The fact that "gross" is an option is surprising to me. It's not surprising that people will find it gross, but the fact such language is being used in a normally sex-positive community is disappointing. This is like some dark-ages stuff. What if we started labeling masturbation or masochism as "gross?" A lot of people in the community would take issue with that, I'm sure. I know people will think it's gross, but there are probably people who came to this site looking for a judgement-free outlet and are now being made to feel that their kink is a truly terrible thing. As long as it's consensual and safe, why should any act be put down or any of its participants be made to feel as if they're filthy? It took me a long time to get the courage to tell my girlfriend about this particular kink of mine and, while it isn't a kink of hers, she doesn't make me feel bad about it and I can't even say how much that means to me. I've shared it with people that I used to consider close friends and saw them use it against me and I lost a lot of friends over something that really shouldn't matter to anyone. So whether or not it's your cup of tea, maybe we can hold back on some of the more degrading commentary? Especially when people say things like "dirt" which makes no sense, seeing as how urine is sterile.
Does pee turn you on?
The fact that "gross" is an option is surprising to me. It's not surprising that people will find it gross, but the fact such language is being used in a normally sex-positive community is disappointing. This is like some dark-ages stuff. What if we started labeling masturbation or masochism as "gross?" A lot of people in the community would take issue with that, I'm sure. I know people will think it's gross, but there are probably people who came to this site looking for a judgement-free outlet and are now being made to feel that their kink is a truly terrible thing. As long as it's consensual and safe, why should any act be put down or any of its participants be made to feel as if they're filthy? It took me a long time to get the courage to tell my girlfriend about this particular kink of mine and, while it isn't a kink of hers, she doesn't make me feel bad about it and I can't even say how much that means to me. I've shared it with people that I used to consider close friends and saw them use it against me and I lost a lot of friends over something that really shouldn't matter to anyone. So whether or not it's your cup of tea, maybe we can hold back on some of the more degrading commentary? Especially when people say things like "dirt" which makes no sense, seeing as how urine is sterile.
01/24/2012
yes and no urine does not turn me on, but i do love watching my partner piss i think its hot. im not sure if i would ever enjoy more than that
01/24/2012
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Um...NO! I have no desire what so ever to play with pee. My freaky husband on the other hand... who needs his head examined... likes to touch my pussy when I pee. He has actually stuck his tongue on my lips while I was peeing - and was told you will kiss me again when hell freezes over or you put yourself through the washing machine... Took maytag a day to fix that fuck up. LOL Just kidding on the maytag part but un NO for me and Yes (Yuck!!!) for him.
Originally posted by
Chevylady37
I've seen people get turned on by different fetishes so i'm just curious what others have to say.
01/24/2012
It's a normal bodily function and that's fine, but I don't want it done on and/or inside of me.
01/24/2012
no gross.
01/25/2012
"needs his head examined," shaming and humiliating, "yuck," "gross"...
Yeah who cares if we disrespect a group of people, as long as there aren't many of them?
Yeah who cares if we disrespect a group of people, as long as there aren't many of them?
01/26/2012
I'm warming up to it. Hahaha!! Get it?
01/30/2012
It's not a particular interest of mine.
02/01/2012
Not really, no, just not my thing.
02/01/2012
i have tried to embrace it, after all i do make an awful lot of it.
its not my thing, if i find somebody who does like it i will certainly help them out.
its not my thing, if i find somebody who does like it i will certainly help them out.
02/04/2012
Would be willing to give it a try, just to see what all the hype is about. Urine is actually quite sterile, especially after the first few milileters comes out, just in case anyone is wondering.
02/07/2012
Um in the end I clicked 'no' but I have had a couple rare fantasies that do contain piss in them. I don't know what it is but it's not pee itself that turns me on. So much as what it means. So my knee jerk reaction is it's rather gross if I'm involved. (other people can do it all they want I don't care) But there is a little piece somewhere inside me that finds it erotic.
02/07/2012
NO.
02/17/2012
Not at all
02/19/2012
Not really. But i pee'd on a guy once that asked me to
02/19/2012
It's gross.
02/19/2012
nope, not my thing at all
02/19/2012
wow there is an alarming amount of kink-shaming in this thread!! it's completely fine to say something along the lines of "personally i'm grossed out by the idea so i wouldn't want to try it" but to just proclaim "it's gross" or, as a couple people have done, talk about how awful and bizarre they think it is that their partner is/was into it is really harmful! please be careful with your words, try to express your opinion in a way that doesn't shame or ridicule anyone else.
03/07/2012
with that out of the way now: i've only pretty recently gotten into watersports, after thinking for years that it was decidedly uninteresting to me--i guess i just had to see it in the right context first, since i still am not attracted to the idea of people directly peeing on each other or drinking it, and that's most of what i'd encountered. while i understand the dominance factor present in peeing on someone, i greatly prefer when a dom forces a sub to wet themselves, or when a sub chooses to do so in order to humiliate themselves in front of a dom/partner/friend. i don't know for sure if i would ever want to do it in real life--probably not in the sub role, maybe as a dom?--but i've come to enjoy it quite a bit in fiction and fantasies.
03/07/2012
no.. but it turns my guy on
03/07/2012
Yeah, a guy peeing turns me on, but it's not a major fetish for me. Like I won't go and search for porn of it and usually don't think of it while masturbating, but I enjoy watersports irl with my partner- mostly in the shower for easy cleanup
03/07/2012
nope not for me
03/09/2012
Personally no, but I don't find it gross.
04/10/2012
no way yuck
04/16/2012
Not at all, in fact, It turns me off
04/16/2012
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You forgot a fourth option: Aww hell nawww!
Originally posted by
Chevylady37
I've seen people get turned on by different fetishes so i'm just curious what others have to say.
04/16/2012
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Yeah, it does. It's a newer fetish for me but Daddy (my Dom) loves it too. It's fun to explore new things and see how our relationship grows.
Originally posted by
Chevylady37
I've seen people get turned on by different fetishes so i'm just curious what others have to say.
04/26/2012
Not my thing.
04/28/2012
Not my thing at all but I get that everyone is different and it might be a great turn on for others
05/02/2012
Not in the least.
05/02/2012