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Originally posted by
~LaUr3n~
No safe words, my partner and I communicate where we know boundaries before hand. IF something needs to stop...we say stop.
Yeah, that's us, too. I rarely will say "stop" or "no" in bed so those have sort of become our safe-words. Red, yellow, and "safeword" are all acceptable as well given that both of us are sort of conditioned to those being... well... safe words, and knowing what they mean/represent, having been in the scene for long enough.
When I am gagged or otherwise unable to vocally communicate, I use three quick taps on either him or the bed to communicate "STOP."
If I was playing with someone other than my partner, obviously "red, yellow, green" etc would be acceptable.