The New Intimacy

fantasy vs. reality in the BDSM realm

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Contributor: Roz W Roz W
Did you ever have something that you thought you would be really into, and then when it happened, it wasn't what you thought it would be?

Or the opposite, a kink that you thought was a turnoff, but when you encountered it, became a turn-on? (I am like this with pain, a little bit, so far.)
07/21/2012
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Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
It does happen. I never thought I would enjoy having my testicles played with roughly, but do find I quite enjoy it.

I also find some fantasies do not translate physically. It seems like a certain tie would be fun, but you lack the actual flexibility to have it done to you, or you cant be in it for as long as your would like,
07/21/2012
Contributor: FemmeFlo FemmeFlo
There are things that I think sound great in idea, but end up being too painful or uncomfortable in reality to pull off. But those are rare.
07/21/2012