Have you cried during sex? Have you had sex while the other person cried? You can select only one. Private voting.

Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
I haven't, and I don;t think I'd want to.
05/18/2011
Contributor: Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
Sometimes the physical release of orgasm triggers an emotional release as well, causing you to cry or scream or laugh or whatever. I've cried and screamed, but so far no laughing.
06/07/2011
Contributor: Bezzz Bezzz
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Originally posted by Nickisonehere
Mostly curious. Oh and some girl I was with a while ago wanted me to make her cry while we were having sex.

Also, either from some kind of pain, or just sheer passion/joy/what-have- you count.

And anything during foreplay and such counts too.
My girlfriend was a virgin and after the first time she had cried.
06/08/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I do from time to time with my man. Only if it's a very intense experience/orgasm. It's an amazing feeling when it happens, absolutely amazing. Then he says sweet things in my ear, and makes it even more intense and special. I love those orgasms. I've never cried with anyone else though, and it took me by surprise the first time it happened.
06/10/2011
Contributor: ellieprobable ellieprobable
Crying can be startling and alarming to a partner but I think it is a wonderful intimacy to share was someone as long as they are aware of it in advance.
06/19/2011
Contributor: Errant Venture Errant Venture
I haven't, but one of my partner's has. I wasn't put off - but that was because it stoked my ego! She would only cry during the most intense orgasms.
06/20/2011
Contributor: The Mother of a SiNner The Mother of a SiNner
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Originally posted by Nickisonehere
Mostly curious. Oh and some girl I was with a while ago wanted me to make her cry while we were having sex.

Also, either from some kind of pain, or just sheer passion/joy/what-have- you count.

And anything during foreplay and such counts too.
crying durring sex could be for alot of reasons
06/21/2011
Contributor: curmudgeoncat curmudgeoncat
I was sexually assaulted a while ago, and sometimes when I'm touched a certain way it will remind me. So yes, I have cried during sex. I've never had a partner cry, though.
06/25/2011
Contributor: Kdlips Kdlips
Yes just because it was so good
06/25/2011
Contributor: CylonSexFiend CylonSexFiend
The folks who have spoken up about crying because of fellings being brought back up by sexual assualt are so brave. Salute!
06/25/2011
Contributor: Kitt Katt Kitt Katt
My husband and I lost our virginity to each other back in high school and have been together for a very long time. We have been through a lot over the years and have a very deep bond. It's not unusual for either of us to cry during sex because we are incredibly intimate with each other and sometimes it is a very emotional thing for us.
06/25/2011
Contributor: Vanessa Weiss Vanessa Weiss
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
Mostly curious. Oh and some girl I was with a while ago wanted me to make her cry while we were having sex.

Also, either from some kind of pain, or just sheer passion/joy/what-have- you count.

And anything during foreplay and such counts too.
Many of the most intense experiences I've had during sex (or BDSM/bondage play) have been accompanied by a few tears.
07/23/2011
Contributor: mistressg mistressg
There have been a few times.
10/31/2011
Contributor: TameTemptress TameTemptress
Only a few times.
11/08/2011
Contributor: LilMissSub LilMissSub
I get teary eyed on occasion, usually in response to something like a good spanking. Never had full on crying. But that's about it. The sudden sharp things get me and how I love it. C:
11/10/2011
Contributor: BlackxxxRose BlackxxxRose
It was actually right after and it was because my body was just basically destressing and I got really overwhelmed. My partner was understanding, knew that it had nothing to do with the sex at all and held me until everything was passed. We were both extremely stressed and were almost at our breaking points.
11/17/2011
Contributor: Enchantedkitty Enchantedkitty
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Originally posted by Lithaewyn
We hadn't seen each other in several months and so there was moreso an emotional factor that caused tears to fall, but yes we both cried like babies once.

It's one of my most cherished memories and I hope it wasn't the only time it will happen.
Aw
02/10/2012
Contributor: Roz W Roz W
Yes, from intensity (good or bad) but not from "feeling bad."

I've had partners who wanted to do it for me, but haven't yet got past "whimpering," which is not a turn on :/
02/11/2012
Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
I voted no, because I've never cried during actual sex before. I cried once while getting oral though. He picked on me cause I hadn't shaved in a while. T_T
02/11/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
I haven't cried, but my partner once cried after we had sex. I was going to be leaving for a week and she was sad about that.
02/12/2012
Contributor: Katelyn Katelyn
Wow, I have never cried during sex and I think if someone else did I would be very disturbed. I don't think I could continue.
02/14/2012
Contributor: Teacookie Teacookie
first orgasims seem to cause crying.
02/14/2012
Contributor: dks210 dks210
I've cried, but it was only because I was in a sad mood at the time.
02/17/2012
Contributor: Amelia Stone Amelia Stone
Tears can be very healing.
02/18/2012
Contributor: charletnarouh charletnarouh
I cry fairly frequently when an orgasm is really intense. It's involuntary and not always emotional. It seems to be part of the release of the orgasm. Occasionally the emotions or passion have been so high that I've cried. During a BDSM sessions sometimes, as a sub, my hope is for my domme to make me cry. Something about crying into a blindfold is a huge turn on. It's also a huge emotional release for me to be made to cry that way. There have been times when I was so emotionally overwrought that I needed to cry but couldn't and being made to cry from physical pain and other parts of a bdsm session got me started crying and let the emotional release finally happen.
02/19/2012
Contributor: sapphyre.wings sapphyre.wings
I cry fairly regularly while having sex. It can be linked to my childhood abuse, but it can also just be an involuntary response to an incredibly intense orgasm. My husband was really freaked out at first especially knowing my entire past. Now, he knows when I need to be comforted and when he can just keep bringing me incredible pleasure. It can be a wonderful release.
03/06/2012
Contributor: Lucky21 Lucky21
I have had multiple partners cry durring sex.
03/06/2012
Contributor: calliope calliope
Pretty sure no one has cried yet.
03/06/2012
Contributor: GONE! GONE!
No but I've burst out laughing before.
03/07/2012
Contributor: Caus Caus
Quote:
Originally posted by Lithaewyn
We hadn't seen each other in several months and so there was moreso an emotional factor that caused tears to fall, but yes we both cried like babies once.

It's one of my most cherished memories and I hope it wasn't the only time it will happen.
Same thing, with me. Except my partner was mostly crying and we kinda had to stop and take a breather.
03/07/2012