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Contributor: TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
What is the D-Type in your relationship referred as? I know I'm probably leaving out a ton of titles so feel free to plug them in!
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Sir
toxie m , Taylor , Lucidity , Sir , Pixel , seaofneptune , submissive.sweetheart , SaucyMan , Dusk , sexyintexas , miss-miss , Sohotdinosaur , ac0313 , bunny love , Joie de Cherresse , MissAnna , k3 , cobiffle , cburger , ashaxmarie , AgnesTrevejo , null , VenusianThunder , Akikaze , CylonSexFiend , kvisnirskitten , sarki , Gimme more, woah! , Vanessa Weiss , Kkay , carenautilus , Cherrylane , WhoopieDoo , Jake'n'bake , SMichelle , Serena Shirley , glassdoll , RemusHalifax , Faeya , Hallmar82 , Caus , plaidvulva , SubmissiveFeminist , blixa , blackadeezee , KinkyKatiya , SkinFlute , little miss kinky , Lilith Bealove , woodsdragon , roseofchaos , Voilet , Crimsonia , Leather & Lace , Ganconagh , Danneh , LoooveMonkey , violets , ohsnaprawr , The Majikat , CaliGirl , inkky , Supervixen , tunacan75 , Jessie<3 , MrsHouseWife , Marie Hanna , travelnurse , Gdom
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Master
Lucidity , IrishLassie , Sir , Naughty Student , potstickers , Tori Rebel , Shellz31 , SaucyMan , sexy19364 , padmeamidala , swf , salaciousrex , bunny love , xoflxokcxo , k3 , Persephone Nightmare , Red Vinyl Kitty , ashaxmarie , newlady , tickle me pink , Judas Iscars , VenusianThunder , Errant Venture , CylonSexFiend , kvisnirskitten , RainbowOokami , Mikex , Gimme more, woah! , Kkay , domsub1993 , geliebt , AndroAngel , zeb , Jake'n'bake , KyotoAngel , SMichelle , duff , finnimbrun , LusciousLollypop , loveshocks , tern , Hallmar82 , BiJess , Caus , spineyogurt , plaidvulva , SubmissiveFeminist , Falsepast , tigertiger , Nightfademusic , pokefan15 , TransMarc , pootpootpoot , sexystuffeve , gsfanatic , Entropy , KinkyKatiya , hall5885 , little miss kinky , Lilith Bealove , roseofchaos , The Majikat , Living Doll , CaliGirl , Genderfree , inkky , tunacan75 , True Pleasures , piscesinvt
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Daddy
DeliciousSurprise , Sir , MaryExy , Misfit Momma , ❦Angel Of Music❦ , Linga , k3 , Persephone Nightmare , SexyLilPixi , The Curious Couple , VenusianThunder , sexygoddess , Karen Affeldt , Kitka , Jake'n'bake , Serena Shirley , glassdoll , dks210 , SmutGeek , eroticmutt , Caus , plaidvulva , little miss kinky , Leather & Lace , SavingMyself , TheSinDoll , Lacey- , CloudySunday , Sinfully , EvaChangeN , Beck , bratofthekitties
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Mistress
DeliciousSurprise , Lucidity , Miss T , Tori Rebel , Kayla , Anjulie , xoflxokcxo , Adriana Ravenlust , Diabolical Kitty , yoham45 , Virgulino , stlouisxxx , Kinkme , CoffeeCup , Gimme more, woah! , Kkay , mistressg , hyacinthgirl , TheSlyFox , lilnina86 , SmutGeek , Alyxx , Caus , SubmissiveFeminist , tigertiger , MistressDandelion , TransMarc , hall5885 , Sassenach , FHeemz , Zandrock , Badass , SailorJulyxo , The Majikat , mdnght , marigolds6 , ginnyluvspotter , subbieforHer
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Miss
DeliciousSurprise , Miss T , Lio , pinkcupcakes , Miss Morphine , corsetsaurus rex , Alyxx , Sundae Sparkles , Badass , mdnght
10
Ma'am
DeliciousSurprise , BBW Talks Toys , Lio , pinkcupcakes , Diabolical Kitty , Airen Wolf , Lady Marmelade , Screen Door , G.L. Morrison , Gimme more, woah! , Kkay , mistressg , hyacinthgirl , Miss Anonymous , 131231e43 , Alyxx , Caus , SubmissiveFeminist , roseofchaos , Ganconagh , Billie Bones , mdnght , xcapricax
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Something that usually gets me in trouble.
DeliciousSurprise , Miss T , Pixel , (Re)tired Stripper , LavenderSkies , Dusk , k3 , ashaxmarie , The Mother of a SiNner , SMichelle , glassdoll , RemusHalifax , plaidvulva , SubmissiveFeminist , BeepBop , TransMarc , pootpootpoot , solitudinarian , KinkyKatiya , little miss kinky , Lilith Bealove , Phantom2291 , Clara , Zandrock , Leather & Lace , Danneh , CadmiumKitty , Innocent Mathias , EvaChangeN
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Call them by their regular name.
(Re)tired Stripper , P'Gell , submissive.sweetheart , Misfit Momma , Dusk , ❦Angel Of Music❦ , salaciousrex , bunny love , Joie de Cherresse , k3 , sexyk515 , ashaxmarie , K101 , tickle me pink , null , kelaaa33wish , JewelsAndB , The Mother of a SiNner , CoffeeCup , RainbowOokami , ichwillwaffels , aigott2 , Sex'и'Violence , Vanessa Weiss , jeangel246 , Illumin8 , Sunshineamine , carenautilus , Jon S , slynch , unfulfilled , Sarah <3 , AndroAngel , Princess-Kayla ♥ , Stinkytofu10 , Kitka , arduous , SMichelle , Breas , Modern^Spank^Anthem , littlenaurn , glassdoll , charletnarouh , kittycatgirl , RemusHalifax , SmutGeek , pinkpottergirl , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , loveshocks , Loriandhubby , Alyxx , cheesewizz , tiggle biddies , BeepBop , TransMarc , thekindthorn , cryinglightning86 , Greenleaf , solitudinarian , Woman China , hall5885 , little miss kinky , Gone (LD29) , Lilith Bealove , Phantom2291 , novanilla , collifornia , Crimsonia , Zandrock , Augustxsins , pizzahut , snarknemesis , LoooveMonkey , violets , SailorJulyxo , Genderfree , inkky , Sinfully , skeeterlynn , damnbul12 , Love Perpetua , VeenaJae , Marie Hanna , marriedlady123 , Gdom
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Other!
IrishLassie , kutekatie , Sir , Pixel , potstickers , (Re)tired Stripper , sixfootsex , seaofneptune , LavenderSkies , P'Gell , honeybee7484 , Awby , sexy19364 , bunny love , Diabolical Kitty , tickle me pink , babypinecone , NarcissisticLust , big b , DustBunny , Lady Marmelade , G.L. Morrison , strawberrystwstd , mistressg , haley730 , TheBadHobbit , SMichelle , Ms. N , Allstars316 , glassdoll , RemusHalifax , SJ88 , tern , Alyxx , Lavender*Moon , deltalima , pootpootpoot , lustylusty , Entropy , little miss kinky , Phantom2291 , Voilet , Crimsonia , Dixiemomma , RomanticGoth , glasskitten , Rescuer136 , Nyx (Under the Covers) , marigolds6 , Gunsmoke , spiced
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Total votes: 406 (249 voters)
Poll is closed
03/16/2011
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Contributor: DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
Not on your list...

