I introduced my partner. I had a hunch he'd really enjoy it once he got comfortable with it (spoiler: he totally did!), but it was a little difficult to get him into it. I started by offering some suggestions of things he might like, and he chose what he felt most comfortable doing, slowly edging into it. For example, I thought it might be fun to try choking, so at first he would just hold my neck gently while we kissed, and over the course of a few weeks he would hold tighter and tighter until I was actually being choked. We took this route for pretty much all our BDSM activities and it's worked out really well!

If you're looking for more examples, this topic has also been discussed here (with a slightly different prompt) link. less