In my new article on SexIs Social, I put myself out there, and published the one between myself and my husband. Check it out!
Have you ever wanted to read a REAL BDSM contract?
10/26/2012
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Thank you for sharing! I love seeing how other people structure their relationships, and appreciate your showing us all your contract!
10/26/2012
You guys are as detailed as us. LOL I think ours is eight pages? I forget. It's pretty long though. We just have sections with paragraphs instead of a bullet list. I like the bullets though.
10/26/2012
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I actually took a few sections out of it too because it was such a long article.... lol.
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You guys are as detailed as us. LOL I think ours is eight pages? I forget. It's pretty long though. We just have sections with paragraphs instead of a bullet list. I like the bullets though.
10/26/2012
Thanks for sharing! It was really interesting to read a real contract since I'm not involved in a BDSM lifestyle.
10/26/2012
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LOL! I think yours is longer than ours then.
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Tessa Taboo
I actually took a few sections out of it too because it was such a long article.... lol.
10/26/2012
Thanks so much, I have always wondered!
10/26/2012
Neatt
10/26/2012
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never heard of them.
Originally posted by
Tessa Taboo
In my new article on SexIs Social, I put myself out there, and published the one between myself and my husband. Check it out!
10/26/2012
Very interesting! Thank you for sharing!
10/26/2012
Awesome, thanks for a sample. It's something my sub and I are going through a trial with, so having more examples can't hurt
10/26/2012
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That's kind of what I figured! I couldn't believe there weren't more online when I looked for them, and the ones I found were more for 'slaves' than just subs, and that isn't what we were going for. So... there it is
Originally posted by
gsfanatic
Awesome, thanks for a sample. It's something my sub and I are going through a trial with, so having more examples can't hurt
10/27/2012
Wow I really appreciate having a chance to read this. I love the thing about the dishes!
I'm thinking I should have a relationship contract, haha
I'm thinking I should have a relationship contract, haha
10/27/2012
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Haha! That's almost what ours is, except it's a little more intense, and has a few more benefits... lol.
Originally posted by
ShadowedSeductress
Wow I really appreciate having a chance to read this. I love the thing about the dishes!
I'm thinking I should have a relationship contract, haha
I'm thinking I should have a relationship contract, haha
10/27/2012
Good read! Thanks!
10/27/2012
great article! i confess i had to look up "sounding"(b lush)
so i learned something new today! didn't know thats what it was called.
but really, loved your article. thank you for sharing something so intimate with us
so i learned something new today! didn't know thats what it was called.
but really, loved your article. thank you for sharing something so intimate with us
10/27/2012
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I saw your contract and I loved it. It is close to the one Master wrote for Us.
Originally posted by
Tessa Taboo
In my new article on SexIs Social, I put myself out there, and published the one between myself and my husband. Check it out!
10/28/2012
I've had a consideration contract and then an ownership contract. In the end, you can use one as a template, but you put in it what works for you and yours.
I love the article though - you really put yourself out there.
I love the article though - you really put yourself out there.
10/29/2012
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What is a consideration contract?
Originally posted by
TheSinDoll
I've had a consideration contract and then an ownership contract. In the end, you can use one as a template, but you put in it what works for you and yours.
I love the article though - you really put yourself out there.
I love the article though - you really put yourself out there.
10/29/2012
Thank You For Sharing!
11/04/2012
Great article, I really enjoyed reading your paraphrased contract to get a glimpse of how other M/s couples went about that aspect and how it served to define the boundaries of the relationship and arrangements of the dynamic set out for both partners. Very, very well done. The contract I entered is still only in the form of a single hand-written copy stored in one of my Mistress' security deposit boxes (I think thats where She keeps it anyway...). Perhaps I shall ask Her if I may share our contract also
The one main difference that we had in our contract is that Mistress' closest friend was informed in confidence about our soon-to-be Mistress/slave relationship and she took part as a witness in the collaring ceremony as well as signing our contract as a 3rd-party witness.
The one main difference that we had in our contract is that Mistress' closest friend was informed in confidence about our soon-to-be Mistress/slave relationship and she took part as a witness in the collaring ceremony as well as signing our contract as a 3rd-party witness.
12/12/2012
Thanks for sharing, a little wordy though, feel like I'm reading law back in school!
12/12/2012
Thanks for sharing, I know how much time goes into that sort of thing... I'm still tweaking ours over a year later!
12/13/2012
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yeah, um ... you don't actually have to ask anyone for permission to do what you want. you're a grown ass adult. the fact you play a game doesn't involve whatever you do outside of it--and, happy to inform you, EVERYTHING is outside of it. see, the way it works is simple--you're an adult, you have rights, they didn't disappear when you started up your game, and your fellow player literally has no right to stop you (and likely no ability). so, feel free since you are free! wow! amazing, right?!
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subbieforHer
Great article, I really enjoyed reading your paraphrased contract to get a glimpse of how other M/s couples went about that aspect and how it served to define the boundaries of the relationship and arrangements of the dynamic set out for both
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Great article, I really enjoyed reading your paraphrased contract to get a glimpse of how other M/s couples went about that aspect and how it served to define the boundaries of the relationship and arrangements of the dynamic set out for both partners. Very, very well done. The contract I entered is still only in the form of a single hand-written copy stored in one of my Mistress' security deposit boxes (I think thats where She keeps it anyway...). Perhaps I shall ask Her if I may share our contract also
The one main difference that we had in our contract is that Mistress' closest friend was informed in confidence about our soon-to-be Mistress/slave relationship and she took part as a witness in the collaring ceremony as well as signing our contract as a 3rd-party witness. less
The one main difference that we had in our contract is that Mistress' closest friend was informed in confidence about our soon-to-be Mistress/slave relationship and she took part as a witness in the collaring ceremony as well as signing our contract as a 3rd-party witness. less
and if your fellow player whines about it? remind everyone involved ... you're the sole granter of ALLLLLL authority, huzzah! because you are. only you sign off on all choices your playmate "decides" for you. honest.
take home point? you do whatever you want. if you want to ask? feel free to waste your time seeing what someone else thinks you should do! oddly, you can still do whatever you want just the same. so, you know, post that contract!
06/04/2019
DomJ
That's awesome. This is what I used. I think it helped me make sure everything was covered
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12/09/2021
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