I am looking for a good no word. Any ideas?
No word, relate to sex?
09/15/2011
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Strawberries.
09/15/2011
Papyrus
Hippo
Femur
lightening
Denny's
Burger king
Sukiyaki
Burt Reynolds
Pipi long stocking
Edward
Tinkerbell
Linkin Park
Martini
....any word will do!
Hippo
Femur
lightening
Denny's
Burger king
Sukiyaki
Burt Reynolds
Pipi long stocking
Edward
Tinkerbell
Linkin Park
Martini
....any word will do!
09/15/2011
"No".
09/16/2011
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"No" and variations of "stop" don't work during BDSM scenes. It has to be something that would not be used in the normal discourse of play that will snap the dom/domme out of the scene and realize the person really needs them to stop what they're doing.
Originally posted by
Ghost
"No".
09/16/2011
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Jack Black
Originally posted by
I'm not sure
I am looking for a good no word. Any ideas?
Red Robbin
Cracker
09/17/2011
"potato" lol.. just cause I think the word is kinda funny
09/17/2011
I've used two. "Rumpelstiltskin" is my favorite. I like it because it is so totally absurd, especially during a BDSM scene. It's a good multi-syllable word that won't be confused with anything else when you say it.
I also like the disappointingly unoriginal "time-out." This isn't realy a NO word. We use it when the scene is getting a little intense and one of us needs a moment or two to pull it together before carrying on. This is usually just a 10 second count (or a preagreed length of time) so it doesn't break the scene. It just slows it down for a few seconds.
I also like the disappointingly unoriginal "time-out." This isn't realy a NO word. We use it when the scene is getting a little intense and one of us needs a moment or two to pull it together before carrying on. This is usually just a 10 second count (or a preagreed length of time) so it doesn't break the scene. It just slows it down for a few seconds.
09/17/2011
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Lawsuit
Originally posted by
I'm not sure
I am looking for a good no word. Any ideas?
09/20/2011
My lover and I use the red-light system of safe words:
Red = stop immediately
Yellow = too much/slow down/I'm not comfortable
Green = I'm good to go
Red = stop immediately
Yellow = too much/slow down/I'm not comfortable
Green = I'm good to go
09/20/2011
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lol, lawsuit. I might have to use that one
Originally posted by
RosesThorns
Lawsuit
09/20/2011
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brachiopod
Originally posted by
Naughty Student
Papyrus
Hippo
Femur
lightening
Denny's
Burger king
Sukiyaki
Burt Reynolds
Pipi long stocking
Edward
Tinkerbell
Linkin Park
Martini
....any word will do!
Hippo
Femur
lightening
Denny's
Burger king
Sukiyaki
Burt Reynolds
Pipi long stocking
Edward
Tinkerbell
Linkin Park
Martini
....any word will do!
12/07/2011
Good question! I have been trying to think of a safe word and just can't think of a good one.
12/07/2011
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LOL
Originally posted by
Phoenix77
lol, lawsuit. I might have to use that one
12/08/2011
these are so funny.
12/09/2011
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RED
Originally posted by
I'm not sure
I am looking for a good no word. Any ideas?
03/02/2012
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To be honest, no is always a safeword. Legally, it can be defined as rape if a "no" is ignored. I keep this as a safeword ALWAYS, meaning I will never deny my Dominant unless something is wrong, in which case He knows He needs to stop right away.
Originally posted by
Ansley
"No" and variations of "stop" don't work during BDSM scenes. It has to be something that would not be used in the normal discourse of play that will snap the dom/domme out of the scene and realize the person really needs them
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"No" and variations of "stop" don't work during BDSM scenes. It has to be something that would not be used in the normal discourse of play that will snap the dom/domme out of the scene and realize the person really needs them to stop what they're doing.
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Keep in mind that some people have hard times with safewords. You may need to reconsider "no." You don't want to ignore it and subsequently rape your submissive. I say this out of concern, not rudeness.
03/11/2012
any word that you normally wouldn't use in the situation your going to be in would work.
06/02/2012
Anything you don't commonly use- but something easy to remember
perhaps try to use something that both you and your partner have ties to?
perhaps try to use something that both you and your partner have ties to?
06/02/2012
I like the red, yellow, and green idea!!
11/23/2012
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