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Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Zandrock
Would you try it out with your partner. For those of you who dont know it is basically where one partner gets the other very very close to orgasm and then stops right before. Would you incorporate this into your play?
Yes, and we do incorporate it!
09/21/2012
Contributor: AlleyKitten AlleyKitten
Sure! Me and my partner does this all the time!
09/21/2012
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
It's been rather effective in increasing the volume of my ejaculate. That is if I can resist the urge to cum while edging.
09/21/2012
Contributor: AliMc AliMc
Quote:
Originally posted by Zandrock
Would you try it out with your partner. For those of you who dont know it is basically where one partner gets the other very very close to orgasm and then stops right before. Would you incorporate this into your play?
I've done it but only to make the sex last longer, not to tease.
09/21/2012
Contributor: Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
yes, we have. Then the orgasm is even better when I finally have it.
09/21/2012
Contributor: Undecided Undecided
I am not into edging when I am ready to cum I am cumming no matter who says what.
09/22/2012
Contributor: lacybutton lacybutton
I'd try it for sure.
09/22/2012
Contributor: Mitzuki Mitzuki
It's lovely, and we do it all of the time.
09/23/2012
Contributor: chikisses chikisses
Sounds like fun.
09/23/2012
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
i've never heard it called edging. i've always called it denial and delay.

if it wasn't for this i would never have experienced my first orgasm. i would always stop just at the brink...so by slowing down and then escalating it back up over and over...i "learned" how to orgasm
09/23/2012
Contributor: ginainohio ginainohio
love it
09/25/2012
Contributor: aluminummm aluminummm
I absolutely love edgeplay!
09/26/2012
Contributor: ksparkles16 ksparkles16
yes I would
09/26/2012
Contributor: cricket cricket
All the time
10/01/2012
Contributor: Thumper Logic Thumper Logic
I'd try it, but likely I'd get more frustrated and pissed off than anything else...
10/08/2012
Contributor: butts butts
We do this often When you DO orgasm, it's INTENSE. Sometimes we get carried away and you lose the intensity, still fun though. I LOVE seeing him ejaculate when he's not even orgasming yet.
10/08/2012
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by Zandrock
Would you try it out with your partner. For those of you who dont know it is basically where one partner gets the other very very close to orgasm and then stops right before. Would you incorporate this into your play?
Might be worth a try.
10/09/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I have a very, very, very hard time to orgasm as it is, that would just tick me off.
10/09/2012
Contributor: llellsee llellsee
If I feel I'm getting close very quickly with a vibrator I tend to edge so the orgasm is that bit stronger, when I'm with my partner I just enjoy my orgasm whenever it comes.
10/09/2012
Contributor: Beaners Beaners
Hahaha, my boyfriend hates me a little bit whenever I do this to him. I can get him RIGHT to the edge, and then just slooooow down again.
10/09/2012
Contributor: Eugler Eugler
I like it in several ways. In a BDSM context when I'm tied and helpless, or during vanilla intercourse.
I enjoy the feeling of being at the mercy of my wife.

During intercourse it makes the sex slow as I have to relax. Finally this will lead us to a trans-orgasmic state of union.
11/23/2012
Contributor: The Mother of a SiNner The Mother of a SiNner
Quote:
Originally posted by Zandrock
Would you try it out with your partner. For those of you who dont know it is basically where one partner gets the other very very close to orgasm and then stops right before. Would you incorporate this into your play?
sure why not could be fun
11/23/2012
Contributor: RemusHalifax RemusHalifax
Quote:
Originally posted by Zandrock
Would you try it out with your partner. For those of you who dont know it is basically where one partner gets the other very very close to orgasm and then stops right before. Would you incorporate this into your play?
My partner likes to get me very close to orgasm, stop stimulating me, then command me to orgasm. It's actually very effective and sexy since 50% of reaching climax is mental, I think. I recommend it. ^.^
11/24/2012
Contributor: tunacan75 tunacan75
No idea there was a name for it! Ever since we started doing BDSM we would always do 'edging' as a punishment, never had to learn what it was!
11/24/2012
Contributor: misterazor misterazor
now i'm going to. but, i think if she tried to time it to stop me short...i would cum anyway. i think we, men, have all tried to pull out and hold it back...and it cums anyway.
11/25/2012
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
I love it!
11/25/2012
Contributor: vulvalicious vulvalicious
Quote:
Originally posted by (k)InkyIvy
Honestly, I don't know if we would try it or not. When I get right to the brink of climax, if I lose that momentum, I end up getting frustrated and having even more difficulty getting back to that point...
It's the same for me. If I'm close and don't follow through, it kills the mood for me and I usually can't climax after. My husband enjoys it though and uses this method often. It also makes him last longer for me
11/25/2012
Contributor: Sweet-n-Playful Sweet-n-Playful
Quote:
Originally posted by Zandrock
Would you try it out with your partner. For those of you who dont know it is basically where one partner gets the other very very close to orgasm and then stops right before. Would you incorporate this into your play?
I do this for my partner
11/25/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Do it and LOVE it!!
11/25/2012
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
Have done it very many times. It can be a lot of fun.
11/25/2012