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Contributor: WierdAl WierdAl
Quote:
Originally posted by Epicurean
I was reading an older thread here about where people draw the line and was surprised to see how many people mentioned suffocation. When an ex-ex boyfriend first suggested it to me about 5 years ago, I was horrified at the idea, but now I LOVE being ... more
Not for me. I like to breath.
09/13/2011
Contributor: Errant Venture Errant Venture
Quote:
Originally posted by WierdAl
Not for me. I like to breath.
Me, too. I'm addicted to breathing!
09/15/2011
Contributor: JRabbits JRabbits
My brother Bill once started choking me because I stabed him in the knee with a sharp pencil because he was being all sorts of awful to me while I was trying to do my homework, calling me names and stuff. I can't say I enjoyed the lack of breath. Nor would I ever like to experience that again, especially during sex.
09/15/2011
Contributor: fabidefabi fabidefabi
We love it! We have even used belts to add to the sensation. We are looking for other things to use now
09/17/2011
Contributor: vanillaSpice vanillaSpice
I'm not interested in doing it or having it done at all. It just doesn't interest me and it's too much of a safety issue.
09/17/2011
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
Quote:
Originally posted by zeebot
It's not something that particularly appeals to me, but I'd be willing to try it if a partner wanted to try it, provided we worked out how to do it safely ahead of time.
Same here
09/17/2011
Contributor: Illumin8 Illumin8
I'm surprised at how many people are into this. I'm not looking down on anyone who enjoys it, just surprised that it's almost 50/50 in the poll. It's never been an interest for either of us.
09/17/2011
Contributor: TheNaughtyCouple TheNaughtyCouple
Not into this at all!
09/17/2011
Contributor: Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
I don't know, I have met people who are really into this, but I'm not sure I would be. I guess if a partner suggested it, I'd be willing to try it for a short time, but nothing too intense. Definitely don't want to lose consciousness or really not be able to breathe or anything like that. It's not something that I fantasize about, or think about requesting.
09/18/2011
Contributor: Rawhide Rawhide
The problem with choking is that there isn't really a way to do it properly. There is no way to tell how much is too much. Any signs of trauma appear after it is too late. There is no way to reverse if you accidently go to far in the heat of the moment.

I believe in risk aware consentual kink. People who practice choking need to be aware that the very real risk of this play is death for the bottom and prison for the top. That is not a risk I am willing to take.
09/21/2011
Contributor: NavyDoll87 NavyDoll87
I trust my husband and I know he would never get out of hand. We have our safety "words" and ways of letting each other know to take it easy. And anyway, it takes it to a whole other level.
09/21/2011
Contributor: hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
I've enjoyed it in the past, but lately I've been re-evaluating some of the things my ex did to me, mostly in the context of ignoring me when I indicated it was time to stop (and not just with taps - with things like trying to tear his hands off my throat and crying). He choked me beyond what I wanted several times, and would sometimes choke me without seeing if I wanted something hard, or if I just wanted gentleness that night. I choked him a few times, which I enjoyed doing, but I always stopped when he indicated he had had enough.

So... I haven't had sex since the divorce, so I don't know if I'm still comfortable with breath play. Part of me is worried it would trigger a flashback to one of the times my ex assaulted me, though I didn't recognize it for assault at the time.
09/21/2011
Contributor: pleasurehunter pleasurehunter
I like to give it a little, not too rough just enough to be firm and give my partner the sensation she wants, occasionally i do nose plugging during oral sex too.
11/04/2011
Contributor: sissymorwen sissymorwen
Good idea making the voting private! I would prefer to not have my name advertised with my answer ^_^
11/04/2011
Contributor: Defiledpixxy Defiledpixxy
I love erotic asphyxiation. I like for it to be enough to cause a lot of trouble breathing or a complete lack for a few seconds.
11/22/2011
Contributor: SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
No thank you. Also, nothing that could kill me, please.

Now a hand over the mouth to muffle the screams is a different story.
11/23/2011
Contributor: Shorty32 Shorty32
Quote:
Originally posted by Epicurean
I was reading an older thread here about where people draw the line and was surprised to see how many people mentioned suffocation. When an ex-ex boyfriend first suggested it to me about 5 years ago, I was horrified at the idea, but now I LOVE being ... more
Love it
11/23/2011
Contributor: switzerland switzerland
i never thought i would like it, but i do and it's apart of our regular everyday sex life
11/24/2011
Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
I enjoy some choking, but not enough that I risk losing consciousness or anything like that.
12/03/2011
Contributor: Why Why
Not interested...having my breathing impaired in any way terrifies me.
12/03/2011
Contributor: Girly Girl Girly Girl
may be ,, but why
12/03/2011
Contributor: 131231e43 131231e43
I like doing the choking.
01/17/2012
Contributor: panthers panthers
That is something I would like to try.
01/17/2012
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
I'm completely against this. It's dangerous.
01/17/2012
Contributor: Daemonin Daemonin
I love it. Not sure why, but it really gets me going. ...As long as it doesn't last too long.
01/17/2012
Contributor: klyte klyte
I'm more into choking.
01/17/2012
Contributor: AJvil AJvil
Quote:
Originally posted by Epicurean
I was reading an older thread here about where people draw the line and was surprised to see how many people mentioned suffocation. When an ex-ex boyfriend first suggested it to me about 5 years ago, I was horrified at the idea, but now I LOVE being ... more
Not interested at all.
01/17/2012
Contributor: Curiouscat Curiouscat
Not for me.. I do not enjoy panic while in play..
01/17/2012
Contributor: Ms. N Ms. N
I value every breath I take too much for that kind of play.
01/17/2012
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by Epicurean
I was reading an older thread here about where people draw the line and was surprised to see how many people mentioned suffocation. When an ex-ex boyfriend first suggested it to me about 5 years ago, I was horrified at the idea, but now I LOVE being ... more
i responded months ago that i didn't lke it.... now i kind of do.
01/17/2012