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Have you ever attended a kink/leather/bdsm/life style event?

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Contributor: ellieprobable ellieprobable
If so, which one? Did you like it?
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Yes.
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No.
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No, but I want to.
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Total votes: 107
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06/17/2011
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Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
I might someday, but I don't feel any pressure to work on finding one that sounds appealing.
06/17/2011
Contributor: wetone123 wetone123
Like MaryExy, I may someday, but do not fixate on it
06/18/2011
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
Nope and don't plan to.
06/18/2011
Contributor: [Red] [Red]
Nope, but I'm curious about them. I wouldn't want to partake in the events, as I'm not one to play publicly (unless it's something my lover is fine with), but I'd like to see...the sights, really. Mostly interested in the furniture involved, to be completely honest. It would be a bit like window shopping.
06/18/2011
Contributor: big b big b
not around here
06/18/2011
Contributor: Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
I am rather curious, but I don't think that I would be brave enough to attend one.
06/18/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
Oopsie - I went with just 'no' instead of the last option.
I would love to go to one given the chance!
06/18/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by ellieprobable
If so, which one? Did you like it?
I've been to several bdsm/leather/bdsm/life style events. I've been to many around the Vancouver area. I even hosted the local munch for a while.
06/18/2011
Contributor: ellieprobable ellieprobable
I've been to several and find them really helpful for learning how to do new things safely.
06/18/2011
Contributor: curmudgeoncat curmudgeoncat
Quite a few, but mostly munches and play parties. I definitely want to check out bigger events like Shibaricon, Fetish Flee Fair, and Floating World someday.
06/18/2011
Contributor: KinkyKrissy KinkyKrissy
I would love to go to events like Hellfire and such but not by myself
06/18/2011
Contributor: newlady newlady
We have been toying with the idea of attending a munch...
06/18/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
The Black and Blue Ball is a blast. If anyone has the chance to attend, I'd recommend it.
06/18/2011
Contributor: ID42 ID42
Quote:
Originally posted by [Red]
Nope, but I'm curious about them. I wouldn't want to partake in the events, as I'm not one to play publicly (unless it's something my lover is fine with), but I'd like to see...the sights, really. Mostly interested in the ... more
Yes! Window shopping!! I too am curious and would love to attend one, just to see what it was really like and get some new ideas for play. But... I live in a very rural area. It's really unlikely that I'm going to ever find one here. I'd have to travel quite a bit.
06/19/2011
Contributor: ellieprobable ellieprobable
Quote:
Originally posted by ID42
Yes! Window shopping!! I too am curious and would love to attend one, just to see what it was really like and get some new ideas for play. But... I live in a very rural area. It's really unlikely that I'm going to ever find one here. I'd ... more
You'd be surprised. Consider Googling the name of your town or the name of a nearby town you'd be willing to travel to along with "munch". There are groups in lots of small towns. Although, events/conferences/fes tivals do tend to be held in larger places. I'll be travelling 10 hours for one later this week. Not because it is the closest I can get to but because it it my favorite event.
06/20/2011
Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by ellieprobable
If so, which one? Did you like it?
We have been curious about doing so, but never have. If we were ever out of town somewhere and saw one we probably would.
06/20/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
I've been to munches, play parties, and workshops. I'm a bit sad that there will be less going on in my area next year, but there's still a small munch I plan to go to.
06/20/2011
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
I went to one. It was fun, but it was a bit uncomfortable cuz I was SOOOO vanilla (mixed with vanilla with little chunks of vanilla mixed in).
06/22/2011
Contributor: Errant Venture Errant Venture
No, but I want to. Sadly, though, I probably won't get to in a while. My sub's in an entirely different country!
06/23/2011
Contributor: AngelvMaynard AngelvMaynard
I got invited to cover the Party Erotique here in Atlanta this past winter. I'd never been to a fetish party and was dying to go! Got my leather pants and corset ready and my masquerade mask. I even had my man talked into some leather pants. I was so excited. The day of the ball I came down with a 103 fever followed by the flu!! I absolutely have it on my list for next year, after parties included!!!
07/01/2011
Contributor: LittleOne LittleOne
Went to my first this past Friday. I got Flogged in front of crowd at the club. Needless to say I loved it. xD
07/03/2011
Contributor: Nigglemagic Nigglemagic
There is a community of people in the tri-city area of Ontario, but I have not attended. Other than seeing things lve at the Everything to Do with Sex Convention Show- no, but I would love to. My woman is not so open to the idea of being naked infront of a bunch of people....yet.
07/03/2011
Contributor: dezzydezire dezzydezire
in atlanta we had a club called the chamber and thursday nights was spank night. that is the first place i ever had an orgasm without ever being touched by hand. it was awesome. wish i could find a club like that around seattle.
07/03/2011
Contributor: Barak & Sheba Barak & Sheba
Quote:
Originally posted by ellieprobable
If so, which one? Did you like it?
Sure, we have been to one, maybe two or a hundred... Actually, We can still remember the first one. It was like a train wreck. Oh don't worry, it wasn't "Oh my god this is horrific!" It was simultaneously terrifying and spectacular. You know, that "hard to look away" watching with a mixture of fear and fascination. It was like peeking out at a scary movie through almost closed fingers.

As we went to the classes, checked out the vendors and the huge playspace; we were like almost too young schoolkids dropped off at 6 flags by our parents. We would experience something, check out a class, and then scamper off whispering heatedly to each other.

It was certainly eye opening, and as we write this years later, we can still remember many of the treats of that weekend.
07/04/2011
Contributor: AncoraImparo AncoraImparo
I go to events usually atleast monthly, both public and local. I enjoy the commiseration.
07/06/2011
Contributor: lexical lexical
I go to play parties every weekend here in Philadelphia. I also attend munches and happy hours in the city.

Every six months, I attend large conventions in Columbus, OH (where I went to school for the last four years). They're called Winter Wickedness and the Central Ohio Perversion Excursion Once I get to know the Eastern PA area a little better, I'll start going to other convention type events in and around Philly.
07/07/2011
Contributor: ms.anon ms.anon
I'm up to try it
07/08/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by ellieprobable
If so, which one? Did you like it?
Not really sure they would have those around here...even if I wanted to!!! Not small town stuff...
07/08/2011
Contributor: null null
I'd love to, but I don't think anyone I know would go with me
07/09/2011