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Contributor: Nickisonehere Nickisonehere 05/04/2009

Hi,

Just wanted to ask a few questions about which costumes you prefer. This is the version for those identifying with the male gender. Most questions are of the form: Would you rather have your partner wear costume A or costume B?

There's another version for the female gender in the same forum category ('Relationships' then 'Sexual Fantasies'). Most questions are of this form: Would you rather wear costume A or B for your partner?

Let me know what all of you think!

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Discussion Topics

1.
Which of the following would you most prefer your partner to dress up as? You can select only one. (25 posts)
2.
Have you ever worn a costume for a partner before? You can select only one. (5 posts)
3.
Would you ever dress up for your partner if he/she wanted you to? If you have done this before, would you do it again? You can select only one. (15 posts)
Contributor: Nickisonehere Nickisonehere
Some questions about which roleplaying fantasy is most popular
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Yoda , guy4guyz420 , mrs.mckrakn , Lio , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , chantalgiardina , sixfootsex , Lady Marmelade , mb , Sinfully , dudemeister , squire , Lilitu , Jon S , DeliciousSurprise , mh11 , EdenJP , AnotherPrettyFace , eroticmutt , LunaLuthor , captainsgirl , TheirPet , BrittaniMaree , Eugler
24  (23%)
Jimbo Jones , Hallmar82 , EvaChangeN , Kaltir , sydney106 , Jesse , GONE! , ninja250 , Life's Little Secrets
9  (9%)
Nickisonehere , meganthomas , Rckt56 , dv8 , Modern^Spank^Anthem , Miss T , Solar Ray , Volund , jay28 , The Curious Couple , lovemuscle n cookie , ToyBoy , SiNn , meitman , Gimme more, woah! , CAKES , newfoundlust , pfoof , averageguyextrodinarypleasure , daveysgirl , angel142stx , unfulfilled , Ninja Wolf , TheHardOne , TransMarc , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , jmex83 , hall5885 , MistressDandelion , SMichelle , PassionCpl , panthercat23 , pcv , Stinkytofu10 , tortilla , Genderfree , Martiniman , rainingapricots , LittleHouse
39  (38%)
jakjak , mnc5051 , Rainbow Boy , pinkcupcakes , Ghost , Howells , Steve of Eden
7  (7%)
Sir , adirondacker , Lummox , The Nakanas , MeliPixie , tim1724 , sasweetheart89 , TiffyPixie , dhig , Vaccinium , Mommy2 , slynch , LuciFaery , buttmunch , Just Tigger , domsub1993 , Bignuf , Jammin14580 , Master DarkWolf , LilLostLenore , BlooJay , karenm , Trysexual , SecretKinksters
24  (23%)
Total votes: 103
Poll is open
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Contributor: Jimbo Jones Jimbo Jones
Whoops, I didn't read closely enough and answered these in the wrong place.
I'm not sure why, but I've always had a thing for the naughty nurse.
My top three would be:
Naughty Nurse
Upstairs Maid
Dirty Cop
in that order.
05/04/2009
Contributor: Nickisonehere Nickisonehere
Quote:
Originally posted by Jimbo Jones
Whoops, I didn't read closely enough and answered these in the wrong place.
I'm not sure why, but I've always had a thing for the naughty nurse.
My top three would be:
Naughty Nurse
Upstairs Maid
Dirty Cop
in that order.
School girl
Cop
Nurse

