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Contributor: ss143 ss143
Ok after some talking bf and I have thought about using restraints. Our problem is we don't know what to get first for beginners or for our situation. I see a ton of them to use with headboards and under the bed however we don't have a headboard and our bed is literally on the floor so just a box spring and mattress on the floor. Restraint sheets( I think that's what they are called)aren't an option I don't think because well he likes my legs up high lol. What is a good alternative other than just rope or handcuffs? Any ideas and suggestions are appreciated
Thanks
06/11/2011
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Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
If your legs need to be up high and you don't have posts, I'm guessing a spreader bar and he can throw your legs over his shoulders? Or possibly install some hooks/eyes in the ceiling to loop rope through to hang your legs in the air... I'm not sure about how to secure your hands in one place, unless you used thigh cuffs, one of those connector bars that go down the spine, or tied them to your body/some nearby object. Perhaps the Under the Bed Restraint system would work well for under just a mattress?

This is just a brainstorm, I have not personally used any of those systems.
06/11/2011
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
Years ago we used a set of nylon webbing tie down straps, the kind you'd use in the back of a pick-up truck. Home Depot had a 4 pack for $10.00. They were super functional.
06/11/2011
Contributor: ss143 ss143
Quote:
Originally posted by MaryExy
If your legs need to be up high and you don't have posts, I'm guessing a spreader bar and he can throw your legs over his shoulders? Or possibly install some hooks/eyes in the ceiling to loop rope through to hang your legs in the air... ... more
Thank you
06/11/2011
Contributor: ss143 ss143
Quote:
Originally posted by Mr. E
Years ago we used a set of nylon webbing tie down straps, the kind you'd use in the back of a pick-up truck. Home Depot had a 4 pack for $10.00. They were super functional. ... more
How would that work?
06/11/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
sportsheets makes some good restraints. They are high quality and not too expensive. A good place to start off with BDSM
06/12/2011