Do you like to be called names?

Contributor: Deeder Deeder
I've never been called anything in bed, so I really couldn't say whether I would like it or not. I'm not necessarily opposed to the idea, I'm just not sure how I'd react.
06/27/2012
Contributor: pirata pirata
I really like slut and pet (kink relationship lol) but i cant stand bitch or whore. they just sound more negative to me and aren't fun to hear, not even in the heat of the moment
06/27/2012
Contributor: Steveyb Steveyb
I think it's a little degrading for me personally.
06/28/2012
Contributor: Boyqueen Boyqueen
Every now and then okay, but I think I'm too 'sensitive' to endure too much name calling. I take it to heart.
07/05/2012
Contributor: BlackRose91 BlackRose91
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Originally posted by Bignuf
Thank you. Glad I am not TOTALLY alone in this. Other woman seem to really be turned on by it, and I completely don't understand it. More then any other thing about human sexuality, this has me totally confused and baffled and I am willing to ... more
Being called a slut or whore in bed can be sexy, as long as you know that your partner doesn't actually think of you as a worthless sex object. For example, here's how my partner would actually word it: "You love being my dirty little slut, don't you? You just love having that big dick inside you." The key word there is "my." He's not referring to me as some worthless slut who puts out for everyone. It's hard to explain, but it's like he just means to say that I'm a very horny girl who loves having crazy rough sex with him (and only him) whenever I get the chance (which I do). It's less demeaning because the "my" is emphasized it implies that I'm his, and he's not going to share me because he loves me (which is great because I'm REALLY not into open relationships or messing with other people). It's hard to explain, but the terms "slut" or "whore" don't necessarily have to be really demeaning when used by a partner.
07/06/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
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Originally posted by bayosgirl
I LOVE dirty talk, and recently discovered that I like to be called names like "slut" and "whore" during sex. What's funny is, I'm not slutty at ALL. I'm very committed and have had a limited number of partners. I ... more
I used to hate it but when I met my current husband, I love it.
07/06/2012
Contributor: LadyDarknezz LadyDarknezz
I actually love being called cute names, especially by Doms. I just find it so endearing hearing one say such adorable things to me.
07/06/2012
Contributor: MissLoren MissLoren
sometimes
07/06/2012
Contributor: PeachCandy PeachCandy
I think it depends on the words
07/06/2012
Contributor: HippieFeet HippieFeet
yes yes and more yes!
07/07/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
I love being called names. I am the same. Only ever had one partner, but like to be called a slut, or told I need to behave better, all names are fun
08/04/2012
Contributor: tortilla tortilla
never used names before - might have to rethink that
08/25/2012
Contributor: blackbunny blackbunny
During play, yes. Outside of that - if it isn't used as a tool to get me hot - no thanks.
08/28/2012
Contributor: maxwe maxwe
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Originally posted by Jimmy Stevenson
She is quite a fan of being called a dirty slut, but I think it is cause her personality is so Vanilla that she likes the contrast.
haha
08/29/2012
Contributor: maxwe maxwe
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Originally posted by Taylor
I like it, but part of it depends on what name he is calling me.
thats true!!!! there are a LOT of things you could call somebody
08/29/2012
Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
Being called sweet pet names is fine, but call me a slut or whore in or out of the bedroom? No thanks. Complete turn off.
08/29/2012
Contributor: sugar&spikes sugar&spikes
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Originally posted by Chaotic Rantings
I dont mind being called dirty names in the heat of the moment, I rather enjoy it. But outside of the bedroom is a different story
same here!
08/29/2012
Contributor: SavingMyself SavingMyself
I like being called dirty names in bed. I also like it best when my husband qualifies the dirty names with "my" (eg my slut). I am not a slutty person in general, but I definitely think the word applies to the things I do with him in bed.
08/29/2012
Contributor: RemusHalifax RemusHalifax
I used to hate pet names, but now I think it's a HUGE bonus to find a guy who can come up with cute names for me~ (And yes, sometimes "slut" does count as one of those pet names.)
08/29/2012
Contributor: TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
I love some nasty talk in the bedroom. Hell, I like it in the kitchen, too. I'll get down like that.
08/29/2012
Contributor: Mhay64 Mhay64
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Originally posted by Diabolical Kitty
I love being called slut, and of course kitty!
Same here
08/30/2012
Contributor: inkky inkky
Love It.
08/30/2012
Contributor: pfp pfp
I usually cant cum without being called whore or bitch a few times.
08/30/2012
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
depends on how dirty the sex is. when e were dating A LOT of name calling was being done. now that im his wife not so much...
08/30/2012
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
kinda miss it...
08/30/2012
Contributor: k3 k3
I am mostly not into being called names. I'm a bit too fragile for that, even during sex most of the time. Though there has been a time or two that my Dom has flirted with that limit and gotten a good reaction. And there is always one exception.....I love when He calls me His "fuck doll"! <3
09/03/2012
Contributor: ksparkles16 ksparkles16
I don't really like being called dirty names...but that's just me!
09/03/2012
Contributor: itismedi itismedi
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Originally posted by Chaotic Rantings
I dont mind being called dirty names in the heat of the moment, I rather enjoy it. But outside of the bedroom is a different story
Slut, whore, MINE, cock whore, and about 50 more... he says them and I am instantly wet!
09/05/2012
Contributor: Twiz Twiz
I don't like to be called names, but my babygirl very much enjoys being called slut.
09/12/2012
Contributor: sweetiejo sweetiejo
I prefer not to be called names during sex, it just takes me out of the mood.
09/12/2012