My little girl and I are in a Daddy/little girl relationship, it's sort of a branch of BDSM. It isn't bedroom-related whatsoever, it's simply the roles we have assumed, 24/7, every day, every minute. In addition to that, I am also her Dominant and her Owner, but that really is because of my paternal personality. I take control of many aspects of our life with each other and of her life, which she constantly goes against. Relating to physical pain, she is a masochist, I am a sadist. She tends to be a sadist emotionally, which I don't enjoy.

i'm sort of on a temporary hiatus but the relationship that i am on a hiatus from is a D/s, Owner-Master/slave dynamic which is 24/7 except for school and family life. i am also masochistic, He is sadistic. Unlike Sir, W/we do not have a Daddy/girl dynamic except for very fleeting, accidental occasions during scenes when it sometimes slips out.

I was with a girl for a while and it was a D/s, M/s sort of awesome weirdness. We were both switches so it was very interesting and always fun. In the bedroom it was total power exchange; outside of that I was usually Dominant (but it was limited due to school/work lives since we didn't live together). Though we are not just friends/occasional play partners, she will still slip into the submissive role occasionally in public, though whether it's by accident or on purpose I do no know.

With my current relationship we tried D/s when we were long distance, but unfortunately it just didn't work. I think we could make it work if we tried, but he's never done anything like that and it's hard for him to learn the concept with me gone. We haven't tried again since; our forays into BDSM are mostly just in the bedroom, *for now*.

I have a Sir and I defer to him whenever the opportunity arises, but, while it's 24/7 (technically), we don't get to see each other that often. And sometimes it's friendly deferral and not sexual, if that makes sense.