Pro Dominants; Empowering or Service?

Contributor: Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
Things went as planned, and because Savannah had helped me screen him, I had no problems. What really made it “real” though was holding the money in my hands at the end of the session. It was such a feeling of liberation. Like I knew what I was doing, and held my own future in my hands. It was quite a rush.

I never really thought about the rush of power that would come from being paid when I thought of pro dommes. I was always sort of in the camp that figured it felt more like a service when you were done, like any other kind of work. This part of the interview really made me stop and go... "huh!"

How about y'all?

In your mind is being a pro dominant (a paid professional) empowering? Was it before you read the article?
08/04/2009
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I don't see why it couldn't be a little bit of both. I mean, even in D/s relationships the Dominant is doing service. But I suspect some of the feelings of power for pros have to do with getting paid for something so naughty and forbidden or, if you're dominantly inclined, something that comes to easily.
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Contributor: SmutGeek SmutGeek
I agree with Adriana (as I resurrect a really old post on here just for the hell of it).
I think it could be empowering as well as a paid service. Kind of like therapy. The therapist gets paid too, even when they're helping people.
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