I did too. I can picture it in my mind. Thank goodness toys have improved over the years.

I'm working on my technique too. My husband won't let me near him until I get it down. It amuses him though watching me learn.

My boyfriend of six months just found out about my interest in pegging, and it may have scared him a bit. I don't think he completely understands the concept or anal sex to begin with, but I remain hopeful that he'd at least let me experiment at some point in the future.

Read up at Ruby Rider's Paradise or RR 101. And have him read it also. Of course I hope you are reaching "1st base, then 2nd and 3nd" before going straight to the peg.

If mine had told me before I even knew or experience a little, I would have been very hesitant.

Lol, mine grabs 3 sets of dildos &harnesses. Quite a workout

IMO - it's a lot like a guy trying to convince a reluctant girlfriend to try anal sex. For some it's just a hard-stop, they just won't consider it.

But if your SO is open to new things, I'd start with the basics - "Your going to have an orgasm from this experience - so what's not to like?"

This is actually what I had to tell my wife to get her to try pegging me (kind of a reversed role problem). I had some credibility there because I had helped her learn to orgasm from anal sex - then she reasoned that if she could have an orgasm from anal sex - the same could be true for me!?

You may go a long way before actually donning a harness. When giving HJs & BJs, go from 1 finger, to 2, then maybe even 3 if you feel him adapting well. Read up on prostate massage - it's essentially the 'come-hither' motion that men use for g-spot massage.

Fingers are not always the most comfortable - if he isn't getting comfortable (think nails), go with a tapered silicone dildo or plug (again during a NJ or BJ). The Tantus Chamlette is perfect for this - the B-Bomb is also quite good.

After a few HJ/BJ orgasms with anal assistance, he'll probably acquiesce to the harness (a few adult beverages may also help). You have an advantage here because you know how to make anal sex a success for you - start slow and there can never be too much lube.

Hope this helps - TGIF...

Oh how I wish a ladie would peg/fuck my shaved virgin young asshole so badly! I have never been pegged and i want it so badly
Have you tried talking to him about it? He’ll im jealous I want to allow you to peg me I want it so badly!

I’m right there with you!

I’m right there with you!

I’m right there with you!

Since you're an anal virgin I really suggest you use plenty of thick lubricant. And start small. Like 1"-1 1/4" diameter. As I mentioned the pure Wand is great for a virgin.

I think I'd love It .I just have to get my wife interested in dominating with her new cock

I love it also. problem I don't have women in my life to do me. that don't stop m I have a lot toys. I got them out yesterday evening been going at it all night and day. solo looking for advice help help new way to use them

Tell him he has no idea on what he is missing it is the best orgasm I have ever had

If he tries it he will be addicted like me