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Contributor: HotMama2three HotMama2three
I bought the toys, but DH has no idea how to use them on me. What should we watch or read so he has some ideas?
07/12/2012
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Contributor: Madsinner Madsinner
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Originally posted by HotMama2three
I bought the toys, but DH has no idea how to use them on me. What should we watch or read so he has some ideas?
Go to some play parties. Or even some seminars. Youtube it if nothing else
The best way to use any crops, whips and floggers is to hit fatty pads. No faces. No Spines.
and the golden rule is;
If you wouldn't get hit yourself you have no business hitting.
07/14/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
At least for spanking, aim for the part where the butt begans to curve under. Start gently, and slowly increase. For floggers and crops, make sure you watch instructional videos before play, and keep with the idea of starting slow and soft.
07/15/2012
Contributor: HotMama2three HotMama2three
Any favorite videos?
07/16/2012
Contributor: Yaoi Pervette (deleted) Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
As far as books go, I like "Screw the Roses; Send Me the Thorns" by Phillip Miller and Molly Devon. It has great info on technique and safety.
07/16/2012
Contributor: TheHardOne TheHardOne
Ton's of videos here.... spankingtube
02/05/2013
Contributor: A Good Girl A Good Girl
Practice, practice, practice.. read up on some basic safety guidelines like the ones given above and then have fun. Be sure you talk him through it; is it too hard or can you handle more; did you like it in body place a but it disturbed you when he hit b. Communication is the key to exploration with a new toy. My husband and I just finished out very first flogging session and it was wonderful, just make sure that you're talking so that you both know how the other is feeling.
02/08/2013
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
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Originally posted by A Good Girl
Practice, practice, practice.. read up on some basic safety guidelines like the ones given above and then have fun. Be sure you talk him through it; is it too hard or can you handle more; did you like it in body place a but it disturbed you when he ... more
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02/08/2013
Contributor: novanilla novanilla
Have him try it out on a pillow or something to get the aim right before he uses them on you...a youtube video will help him see the technique, but he needs to learn to aim so he doesn't accidentally hit a dangerous area that could cause damage.
02/10/2013