I think some/ most have that tendency more than others. And some are hidden. Of course having a partner that has it will influence the other. I m very sure 99%+ of humans like or love to have sex and enjoy life

I don't have a big sampling to work with here - but my guess is that there are more people than we realize who just don't enjoy sex at all - much less kink.

As for closet-kinksters like OH&W refer to - that definitely describes me - and to a greater extent my wife. Kink doesn't come easy to her - but she keeps trying new things - and is often surprised at the results!

IMO, there are some people that just dont like sex. My bff, whom i love dearly, HATES sex. I feel AWFUL for her husband.

But as a rule i think there are more of us that LOVE sex than dont...WHEW!

As unusual as it seems to me, there are some people who just don't like sex, much less anything even remotely kinky. I have a very close friend I have known all my life who just isn't interested in anything even remotely sexual. She hasn't even kissed anyone, and she is 22. It actually makes things a little awkward for me, because I don't feel comfortable talking about my personal life with her. I feel like she would have a heart attack.

I have also run into problems with men sometimes. I am a very sexual person, and I feel like it has made some men I've dated uncomfortable. I have had men tell me that they don't want me to ever use toys. I even had one man break up with me because I told him I have had threesomes with two men (which, for the record, were absolutely wonderful experiences for me.) He was completely disgusted by it.

Now, that does not necessarily mean they will never be kinky. I was a somewhat late bloomer myself. I had really bad experiences in school with bullying, so I actually convinced myself that I was not a sexual person at all. I felt like no one would ever want me, so it made it easier to believe that I didn't want anybody, either. And I truly believed that. It took me quite some time to acclimatize to the real world, which was much better than school in my case. I never dated until after my first year of college, when I was 18, and it took a couple more years for me to actually have sex. Luckily, I have been blessed with open minded, respectful partners that have allowed me to explore my sexuality.

I think kink is in the eye of the beholder. To someone who is super vanilla, doggie style can be considered kinky. I think everyone has some fetish of some sort, but not everyone is brave enough to find out what theirs is. I feel sorry for those people.

Everybody, I think, has that desire in them, but many can't admit that. The urge to get playful and act strange is trained out of many people. For some, sex for any reason but procreation is perverted and wrong. I think that the imagination of many people when it comes to sex is stifled from childhood, and it's a damn shame.

The big question is, how to get the un-kinky person to take that first leap into the unknown. I think you need to build a lot of trust and be patient with them. One bad experience can set the progress back a long way. From one who knows!

I believe that a lot of people are kinkier than they admit or even believe themselves to be. However, I have met some people who truly have no kinky or sexual bone in their body. At least in the time I've known them I have never heard or seen anything to admit so.

I think even some asexual people can be kinky)

I think deep down almost everyone has that taboo desire to try that one thing that really gets them. Though society doesn't see it as norm so they don't give it a shot or show it even in the most intimate moments.

I think that some people just are not kinky in anyway. My wife would be perfectly happy with plain vanilla missonary sex. That makes me crazy. She is very well taken care of but does nothing to enhance or spice up our sex life. I have thought that leading by example would help but she continues to be blissfully ignorant. It has gotten so bad that I have looked elsewhere for satisfaction.I need that edgey sex from time to time and have sought it out where ever I could find it. It makes me feel bad when I do participate because I love her very much. But honestly arent we entitled to a happy fullfilling sex life. I don't need kink all of the time but she just doesn't participate at all. She has NEVER expressed an intrest in postions,toys,iniation of sex,porn,oral or generally my pleasure at all. Anything to do with sex is on my shoulders if she approves. Blow jobs ? I have to ask ( beg ) but she likes it when I go down on her,rimming out of the question but she sure cums hard when she recieves it,toys she enjoys the hell out the wand I bought her. I bought a strap on for my pleasure and she won't even look at it.

I think every bone in my body is kinky lol I do believe some just doesn't have it in them or maybe too shy to go to a new level. I say whatever makes each person happy and comfortable is what's right for them.

I think in some form or fashion every one is or has a kink. I think the term kink is relative to each individual. What I consider 'normal' one might consider kink.