So, here's a little background information. My boyfriend and I are a pegging couple of slightly submissive switches who have collared one another and somehow mutually own each other. I'm sure our strange take on ownership isn't unique, I've just never heard of it in any other couple. Anyway, I mentioned pegging because we don't use a traditional strapon harness, I have a Feeldoe and a length of cotton rope which I use to make a harness using Shibari (Japanese bondage technique), and the last time I washed it, when I rolled it up it ended up looking like a flogger. I joked about it and asked him in a silly manner if he would ever want to flog me, at which point he picked it up and lightly used it on me as one. (I say lightly because I have a skin condition and can't take as much pain as I would like, and he remembers that.) And I liked it. It had an awesome thud without too much sting for me, which I'm sure can be changed if wielded harder, faster, or with just a little water involved.
Anyway the whole point is now I really want to return the favor. I know how much he enjoys pain and he can take a lot more than I can. When I suggested it, this dark wanting crossed his eyes, much like I'm sure it must cross mine when I want something done to me. But I've never even struck him more than a playful swat on the bum here and there, or a brief spanking before I peg him. I've never seen a flogger in the hands of someone who knows what they're doing, any scenes I come across it's a couple whaps and then straight to penetration. Porn industry has no clue what they're doing sometimes. There's no one around in the area we live in that could possibly help me figure it all out. So now I'm turning to the people here in the hopes of getting some advice. Please help!
~Pixie
This is it. I'll see if I can take one of higher quality.
Anyway the whole point is now I really want to return the favor. I know how much he enjoys pain and he can take a lot more than I can. When I suggested it, this dark wanting crossed his eyes, much like I'm sure it must cross mine when I want something done to me. But I've never even struck him more than a playful swat on the bum here and there, or a brief spanking before I peg him. I've never seen a flogger in the hands of someone who knows what they're doing, any scenes I come across it's a couple whaps and then straight to penetration. Porn industry has no clue what they're doing sometimes. There's no one around in the area we live in that could possibly help me figure it all out. So now I'm turning to the people here in the hopes of getting some advice. Please help!
~Pixie
This is it. I'll see if I can take one of higher quality.