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Be careful. Obviously, breath-play is dangerous, so a bit of research would be helpful before you attempt anything. This is especially true if YOU are the one who is going to be choked. You need to know the risks involved, and you need to be certain this is something you want to experience. I sincerely do not believe this is an activity to TRY just because your partner is into it.

Having said all that, my partner and I engage in breath-play. But, it was something we discussed before we tried it, we read about it, the pros and cons, and we decided we both wanted to try it. So, I certainly wouldn't tell you not to do it, but I will tell you to learn about the risks beforehand, don't just do it because your SO wants you to.

I agree, breathe play isn't something you should TRY because he wants to. You should do it because you want to. Read about it. And see if you truly want to do it. Watch some videos too. You want to know what it looks like and get a good idea of it. I'd start off with something a little less dangerous to give your partner a test. Like spankings. Make a safe word and discuss it be sure he knows your safe word. And be sure to use it because you NEED to know if he is going to listen to you. If he doesn't listen very well, don't engage with breathe play until he can listen to you. And do this prior to playing with something that could endanger your life.

Does anyone have any links to information about breath-play, links to videos, etc? I'm very curious.

The Medical Realities of Breath Control Play

A peek behind the curtain: The basics of BDSM and breath play

Wikipedia

How To Breath Play

These are what I could find. I found it best to google BDSM how to breath play.

Thank you! I have read Wiseman's piece before.

Thanks everyone! All this info is what I needed. I will be looking at the links you left for me Beck when the kids go to bed tonight THANK YOU. And starting out I will def only be doing small things like spanking and hair pulling and things like that....getting tattoos REALLY turns me on, so I'm sure the pain will be something I will like, its just putting the pain together with the pleasure and making it seem like it goes together in my head that will be the problem. lol anyway, I will def do some research and any more advice is still welcome

Oh Lord, I just skimmed through those link from Beck and NOT FOR ME! lol Yeah that is WAY too dangerous for my pussy ass! LOL I'll stick with just pain.... eff all that possible passing out/losing more brain cells/ dying crap!