/03/2011
There is no way I would be able to let someone spit on me. That disgusts me to begin with
08/03/2011
Yep I am with Lauren on this one, I have seen it in porn and it doesn't turn me or my partner on in the least bit.
08/03/2011
I've done this before quite a bit. Weirdly it was some kind of bonding exercise between me and my partner. It was fun and gross at the same time. We got really competitive about it. Can't say I specifically link spitting with sexiness though. It was more the stalking than dominance aspect that did it for me.
09/23/2011
Ew. No. No one spits on me except for me, and trust me when I spit on myself its because a gust of wind happened by just as I was spitting and redirected it at me, lol.
09/23/2011
I'd never want to do this, nor would I want to have it done to me.
09/26/2011
We've never tried spitting on each other. Honestly I don't think my partner would be too into it, but I would be okay with it if it was something she wanted to try (either spitting or being spat on).
09/26/2011
I don't mind if he spits on my lady parts but I wouldn't want him to spit on my face. It would probably piss me off.
09/26/2011
I hate spitting, and would never want to be spat on or spit on someone. It actually grosses me out when I see someone spit on the street.
09/27/2011
Spitting for lube is OK with me. But when it's meant for degradation, that is a very hard limit for me. When I was in school, teachers made anyone who spit on the playground clean it up, and ever since then, yeah, just grosses me out.
09/27/2011
I would consider spitting for a BJ on my guy, but honestly, if someone spit on me, it would make me angry. I'd want to hit the person, which is what happened to the last person who spit on me. It's nasty and disrespectful.
10/01/2011