I am really not into BDSM. I think I can maybe understand the role playing of it? Its just never occurred to me that being tied up or whipped or something along those lines would be fun let alone a sexual turn on.

I've had a guy give my ass a little slap during sex, and I guess in the heat of the moment it added to my excitement. But I could never just be like, "oh! spank me!" so it that sense I could not even imagine wanting my butt beaten with a chain! That would not only hurt like hell it would cause serious damage!
Honestly I can't even imagine being interested in or sexually wanting a man if I knew he WANTED to slap me, or whip me with a chain or whatever-the title of this thread really made me wonder about this

Now I am sure some of the girls who go for this stuff have their reasons and maybe make sure the guy knows there are boundaries, but it still seems scary to me. And not like maybe taking a exciting risk that can make sex more thrilling, but like, just scary, as in something I totally avoid, and a type of man I would never be involved with. less