I've been called Domina, I was rather fond of that one; I'm also fond of Lady. I know one woman who will only permit her submissives to call her "Madame" and another who likes "M'Lady." I know several "Mama"s as well.

I've also been with Daddies, masculine and feminine identified, though that was not always our dynamic within our relationship.
03/16/2011
Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
Usually he is Master and I am Mistress more often than not (depending on who is D). But for certain roleplays, we get other "titles". I like "Domina", I might make him call me that next time.
03/16/2011
Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
I call my husband Captain or Master, although he is quite fond of Captain..
03/16/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
I'm usually called Ma'am. And I forgot to add it but when we switch, he's Sir.
03/16/2011
Contributor: kutekatie kutekatie
lol He's "BUNS" as in - buns o' steel
03/16/2011
Contributor: Sir Sir
I'm called Sir, Master, Daddy, Owner, and other names.
03/16/2011
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
My guy is not my Dom in the lifestyle sense but he is dominant and I call him master soemtimes and I call his dick the "mastershafter".
03/16/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
I've referred to my sir as Sir, M'laird, and Himself when I am being polite. Bite-y McFang-ypants (that didn't end well for me), You Evil Bastard, and a few others when I am not.
03/16/2011
Contributor: (Re)tired Stripper (Re)tired Stripper
Quote:
Originally posted by Naughty Student
My guy is not my Dom in the lifestyle sense but he is dominant and I call him master soemtimes and I call his dick the "mastershafter".
I love that! Haha!


