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Are you a Dominant, a Submissive, a Switch...or None of the Above?

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Contributor: spiced spiced
I've seen a couple of similar polls, but bear with me, people. One poll broke it down by gender, but didn't include a Switch option; another poll included a Switch option, but didn't break it down by gender. Neither poll included a None of the Above option. So...

In the bedroom, are you a Dominant, a Submissive, a Switch, or None of the Above? As always in my polls, the terms "Male" and "Female" refer to what YOU consider yourself to be.

Thanks for participating!
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I'm FEMALE and I'm a Dominant
2  (6%)
I'm FEMALE and I'm a Submissive
5  (15%)
I'm FEMALE and I'm a Switch
13  (39%)
I'm FEMALE and I'm None of the Above
5  (15%)
I'm MALE and I'm a Dominant
3  (9%)
I'm MALE and I'm a Submissive
1  (3%)
I'm MALE and I'm a Switch
4  (12%)
I'm MALE and I'm None of the Above
Total votes: 33
Poll is closed
01/16/2013
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Contributor: Anna Mattingly Anna Mattingly
female but just me
01/16/2013
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Male dom, definitely.
01/16/2013
Contributor: Cowgirl-Cutie Cowgirl-Cutie
female submissive and I enjoy it
01/17/2013
Contributor: Pia Jouet Pia Jouet
I'm a female and I enjoy switching; I get the best of both worlds.
01/17/2013
Contributor: Eugler Eugler
Male and switching.
01/17/2013
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by spiced
I've seen a couple of similar polls, but bear with me, people. One poll broke it down by gender, but didn't include a Switch option; another poll included a Switch option, but didn't break it down by gender. Neither poll included a None ... more
Sometimes sub, sometimes dom, and sometimes neither!
01/17/2013
Contributor: Gdom Gdom
Male and dom, although I'd be willing to switch sometime.
01/17/2013
Contributor: woodsdragon woodsdragon
For the majority of the time (like 90%) male (my husband) is the dom but every now and then we switch it up. It was not easy for me to switch at first, but it is getting easier for me
01/17/2013
Contributor: tovehunter tovehunter
Female, bottom-heavy switch, sometimes submissive, mostly just bratty. Also, I wish you'd had the option for Bottom/Top as they're different things from Submissive/Dominant...
01/17/2013
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
I like to switch depending on my mood.
01/17/2013
Contributor: spiced spiced
My wife and I are switches. I'm a more submissive and she's more dominant. But we each get the urge to switch it up sometimes.

I'm very flexible. I've had very submissive girlfriends and with them, I enjoyed dominating much more--but I did miss being dominated and fantasized about it a lot.

I also had a partner (male) who only liked to dominate; with him, I submitted completely and found it mostly satisfying--but I did miss being in charge.
01/17/2013
Contributor: spiced spiced
Quote:
Originally posted by tovehunter
Female, bottom-heavy switch, sometimes submissive, mostly just bratty. Also, I wish you'd had the option for Bottom/Top as they're different things from Submissive/Dominant...
That's interesting. I thought Bottom/Top referred to anal sex with gay men! What does it actually mean?
01/17/2013
Contributor: llellsee llellsee
I'm female and I'm Dominant.
01/17/2013
Contributor: RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
Female switch
01/17/2013
Contributor: Mrs.Tee Mrs.Tee
Quote:
Originally posted by spiced
I've seen a couple of similar polls, but bear with me, people. One poll broke it down by gender, but didn't include a Switch option; another poll included a Switch option, but didn't break it down by gender. Neither poll included a None ... more
Female and i enjoy switching
01/17/2013
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by spiced
I've seen a couple of similar polls, but bear with me, people. One poll broke it down by gender, but didn't include a Switch option; another poll included a Switch option, but didn't break it down by gender. Neither poll included a None ... more
I'm a switch.
01/22/2013
Contributor: roskat roskat
Female and more sub.
01/22/2013
Contributor: gwenevieve gwenevieve
Quote:
Originally posted by spiced
I've seen a couple of similar polls, but bear with me, people. One poll broke it down by gender, but didn't include a Switch option; another poll included a Switch option, but didn't break it down by gender. Neither poll included a None ... more
im female and im submissive

i enjoy switching sometimes but yannooo
01/23/2013
Contributor: gwenevieve gwenevieve
Quote:
Originally posted by spiced
I've seen a couple of similar polls, but bear with me, people. One poll broke it down by gender, but didn't include a Switch option; another poll included a Switch option, but didn't break it down by gender. Neither poll included a None ... more
im female and im submissive

i enjoy switching sometimes but yannooo
01/23/2013
Contributor: butts butts
I'm a female MAN and I'm a dominant switch. I don't much like being submissive.
01/23/2013
Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
I'm female and I'm more of a dominate switch. I'll be subbie for only a few special people.
01/23/2013
Contributor: bratcat bratcat
while i'm often a sub, my partner and i will switch and i will be dom (he loves it). i enjoy doing both!
01/25/2013
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I switch it up.
01/25/2013
Contributor: FLIPxMODE FLIPxMODE
both
01/25/2013