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Contributor: HisLittleGirl HisLittleGirl
Daddy and I met when I was student teaching my last semester of college. He was my supervising teacher and we had to keep our relationship a secret. Initially we flirted, but I didn't dare approach him. He started taking me to teacher's conferences with him and one night, as we were putting away the school vehicle in the garage, he grabbed my arm just as I was about to step out the door. He pulled me to him and gave me this deep, passionate kiss. All I could manage to do was look up at him and say "thank you" in this little, tiny voice. Daddy still reminds me of that and how adorable he thought it was, but when it happened I thought it made me look like a complete tart. I mean, who says thank you like that after a first kiss?

We did not start kinky at all! It was something that developed naturally and I am so glad it did.

So how did you meet? And did you start the relationship kinky or did it develop?
09/27/2010
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Contributor: Madeira Madeira
My domme/girlfriend and I met on OKCupid and through a mutual friend (basically we were already flirting on OKC when the friend introduced us) and on our first date we had a conversation "Soooo... you said you're kinky, juuuust how kinky did you mean?" we figured out fairly early on that we're both pretty damn kinky, and thus we started playing that way pretty early on.
10/23/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by HisLittleGirl
Daddy and I met when I was student teaching my last semester of college. He was my supervising teacher and we had to keep our relationship a secret. Initially we flirted, but I didn't dare approach him. He started taking me to teacher's ... more
Met him in Highschool and married him a few years later!
10/23/2010
Contributor: RosesThorns RosesThorns
I met my partner in crime about 2ish years ago through our religious group, he was with one of his ex's still and I was engaged at the time, we became friends and kept in contact when he deployed. This summer we spent a lot of time together and became an item. He is now my partner in crime, my lover, the love of my life, my Daddy, and My Sir. We are both technically switches.
10/27/2010
Contributor: briluminary briluminary
I basically just had to train my boyfriend. :p
08/12/2011
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
A dating website for British men and the women who "want to save the accent". His screen name was 'knotty_or_nice'. During our initial site-based e-mails, he mentioned that he wanted an equal partner who wasn't passive in day to day life. I coyly replied 'passivity is only for the bedroom', and retorted with 'just as dominance is just for the bedroom'.

This was in March of this year (2011). Master and I have been together since.
08/12/2011
Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
We went to school together. Then when he graduated we started talking on facebook. Now we've been dating for almost a year.
08/16/2011
Contributor: Vanessa Weiss Vanessa Weiss
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Originally posted by Madeira
My domme/girlfriend and I met on OKCupid and through a mutual friend (basically we were already flirting on OKC when the friend introduced us) and on our first date we had a conversation "Soooo... you said you're kinky, juuuust how kinky ... more
My partner and I met on OKC also. I thought one of his profile pictures was awesome and sent him a message asking about it. We have since realized that we've had many near-misses in terms of meeting each other IRL over the past several years (many mutual friends, hang out in the same places, etc) and twice had actually met in passing.

We didn't really get into how kinky either of us was (hint: very) until we'd been on a few dates. I mean, we talked about it on the first date, to be honest, but not like, "Well, exactly how kinky ARE you?"


We sort of knew, though. For the most part, yes, we started the relationship kinky.
08/17/2011
Contributor: Errant Venture Errant Venture
I met my girl on an erotica site - one with BDSM leanings.
08/20/2011
Contributor: Wildchild Wildchild
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Originally posted by HisLittleGirl
Daddy and I met when I was student teaching my last semester of college. He was my supervising teacher and we had to keep our relationship a secret. Initially we flirted, but I didn't dare approach him. He started taking me to teacher's ... more
We met six years ago, we were both in relationships and hit it off. Then we went our seperate ways, ran into each other a year later, both single and pickup up where wee left off.

It started out kinky, She had to teach me. Then she opened Pandora's box and well I have never slowed down.
08/20/2011