I'm boring. I sometimes goad mine with rude names, or just call him "Mister," as we can be pretty informal.
03/17/2011
Contributor: TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
Quote:
Originally posted by Naughty Student
My guy is not my Dom in the lifestyle sense but he is dominant and I call him master soemtimes and I call his dick the "mastershafter".
LOL!
03/17/2011
Contributor: seaofneptune seaofneptune
I usually call mine "Sir", my partner and I are still experimenting so we switch from time to time right now. He calls me "Empress" for fun.
03/17/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Naughty Student
My guy is not my Dom in the lifestyle sense but he is dominant and I call him master soemtimes and I call his dick the "mastershafter".
Hehe
03/20/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
My online guy is always called Master and he calls me slut or filthy whore.
03/21/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I call him by his name, or "sweetie" "darling" or "sweetheart." I only call him "Sir" if I'm in a really snotty mood, and he usually says, "That's what I like to hear." We both usually laugh.

"Sonofabitch" gets thrown into the mix once in a while.
03/23/2011
Contributor: hjtee hjtee
My husband prefers to be called Sir.
He just called me by my name, for now.
03/23/2011
Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
I call mine Daddy. We haven't gotten into a very serious dynamic yet (definitely on the way practice-wise), and he thinks it sounds cuter than "Master", "Sir", or the like.
03/24/2011
Contributor: SaucyMan SaucyMan
I'm old fashioned when it comes to this. She calls me Sir and Master, and I call her 'My (insert her name here)'
03/28/2011
Contributor: sexy19364 sexy19364
I call mine Master, or by his name when we are in public. When I'm feeling cute I call him squishy. ^_^ He calls me by my name usually, or slave when he is disciplining or my dearest when being romantic.
04/01/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by TheSinDoll
What is the D-Type in your relationship referred as? I know I'm probably leaving out a ton of titles so feel free to plug them in!
I usually call him Master although he is also my Daddy also.
04/01/2011
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
Out of what you listed, we use Master and Mistress occasionally. But mostly he calls me 'My Queen'.
04/01/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
Quote:
Originally posted by TheSinDoll
What is the D-Type in your relationship referred as? I know I'm probably leaving out a ton of titles so feel free to plug them in!
Yes sir!!!
04/01/2011
Contributor: ac0313 ac0313
She calls me Sir. If she fails to do so, she is reminded very quickly...
04/25/2011
Contributor: bunny love bunny love
I only call him "master" during D/s play. I call him "sir" for fun, usually when I'm feeling cute and trying to take care of him. "Would you like to get some Chipotle, Sir?"

Outside of sex, I usually just call him a pet name, a silly form of his name, or his regular nickname that everyone else calls him.

I sometimes jokingly refer to him as a bastard. "You played Portal 2 before me!?!? You BASTARD!" Luckily, he hasn't committed such an act of treason. I'd have his head!
04/28/2011
Contributor: Linga Linga
I my Daddy. He calls me a range of things from Babygirl to Daddy's cum dumpster
04/28/2011
Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
Quote:
Originally posted by MaryExy
I call mine Daddy. We haven't gotten into a very serious dynamic yet (definitely on the way practice-wise), and he thinks it sounds cuter than "Master", "Sir", or the like.
Follow up: Recently my guy has REALLY started getting into calling me by pet names. Sweetheart, doll, his little kitten, kid, pudding, his toy, and his pretty/little girl. And variations on slut still come up in play. I'm still trying to figure out what inspired him to start using all these pet names, though...

I'm still calling him Daddy. I feel boring, but he loves it.
04/28/2011
Contributor: MissAnna MissAnna
It depends on the relationship dynamic but usually tends to be Sir (as I voted for) or Daddy (as I am a babygirl)
04/28/2011
Contributor: k3 k3
It all depends on what headspace I am in, really. When we are going about the day as equals in a regular relationship, I will just use His name. But often I will throw a "Sir" His way when I am hoping for a smile, or "Master" when I want Him to know what's on my mind, so to say... ;] When we're in D/s mindset, I will use either Sir or Master, though Master is more used in the bedroom and Sir more regularly. When I am in my little headspace, which sometimes comes along with being in a particularly kittenish mood, I will call Him Daddy. <3
04/29/2011
Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
Normally I call her Goddess.
04/30/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
you football player, that was one we used sometime
04/30/2011