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Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by TheSinDoll
There seem to be a ton of the "who wants to tie who up" polls floating around; I've answered two today.

This isn't a discussion about being a dominant, top, switch, submissive, or bottom, but feel free to fill that in a post ... more
Very experienced but always learning new things. Ihave taught and have taken lessons.
02/17/2012
Contributor: Sir Sir
Full-time Dominant. I know enough, but there's always something new to learn, new technique or a new form of play to incorporate.
02/19/2012
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
It's a very interesting thing. I'm not super kinky, or really much at all. I'm very curious.. but shy.
02/19/2012
Contributor: te te
Kinky and curious.
02/19/2012
Contributor: loveshocks loveshocks
My boyfriend and I play in the bedroom, or just around the house - we are not part of a community though.
02/19/2012
Contributor: TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
Quote:
Originally posted by Sir
Full-time Dominant. I know enough, but there's always something new to learn, new technique or a new form of play to incorporate.
Great reply.
02/25/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by TheSinDoll
There seem to be a ton of the "who wants to tie who up" polls floating around; I've answered two today.

This isn't a discussion about being a dominant, top, switch, submissive, or bottom, but feel free to fill that in a post ... more
I think I know what I'm doing
02/27/2012
Contributor: PirateofPenance PirateofPenance
Quote:
Originally posted by TheSinDoll
There seem to be a ton of the "who wants to tie who up" polls floating around; I've answered two today.

This isn't a discussion about being a dominant, top, switch, submissive, or bottom, but feel free to fill that in a post ... more
I'm on Fetlife, but I haven't actually done anything especially kinky in a while. It takes me a while to work up to any kind of sexual contact, and even longer to broach the subject of BDSM with someone I'm seeing.
02/27/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
We aren't that kinky.
02/28/2012
Contributor: LusciousLollypop LusciousLollypop
My partner and I are extremely kinky. We enjoy all aspects of BDSM, even the unspoken ones. Extremely taboo and we love it. I'm on fetlife under the same name as my username here. I wouldn't trade it for the world and I don't think I can ever go back to being "vanilla" ever. It is far more adventurous being into extreme kink to the point that we are. xoxo
02/29/2012
Contributor: Lizzy Lizzy
real kinky
02/29/2012
Contributor: eroticmutt eroticmutt
My partner and I play in the bedroom but we do not go to events. We are learning new things all the time, expanding our boundaries and making videos
03/01/2012
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
I think I'm pretty vanilla.
03/01/2012
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
We 'know what the fuck we're doing' We don't participate in the 'local scene' because we don't need to, we live our kink as we damn well please.
03/01/2012
Contributor: legislacerator legislacerator
i'd say i'm really kinky in the sense that there's a lot of stuff i'm into and would like to try (though due to the limits of my existing anatomy and such, plenty of it isn't quite possible), but i don't have a ton of experience yet. my current boyfriend is the first person i've had a long-term sexual relationship with, and we're slowly working on learning about each other in both vanilla and kinky contexts, and saving up for some toys and restraints, particularly a collar for me!
03/07/2012
Contributor: purple579 purple579
Quote:
Originally posted by TheSinDoll
There seem to be a ton of the "who wants to tie who up" polls floating around; I've answered two today.

This isn't a discussion about being a dominant, top, switch, submissive, or bottom, but feel free to fill that in a post ... more
I'm pretty kinky really but I prefer being dominated.
03/08/2012
Contributor: Serena Shirley Serena Shirley
I like to consider myself very kinky. I'm 100% submissive, and only have 2 things that I consider hard limits. (don't piss on me, don't sh!t on me) I don't do just anything with every partner, but in the hands of a good master I'm open to just about everything. I try to stay informed about the safest ways to perform certain types of kink, but I expect the same of my top.
03/08/2012
Contributor: Djiffy Djiffy
Slightly kinky, I suppose. More than vanilla, but not extreme.
03/08/2012
Contributor: SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
I like to think I'm pretty knowledgeable and experienced.
03/11/2012
Contributor: TheGreat TheGreat
It is all a learning process for us right now. Before we started dating the idea of bondage was weird but now I enjoy it!
03/22/2012
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
I'm a little bit kinky. I like tying up partners, blindfolding them, teasing them with toys, hot wax, ice cubes, spanking, etc... But for some reason I don't like having those things done to me. I prefer to be the dominate one when it comes to those things. But when it comes to actual sex, I do like to be thrown down and have my brains fucked out.
03/25/2012
Contributor: gloomybear gloomybear
i just confessed to my bf i like bondage he has taken an intrest
03/26/2012
Contributor: Brandonn Brandonn
I marked the last option.Look it up
03/27/2012
Contributor: lustylusty lustylusty
I think I am pretty kinky but my man says I could be more kinky.
03/27/2012
Contributor: xxjoel xxjoel
I've never met anybody as kinky as me.
03/30/2012
Contributor: CindyH CindyH
not very kinky
03/30/2012
Contributor: Teaser Teaser
Quote:
Originally posted by UnknownGirl
Well, it really depends on what you're considering "kinky." What's the yard stick here? I mean, what may be personally kinky for me may seem like vanilla sex to somebody else.
Well put.
05/03/2012
Contributor: Teaser Teaser
I used to think I was kind of kinky, but after reading some of the posts here, I guess I'm pretty much vanilla sex. And without even any sprinkles!
05/03/2012
Contributor: noname3 noname3
Quote:
Originally posted by TheSinDoll
There seem to be a ton of the "who wants to tie who up" polls floating around; I've answered two today.

This isn't a discussion about being a dominant, top, switch, submissive, or bottom, but feel free to fill that in a post ... more
I've been in the lifestyle for 6 years now and just joined the community 6 months ago. yeah I'm a little backwards lol.
05/21/2012
Contributor: Phosphorous Tick Phosphorous Tick
i'm a member of the community and know what I like
however my last partner was not to be trusted- and my Mistress is taking things painstakingly slow
05/25/2012