And it's okay, I just voted on the female one too (oops), and I made the thing.
05/04/2009
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I prefer nurse since it's easier to incorporate different "therapies" (toys) into the scene. Dirty cops are good for domination games, but I have no use for maids...
11/09/2010
Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
Who doesn't love a sexy French maid?
11/30/2010
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
out of these the cop looks the cuttest
01/31/2011
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
Ever since I saw the movie "Clue" when I was younger and saw how Colleen Camp filled out her French maid outfit , I've always preferred that costume.
02/10/2011
Contributor: Solar Ray Solar Ray
Well I'll admit I failed reading comprehension on this one as well and answered in the wrong places the 1st time as well.
04/04/2011
Contributor: sydney106 sydney106
I wasn't paying close enough attention either! But I think my choice still works
04/04/2011
Contributor: Mommy2 Mommy2
Maid
04/08/2011
Contributor: hornypoet69 hornypoet69
I identify with the male gender, but I don't like girls. Interesting that you took the time to phrase the question to include all possible interpretations of male, while inherently assuming that said male would be straight.
04/21/2011
Contributor: Jesse Jesse
He actually like the nurse becuase i can perform a full body "physical"
06/15/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
Some questions about which roleplaying fantasy is most popular
all of them lol
06/20/2011
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
i love cop costumes
07/11/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
Some questions about which roleplaying fantasy is most popular
The maid thing just works for me. Cop...too dominant, Mrs Clause...someone else's wife. Nurse...too close to work.Schoolgirl....too pedophile, ARMY Girl...Army is too serious for me to get turned on. Thus the French Maid, who can clean my clock...anytime. My wife has a FEW of these outfits....OHHHH LAAA LAAAH.
10/06/2011
Contributor: TheHardOne TheHardOne
I love the school girl.
12/09/2011
Contributor: AnotherPrettyFace AnotherPrettyFace
Ask my partner for his vote
02/16/2012
Contributor: samanthalynn samanthalynn
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
Some questions about which roleplaying fantasy is most popular
cop
03/27/2012
Contributor: TransMarc TransMarc
School uniform or cop uniform.
Whatever the gender of my partner is.
03/29/2012
Contributor: Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
Maid.
04/04/2012
Contributor: jmex83 jmex83
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
Some questions about which roleplaying fantasy is most popular
i would love to see my wife in a school girl outfit!
04/04/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
Maid!
07/16/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
Cop, Nurse, then maid.
01/23/2013
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
I am a women my husband doesn't dress up because I don't care if he does to be honest I find him sexy in a few of his work uniforms I am turned on seeing mechanic uniforms or similar to that
01/23/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
He loves when I play "French Maid" for him.
01/31/2013
Contributor: Nickisonehere Nickisonehere
Just asking some questions about costume fantasies
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
meganthomas , Hallmar82 , sasweetheart89 , Lucidity , pinkcupcakes , EvaChangeN , Miss T , sydney106 , The Curious Couple , ToyBoy , SiNn , unfulfilled , Breas , Just Tigger , Jammin14580 , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , hall5885 , MistressDandelion , eroticmutt , BrittaniMaree , amenti , SecretKinksters , pcv
23  (34%)
Nickisonehere , Jimbo Jones , Sir , adirondacker , jakjak , Lummox , mnc5051 , tim1724 , Rckt56 , Yoda , guy4guyz420 , Lio , dhig , Kaltir , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , Lady Marmelade , Solar Ray , Volund , Seharra , lovemuscle n cookie , Enci , slynch , meitman , Howells , Gimme more, woah! , Ghost , CAKES , dudemeister , jesseftm , newfoundlust , pfoof , Lilitu , averageguyextrodinarypleasure , angel142stx , Jon S , DeliciousSurprise , domsub1993 , ninja250 , Master DarkWolf , SMichelle , LunaLuthor , TheirPet , Stinkytofu10 , Genderfree , Martiniman
45  (66%)
Total votes: 68
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Contributor: Jammin14580 Jammin14580
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
Just asking some questions about costume fantasies
I'm a crossdresser, and I like to dress up for my girlfriend.
12/08/2011
Contributor: Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
Nope.
04/04/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
Not yet.
01/23/2013
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
yes maid one
01/23/2013
Contributor: Nickisonehere Nickisonehere
Just asking some questions about costume fantasies
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Nickisonehere , Sir , adirondacker , jakjak , Lummox , meganthomas , Hallmar82 , tim1724 , sasweetheart89 , Lucidity , pinkcupcakes , EvaChangeN , Kaltir , Beaners , Miss T , Lady Marmelade , Solar Ray , sydney106 , Volund , The Curious Couple , lovemuscle n cookie , slynch , meitman , Jackol , Gimme more, woah! , SiNn , CAKES , dudemeister , newfoundlust , pfoof , Lilitu , averageguyextrodinarypleasure , Jon S , unfulfilled , Just Tigger , Jammin14580 , ninja250 , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , hall5885 , MistressDandelion , SMichelle , eroticmutt , LunaLuthor , TheirPet , BrittaniMaree , SecretKinksters , pcv , Genderfree , Martiniman
49  (77%)
Jimbo Jones , mnc5051 , Rckt56 , guy4guyz420 , Lio , dhig , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , Seharra , Howells , jesseftm , DeliciousSurprise , Master DarkWolf
12  (19%)
Yoda , Ghost , domsub1993
3  (5%)
Total votes: 64
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Contributor: Sir Sir
For me really, it depends on the dressing up. I sometimes dress up on my own, like with devil horns and stuff like that since I'm Lucifer to my little girl, but aside from that...I'm not too into dresses. HAHA! Really, I've tried them on, but they don't interest me.
06/13/2009
Contributor: meganthomas meganthomas
I don't identify with the male gender, but I entered my husband's choices
11/07/2010
Contributor: guy4guyz420 guy4guyz420
Depends on the costume
01/31/2011
Contributor: EvaChangeN EvaChangeN
I would totally dress up for my husband, and he would dress up for me as well. I entered his answers for the polls
02/07/2011
Contributor: Beaners Beaners
Quote:
Originally posted by meganthomas
I don't identify with the male gender, but I entered my husband's choices
I, as well, entered my boyfriend's choices. I like when he dresses up for me, and he likes playing dress up as well.
02/10/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
Just asking some questions about costume fantasies
If my partner is happy i am would do it gladly
07/23/2011
Contributor: jesseftm jesseftm
I always feel silly dressing in costume for any occasion, so I doubt this would be any different. If she really wanted me to, I would, but I would be very hesitant and more worried that my bad attitude/self consciousness would kill it.
07/24/2011
Contributor: averageguyextrodinarypleasure averageguyextrodinarypleasure
I've actually been looking at buying a fireman costume to wear on her birthday
08/01/2011
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I chose for my husband. He loves when I dress up and his favorite fantasy is school girl. I've also asked my best male friend and his is also school girl.
10/05/2011
Contributor: ninja250 ninja250
Never have but if she wanted me to, of course I would.
01/11/2012
Contributor: Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
She would love to see me in historical costumes, I wonder if it will ever happen, W/we'll see...
04/04/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
But of course!
01/23/2013
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
yes I would and have before
01/23/2013
Contributor: Genderfree Genderfree
Oh boy oh boy I'd love it! I have to ask her now.
01/31/2013