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01/16/2013 Have you ever played so hard you got rugburns from bedsheets?
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LavenderSkies 01/15/2013
01/15/2013 Ever been caught playing?
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xcapricax 01/13/2013
01/14/2013   (39) Switches: Do you switch with the same person?
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carenautilus 06/28/2012
01/13/2013 Question about being suspended
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Bittenflame 01/04/2013
01/13/2013 Does your identity as a Dom/Domme or Sub change over time?
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phoenixfire 01/10/2013
01/13/2013 Has your partner ever refused to engage in an activity which you really wanted to do?
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LavenderSkies 01/13/2013
01/11/2013   (128) When asked how many sex toys you own, do you group in BDSM toys with that or do you consider them to be different?
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Kayla 12/31/2009
01/10/2013   (43) For kinksters: S&M, D/s or both? Which do you engage in?
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solitudinarian 06/25/2012
01/10/2013   (277) What positions do you prefer your sub/bottom to be in during impact play (spanking, caning, etc?) Subs/bottoms, answer what position you prefer to be in. :)
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Red Vinyl Kitty 07/27/2010
01/10/2013   (96) Where's your favorite place to be bitten?
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dks210 02/15/2012
01/08/2013   (49) Who is Really in Control? The Dom/Master or the Sub/Slave
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USJT130119200518 05/06/2012
01/08/2013   (187) does blood turn you on?
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paralax 09/09/2010
01/08/2013   (96) Ponyplay!
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PonyPlay 08/09/2010
01/08/2013   (60) Knife Play after a history of Self Cutting?
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Happy Camper 02/17/2011
01/08/2013   (333) Do you like to be slapped across the face?
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LavenderSkies 12/19/2010
01/08/2013 Staying friends with a vanilla ex while trying something new.
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linnlinn 01/07/2013
01/08/2013   (231) Have you ever been to a BDSM event?
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Mocha98 11/06/2010
01/07/2013   (110) Feet play
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sugarOne 09/01/2010
01/07/2013   (80) Do you like wax play?
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Zandrock 07/13/2012
01/07/2013   (683) What is the kinkiest fantasy you've ever had?
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KnK 11/25/2010
01/07/2013   (105) Which age did you first begin to think about BDSM related fantasies and get your first thoughts on the subject
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pleasurehunter 08/28/2012
01/07/2013   (304) Condoms love or hate?
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sugarOne 09/01/2010
01/07/2013   (192) Found your perfect partner?
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mariedoll 01/05/2012
01/06/2013   (92) Have you ever or would you be interested in doing medical play such as with medical instruments like cathedars, exam instruments, etc.?
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K101 07/20/2011
01/06/2013   (172) How Old Were you When You Started Playing With BDSM?
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Madeira 10/23/2010
01/06/2013   (136) Forced Orgasms - Possible Repercussions?
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eroticmutt 03/01/2012
01/06/2013   (232) subs/slaves/masochists /bottoms: Do you get sexually turned on when pain is inflicted on you?
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CandidKinkster 05/30/2011
01/06/2013   (102) Are you into roleplay?
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briluminary 07/30/2011
01/06/2013   (22) Do you think they will ever come back in stock? :)
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DreamWolf 03/31/2012
01/05/2013 Do these hurt?
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EmpressLady 03/14/2012
01/05/2013 When did you realize you were kinky?
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Cowgirl-Cutie 01/05/2013
01/04/2013   (82) Have you ever played with fire?
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ellieprobable 06/16/2011
01/04/2013   (41) Guidance
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sugarOne 08/28/2010
01/04/2013   (81) I cant tell am I dom sub or a switch and which do you think I lean more towards?
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ss143 06/07/2011
01/04/2013   (97) Resistance fantasies--do you have them?
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Supervixen 09/13/2012
01/04/2013 New to Restraints
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talkless 12/28/2012
01/04/2013   (90) have you ever engaged in rape play?
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kawigrl 07/23/2012
01/03/2013   (8) Fetishes as objectification?
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fizzygato 12/31/2012
01/03/2013   (421) Do you like pain during sexual encounters and if yes, do you have a history of self injury?
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Wondermom 06/14/2011
01/03/2013   (80) Have you shared all of your fetishes/kinks/fantasi es with your partner
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Zandrock 07/31/2012
01/03/2013 Critical/ academic writing about BDSM/ kink communities
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fizzygato 12/31/2012
01/03/2013   (104) How would you define yourself?
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Zandrock 07/12/2012
01/02/2013 Starter FAQ for those interested in the BDSM lifestyle?
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Danielle80 01/02/2013
01/02/2013   (64) Do you like to have bruises left after play?
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Zandrock 11/08/2012
01/02/2013 How many of you were into bondage from the start of your sex life even?
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Kenneth Fort 10/09/2012
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