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How many of you are Sadists or Masochists?

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Contributor: Kitka Kitka
I saw the discussions on who all is a Dom, sub, Master and slave but didn't really see any for the Sadists or Masochists. So who's a Sadist and who's a Masochist?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Sadist
philly , Envy , Sir , Errant Venture , ac0313 , finnimbrun , phoenixfire , Gdom , Miss L
9
Masochist
WhoopieDoo , padmeamidala , Nothere , Vanille , bratofthekitties , AmandaV , kitty5cat , (k)InkyIvy , LavenderSkies , Ms. Spice , TheSinDoll , LusciousLollypop , Entropy , SubmissiveFeminist , Strider , phoenixfire , hall5885 , SelectZen , TheirPet , nosrslylol
20
A combination thereof
biancajames , Ansley , jacki , Airen Wolf , Masokisti , Katelyn , DeliciousSurprise , JackRaiden , Pixel , ColorMeCute , KyotoAngel , AndroAngel , Breas , Amelia Stone , elli , vampyroteuthidae , Loriandhubby , xGOLDx , Beneath The Bed , Mimosa pudica , Anteaterz , HisLittleFiend , scooter2002 , burtnuh , plaidvulva , TheirPet , xcapricax , mr115393 , SaucyxGirl , Kirill1171
30
The ever popluar other
SMichelle , caseyb , Cowgirl-Cutie , novanilla , tortilla , edeneve , RedKyuubi
7
Total votes: 66 (64 voters)
Poll is closed
12/09/2011
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Contributor: biancajames biancajames
Quote:
Originally posted by Kitka
I saw the discussions on who all is a Dom, sub, Master and slave but didn't really see any for the Sadists or Masochists. So who's a Sadist and who's a Masochist?
I am def more about pain, pleasure and sensation as much as if not more than D/s
12/10/2011
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
I like a good spanking/slapping/padd ling/whipping/biting but I don't like to inflict pain.
12/10/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Kitka
I saw the discussions on who all is a Dom, sub, Master and slave but didn't really see any for the Sadists or Masochists. So who's a Sadist and who's a Masochist?
I am a bonefide pain slut but I relish giving as good as I get.
12/10/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Kitka
I saw the discussions on who all is a Dom, sub, Master and slave but didn't really see any for the Sadists or Masochists. So who's a Sadist and who's a Masochist?
I'm a masochist who loves receiving pain
12/10/2011
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
I'm the maso, my girlfriend is the Sadist.
12/10/2011
Contributor: Envy Envy
I am sadistic, but not in the sexual way or realm. I just love seeing people getting hurt, but only if they deserve it as a way of karma getting back at them.
12/11/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
*raises hand* Sadomasochist here.
12/11/2011
Contributor: Sir Sir
I'm a sadist.
12/11/2011
Contributor: AmandaV AmandaV
Quote:
Originally posted by Kitka
I saw the discussions on who all is a Dom, sub, Master and slave but didn't really see any for the Sadists or Masochists. So who's a Sadist and who's a Masochist?
Masochist here. I love being bitten, scratched, spanked etc. but I don't like doing it back
12/11/2011
Contributor: KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
I'm a bit of both myself, I love a good spanking to the point I'd actively do naughty things to earn one. But when the mood strikes me I don't mind giving one either. x'D
12/11/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
I'm a Sadomasochist. I'm a pain slut to the core, but there's something powerfully arousing about inflicting it on someone who enjoys receiving it as much as I do.
12/11/2011
Contributor: Amelia Stone Amelia Stone
Quote:
Originally posted by AndroAngel
I'm a Sadomasochist. I'm a pain slut to the core, but there's something powerfully arousing about inflicting it on someone who enjoys receiving it as much as I do.
Totally agree. I love my pain but there is just something really satisfying about giving it to someone who begs more than I do.
01/29/2012
Contributor: Errant Venture Errant Venture
I'm a sadist. I love giving spankings, and biting, as well as making my girl go through the torture of orgasm denial.
02/01/2012
Contributor: ac0313 ac0313
only sadistic. All of my bdsm activities involve me being the Top.
02/25/2012
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
I'm a masochist, but not in the "whips and chains" kind of way. I thoroughly enjoy self destruction, but most of my habits are subconsciously done; I don't usually realize I'm being self destructive until I take a step back and analyze my actions.

I don't like inflicting pain on others.
02/25/2012
Contributor: TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
Full out masochist.
02/25/2012
Contributor: LusciousLollypop LusciousLollypop
I am so completely submissive. I'm such a pain slut, humiliation slut, and total crave the 24/7 lifestyle in every way possible. If he is happy, I am happy. That is it. I'm even on fetlife under the same username as this one.. caution -- graphic images and thoughts.
02/29/2012
Contributor: Entropy Entropy
Straight up masochist.
03/02/2012
Contributor: SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
Masochist, all the way.
03/11/2012
Contributor: phoenixfire phoenixfire
Oops, I did not see the "combo thereof" option. I am much more a masochist than a sadist. I do not want to inflict serious wounds of any sort. That said, a little bruising? Oh Hell yeah. SO is not on board with that, though. He will do impact play, but only if I'm on the receiving end.
01/10/2013
Contributor: Gdom Gdom
I'm a proud sadist! I could probably get into the psychological power-exchange aspects of masochism, but pain doesn't give me that visceral sort of pleasure that a lot of self-identified masochists experience.
01/11/2013
Contributor: HisLittleFiend HisLittleFiend
I'm a total switch in every way. While for me, I love the more domination/submission aspect instead of just giving/receiving pain for pleasure, there is something sexy about seeing somebody beaten up and bruised and something sexy about being completely destroyed.
01/11/2013
Contributor: scooter2002 scooter2002
Quote:
Originally posted by Kitka
I saw the discussions on who all is a Dom, sub, Master and slave but didn't really see any for the Sadists or Masochists. So who's a Sadist and who's a Masochist?
there is such power in giving yet its a total rush to submit,I couldn't see being only on one side of the whip and not the other. Sometimes recieving is a way of giving to the giver.
01/11/2013
Contributor: phoenixfire phoenixfire
Quote:
Originally posted by scooter2002
there is such power in giving yet its a total rush to submit,I couldn't see being only on one side of the whip and not the other. Sometimes recieving is a way of giving to the giver.
Well said, Scooter. I agree.
01/11/2013
Contributor: caseyb caseyb
Quote:
Originally posted by WhoopieDoo
I like a good spanking/slapping/padd ling/whipping/biting but I don't like to inflict pain.
i like to bite and pinch but otherwise i agree w you. i can be submissive or dominant, depends on the setting and drinks in me.. lol
01/15/2013
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
90% masochist here.
01/15/2013
Contributor: xcapricax xcapricax
It depends on who im with. Im a switch.
01/15/2013
Contributor: Cowgirl-Cutie Cowgirl-Cutie
I chose other because sometimes I enjoy pain and other times I don't. Depends on the situation and how worked up I am.
01/17/2013
Contributor: SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
It all depends on who I am with and how they carry themselves. I can't really say that I am even split on this one as I have noticed that I have more of a leaning towards sadist.
02/10/2013